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Nov 19, 04
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Attraction Vs. Skill.
So me and some one are having an arguement about...I dunno what you would call it.. anyways.. lemme explain.
They say.. that all you have to have is skill to make some one cum.. But I say.. that it takes more then just skill to make someone cum.. like you have to be attracted by this person too and what not. cause if your not attracted to the person in any manner.. how the fuck are you supose to get aroused? some one wanna give me thier in put?!?! 
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Nov 19, 04
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^^ i agree w. u.
well, for me.. if im super attracted to sum1.. i get arroused over the smallest little things. and having sex.. def would havta be the fact of the person attracting me. for a guy.. a guy can cum easily.. but for girls.. i think its jus gotta be if ur attracted to the person. sex is better if u care about the person... no matter wut, the sex wouldnt suck if u cared bout the person ALOT. IMO.
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Nov 19, 04
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jovi im confused....
now what will ido i bed :(
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Nov 19, 04
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Little of Column A a little of Column B...
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Nov 20, 04
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its all about skill
people who are practiced up are better with things i think comfort is a factor but not physical attraction but then im never physically attracted to anyone....
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Nov 20, 04
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Skill does play an importnat roll but if you aren't into the person sure you may still cum but the feeling afterwards will not be the same. It depends on if you just want to get off or if you want to have the experience!
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Nov 20, 04
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definately both. skill alone wont work, at least for most females. theres a certain amount of arousal that comes from being mentally turned on, and i would trade that for skill. but alas, skill is such an amazing thing if your partner indeed has it.
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Nov 20, 04
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You can't base your entire relashionship with someone based on their performance in bed. Sex is an emotion, not a way to pass time or have a good conversation. Good sex comes from strong emotions towards your partner.
Even if their penis is small or the woman has no tits, or her ass giggles, or you get dizzy when they are on top of you because one tit is swinging clockwise and the other is swinging counter clock wise and you get sick and vomit all over her.. As long as you two have mutual feelings for one another, attraction and skills come with time.
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Nov 20, 04
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I think that when it comes to skill, there's more to be considered than JUST how you perform in bed. It's also about what's being done when you're getting the girl to bed. Several things can be done before sex to help amplify the experience. For instance, music can often help relax the couple which helps with intimate situations.
Then there are things like getting her blood going first. An easy way is by eating a meal, having a dessert, drinking some wine, or even just laughing. Most of you have already figured this out already, and know that foreplay is useful. But that's because you're getting your partner's blood flowing allowing for accelerated heart rates and larger orgasms. It's true.
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Nov 22, 04
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Nov 22, 04
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^^^ hahahaha.
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Nov 23, 04
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I may aswell just please myself rather then have somone im not attracted to use skill. Last edited by Ree Fresh; Nov 23, 04 at 12:29 AM.
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