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Sep 18, 04
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She likes me... ALOT
So i met this girl at a bar last weekend, she eyes me from across the room walks on over says hi then makes out with me. score. i spend the rest of the night with her at the bar then she invites me over to her place to sleep over. yes we fucked. she drops me off the next day and stays to fuck some more. sweet. i give her my number. a couple days go by and my buddy emails me saying she contacted him asking for my number. ok i told him to give it to her so then she calls. she asks to come over the next day so yeah we hang out more sex. and surely it begins. she starts to hold me too much and call me baby and babe. listen broad i just met you. she then asks me whats going to come out of all of this.
well i tell her im not interested in a long term relationship seeing as i dont think i can commit at this present time. she says ok cool. calls me yesterday and asks to come over today after she gets off from school. i say ok she picks me up we go for lunch and everything is cool. comes over and we lay down and listen to music and talk. then she says "hold me" ummm right. i proceed to hold her. she then says your so perfect. and hugs me intensely. the whole day she called be babe and it drove me insane. she then invites me over to sleep at her place later on tonite i told her i'd call her back to let her know. she calls me as soon as she gets home and says my mom isint going to be home so your gonna come over right? i told u i would call u and let u know. this has to be the first time i have ever felt like the girl is moving too fast. i mean really its been less than a week and shes getting extrememly attached. what do i do. 
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Sep 18, 04
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NIP IT IN THE BUD!!!!
She may think your an ass. But seriously it's better then fending off some chick you don't want to be with. *edit* I didn't see the other couple posts under Rhia's Last edited by Kandyapple; Sep 18, 04 at 09:22 AM.
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Sep 18, 04
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go, spend the nite, sex...
thats the best advice i can give u...but yes, it does sound like she's taking things way to quick...how long have u known her? a few days?
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you've got a situation on your hands. fortunately you have options.
#1 - you have a penis. she has a hole. attached to your penis is a body, a brain, and hopefully a conciounce. while she digs your penis, you're not diggin, or at least fully respecting what's attached to her hole; You can continue ignoring her emotional needs/wants and pork till the cows come home, but there will be consequences and things will most likely get messy. #2 - You can break it off, an uncomfortable situation at best. And yes, she'll be hurt. But you may be hurt more when she comes to her senses and realizes you're not respecting her other womanly qualities, and attacks your pecker with a dull butter knife. #3 - You can ignore her phone calls, never see her again. This might seem the easiest of 3 options, with only the risk of eternal damnation and corroding of moral conciousness, but it's not all that polite. Chances are you may feel like a turd for a while, rightly so, and she'll be a little heartbroken for a while. But both parties will get over it. By choosing this option, chances are you'll run into eachother again (becuase it IS a small world) and this incident will rekindle, leaving bitter feelings in both parties. But hey, at least you have options.
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judgement by the eternal eye of God and the likely possibility of an eternity of gut wrenching fire and brimstone, all because it was hard to be honest to yourself and her.
and, my favourite, the chance she still comes after your wee'ins with some sort of derilect kitchen utensil.
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i find the occasional 'bitch you crazy, don't fucking talk to me' works in any budding relationship to keep the other party in check.
sometimes if i feel saucy i punctuate it with an eyeroll and hanging the phone the fuck up.
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Sep 19, 04
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So goat, you have all he options in order for the man penis to the hole...
but i have almost the same problem although a 3 week time scale... met a guy camping over the long weekend...mad crazy animal sex..got my number from a friend, we hung out a couple times, he takes me out but calls 4 times a day, baby names, buys me shit all the time...and i told him a few times now, i am not looking for love...or a serious relationship for that matter and he is all "cool" with that.... but whenever we go out..HE GUARDS ME WITH HIS LIFE! i just dont call him anymore...and now he wants to buy me a cell phone! *panic* think i should attack his penis with a dull kitchen knife??? i need some help!
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