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Sep 13, 05
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Sep 13, 05
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my cousins wife - while they were engaged - was using depo (the shot) and she got knocked up. they were both in a very stable part of their lives, and just pushed the wedding date up.
most anti-biotics, reduce the effectiveness of birth crontrol although few botttles are marked. alcohol also effects it. like mistress spankme said there is way too much the common lady does not know about her bc. i was lucky enough (well not really) to have a pretty serious bladder infection and go into the emergency room and have an er doctor who sat there with me for about 10 mintues listing off everything that makes the bc pill less effective. i was a little terrified afterwards.....but its not really that hard to keep track of. anyways i dont think this is a situation one can predict or decided about until it happens to them.
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Sep 13, 05
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accidents happen. only abstinence is 100%.
if i were to suddenly find myself pregnant right now...? i wouldn't have said this a few years ago, but i would keep it. i'm 23, and will have a university degree that will guarantee me an above average income. and if i choose to get my masters, i'll be able to provide a life of relative comfort for my child. also, i have a mom who would give me as much support as i needed--including taking care of my child while i was at school or work. it would be hard, but i've come to realize as of late that nothing in life is random. things happen for a reason. i can't say that i'd make a kick ass mom, but i'd make an above average one. that's reason enough for not giving up the child.
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Sep 13, 05
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Well at this point in time being in a stable serious relationship where we are both very in love and treat eachother well, I would keep the baby if I were to get pregnant. We are both financially stable enough aswell so there would really be no reason to not keep a baby at this point. Anyways that is just how I feel at this present point in time I can't speak for my past though, when I was younger if that had happened I really can't say what I would have done, I just know I am glad it never came up.
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Sep 13, 05
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What would YOU do
if your son was at home,
crying all alone on the bedroom floor, cuz he's hungry, and the only way to feed him, is to sleep with a man for a little bit o' money and his daddy's gone, somewhere smokin' rock now, in and outta lockdown, I ain't got a job now so for you this is just a good time, but for me this is what I call life
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Oct 04, 05
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I would do whatever the gurl decided since, after the orgasm is gone, the guys rights are as well... Sounds fukked? It is. Abortion is up to the female from the systems stand point. So if she decides that you are becoming a father, best be getting to work cuz your child support is your deal now.
I personally don't think that anyone has any business bringing a child into this world unless they can fully support it. (no love will not fix all cuz it sure as hell doesn't keep the lights on) So unless you are rock solid stable and able to pay, love, educate and maintain a 100% dependant. STOP BEING SO SELFISH AND DON'T BRING IT INTO THIS WORLD, UNTIL YOU CAN. - ë
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Oct 04, 05
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well if it happened to a girl I was dateing, which is kinda unlikely unless the bc fails, (no unprotected sex for me unless me and the girl are tryin to have a kid) I would support her no matter what she chooses.....if she wants an abortion because she's not ready for a kid and wouldn't be able to take care of it properly I would support her......and on the other hand if she decided to keep the baby I would do what ever I could to help her raise the kid properly and help out with what ever I could...even if it meant working multiple jobs......and if we were serious enough (ie going out for a few years) I would most likely propose to her
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Oct 04, 05
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id slap the bitch
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Oct 06, 05
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and if i were pregnant right now,id keep it.Theres no way I could go through the torment of aborting another child.
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Oct 14, 05
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this is actually quite rediculous.. a bunch of you talking about what you would do.. you really cant say untill your in the situation. ive been in it. and i had my son. a lil more than a year and a half ago. and no, i wasnt ready for it at all. so he was adopted by family friends. and it still kills me thinking about him, but i know he's with people that are able to support him 100 percent emotionally and financially. and unless a person can comit their self 100 percent to their child.. its not worth it. children need 100 percent commitment. and it has nothign to do with whether or not you love kids or are a really mature person.. you find out when you get there. and personally abortions are something that make me want to puke. i dont agree with them at all. (not saying my thoughts are right.. just my opinion :) nobody yell at me here..) but there are SOOOOOOOOO many people that want to have kids soo bad and would be amazing parents and cant have kids for medical reasons.. and yet all these girls go in and have their babies killed every day.. its not right. i dont get it. end of it.. JUST DONT GET PREGNANT.. makes it all soo much simpler. that is all. betcha none of you knew that shit about me exept gratia..
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Nov 01, 05
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Nov 01, 05
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I'd go to the Maury Povich show and ask Maury to prove that I-AM-NOT-THE-FATHER!!!!!!
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