Why is it...

[Lush]

I don't know if it's just my luck but it seems like people always come crawling back into my life when i'm moving on/moved on and it's already too late.

In the last year I've more seriously dated 3 guys, these were relationships that lasted from 2 to 5 months. In the past two weeks all three of these guys have in some way implied that they want to get back together with me.
The last guy I had a really hard time getting over, but 3 weeks went by and I was feeling like things were getting back on track.. and I was even on the verge of dating new people again.. and then he called.

"I miss you... I'm sorry... I fucked up... you hate me... I miss you... It's all my fault.. you're allowed to be mad at me.. can you give me another chance?"

Another one of my ex boyfriends I ran into at a party last weekend and he basically said the same thing.

I'm having a really hard time coping with this, and as much as I want to just forget about it and move on this sort of stuff drags me down.

It shouldn't.. but it does :(

Suggestions, similar stories??

[.anya]

i think that if it's still bothering you that they're doing it, then you probably haven't made your peace with the fact that things are _over_. when relationships end, and you start to cope with things in your own way, something as trivial as them calling back and trying to pull that kinda shit is going to bring emotions back. if you're sure that not getting back with them is the best thing, then ignore their calls/comments until you're okay enough to take all that crap without all the emotional baggage that can come with it.
don't let it drag you down, babes, you can't afford to at this time in your life! (you know what i mean, yes?)
<3

[miss.myra]

When that shit happens I always feel kind of violated.
I can understand why it drags you down.

[-ff-]

Shut them down!

Especially the 3 week guy. Sounds like he just realized that being single means not getting laid regularly and suddenly came up with a 'brilliant idea; as to how to solve that problem. Be the stonger person. You'll both benefit from it in the end.