walking out on work

[mugsy]

and i feel bad about it.
i left all the kids there with an awful coach, i just couldnt fucking handle what he was saying anymore. hes a fucking dick, and i refuse to be treated the way he was treating me. i apologized to the parents, and to the executive, but i feel bad for the kids.
coaching is up there with art for me when it comes to the things i love, and hes fucking ruined it for me. i dont even want to be at the tournament next weekend.
nobody should have to put up with being disrespected at work, and i dealt with it for two months, and its just too much. i was actually raising my hand to slap him and i stopped myself. i dont think i have ever uncontroably raised my hand to anyone before.
awful people should never be hired to work with kids. the hiring staff knew he was a problem and thought i could "calm him down" obviously i couldnt, and now im stuck with an asshole of a person belittling me in front of the kids, saying things like "girls cant play\you just shot like a girl\dont just sit there like a woman, move" and taking everything i say and turning it into shit. oh and what i really enjoyed was when he told me not to encourage the kids so much, that they needed to be told what they were doing wrong in a tougher way. what the fuck?
we had to forfit today because of not enough players, so i felt the game should have been focused on simple skills, having fun and encouragment. it was our last game before our tounrament, so it seemed right. apparently this is not what you do. you are supposed to yell at the kids, throw things, and also tell them to be un-sportsmen like.
im so upset that i cant even paint.....

[Bitchin]

thats retarded megan.
I'm surprised you lasted that long.. I wouldnt beable to put up with anyone treating me or kids like that.. its just plain rude.

&^@$*^%*

I dunno what to say about him
geesh.

best of luck.

[clevich]

what sport is this for?

[Bobby_T]

water polo yes/no?

[mugsy]

^ yes indeed.

and i looooooooove water polo. and i looooooove coaching, but i hate my assistant coach. even the kids hate him.

[Ms.Chop]

cant they fire him..? or do sumthing 'bout him..?

sounds to me.. by the comments he makes, its sexual harrasement.. which u can file.. and then ye.. bye bye assistant couch.

[mugsy]

^ i would absolutely love that... but its the final tournament next weekend, so really its only two days left of working with him and im sure they dont want the hassel, and truely i dont want to cause the club the hassel.
but i am in the process of writing a letter to the association to see if i can get him banned from coaching. but im going to ok it first with the executive, maybe see if i can get their support.
its good to hear that other people are agreeing with me. for a moment i thought maybe it was me over reacting\being too sensitive. thanks everyone.