Ex's

Discord · #1 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

Its werid

I keep having dreams about my ex with a new girlfriend. and in thos dreams I'm totaly jealous. and i do everything in my jeaolus bitchy power to get him back

and it works

But i don't really want him back... at least i don't think i do. He was my first boyfriend. really the only serious loving relationship i've had.

we don't see eachother any more, but lately i think about him alot.

Why?

Ex envy?

Partizan · #2 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

maybe because you want that type of relationship again and ur ex was the only one who provided you with such feelings?

you maybe thought of him as someone really special and now that u think of him with someone else you get jealouse because u want him [or the feelings that came with him] all to yourself

i dream about my ex's all the time .. we're still on good terms i think i might be having feelings for her again

Discord · #3 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

insight full

See he and i broke up like.. a billion times, but always got back together.

I think inside i'm just waiting to get back together with him.

Hard to believe its just over i guess.

Feelings suck sometiems eh?

flipmat · #4 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

ya, that whole ex thing.. i think u should just put wuts done behind u... unless the ex is something TOTALLY speacial and you think you might accually go somewhere with them.. if not, then its a waste of time, plenty of fish in da sea

Partizan · #5 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

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Originally Posted by flipmat

ya, that whole ex thing.. i think u should just put wuts done behind u... unless the ex is something TOTALLY speacial and you think you might accually go somewhere with them.. if not, then its a waste of time, plenty of fish in da sea

you cant compare something like that to just "plenty of fish in the sea" ..when you spend so much time and energy on someone for all those years ... you cant just throw them out and expect to get someone new who would be better than them .. if you do find someone new chances are that they will be less devoted and whatnot to you than your earlier partner
and yeah feelings really do suck.. but if we wouldnt have them we wouldnt be where we are today

flipmat · #6 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

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Originally Posted by Partizan

you cant compare something like that to just "plenty of fish in the sea" ..when you spend so much time and energy on someone for all those years ... you cant just throw them out and expect to get someone new who would be better than them .. if you do find someone new chances are that they will be less devoted and whatnot to you than your earlier partner
and yeah feelings really do suck.. but if we wouldnt have them we wouldnt be where we are today

ya ur right.. i didn't really type wut i did correctly.. but the point i was tryin to get accross is that ya you shouldn't throw those years away... ahh, i don't know how to explain it.. ill try again on monday once ive slept.. yeah

Discord · #7 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

I think everyone i've ever had feelings for.. was something really indiscriable.. I never dated anyone who i didn't have butterflys for.

but yeah.. He and I feel for eachother, first sight.
I was only in grade 9 when it happened. he was older.
We kept getting back togeter up until a year ago. when.. i said not nice things, and basicly told him to fuck off and die.

I never apoligized.
I never got to tell him how much I still care.

But, i don't know if i'm grasping at nothing.
Feelings that don't real mean anything but desporation.

flipmat · #8 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

wow, maybe u should call him up and let him know wuts up.. maybe a lil apology 2.. that would probably make u feel a bit better 2

Discord · #9 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

I know

I was totaly mean.

It kills me every day to think that i said thos things.

I have tried to find him, he moved. he's still in my town tho. just not at his old house.

i keep tracking.

flipmat · #10 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

kool.. keep tryin till u patch things up.. ;)

Partizan · #11 (**permalink**) Aug 02, 04

yeh im still tryin to find this chick i knew a few years ago .. she moved to north van .. ive been kickin myself ever since for not tellin her how i felt about her

but then again love is a strange thing .. if you spend enough time with anyone you can get along with, thats the opposite sex, and if theres some sort of mutual attraction you will ...eventually... fall in love

{SiNcErE} · #12 (**permalink**) Aug 04, 04

^^^ i dont think thats totally true, then how can girls and guys be best friends but never feel that way for eachother?
I could imagine i would feel the exact same way about my boyfriend if for some reason i couldnt be with him. But mabey your just holding onto him because you havent really moved on??

Partizan · #13 (**permalink**) Aug 04, 04

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Originally Posted by {SiNcErE}

^^^ i dont think thats totally true, then how can girls and guys be best friends but never feel that way for eachother?
I could imagine i would feel the exact same way about my boyfriend if for some reason i couldnt be with him. But mabey your just holding onto him because you havent really moved on??

they're friends because some kind of factor is missing ... a factor that makes u have that type of affection towards the person .. maybe its sexual tension or some kind of connections .. or maybe they just simply arent attracted in that way

if you meet someone when ur 8 years old and they're your best friend untill ur 28 of course ur not gonna be attracted to them because u grew up with them as a friend .. that person is more of a sibling than afriend

i didnt say that if you stick 2 random people together they will fall in love .. there has to be simple concrete things to pull them together