Wanting a relationship

nabs · #1 (**permalink**) Apr 15, 06

I have been going on for over four years saything that i dont want a relationship, and it was fun, not being committed. But nowaways I feel real lonely and I feel like I need someone. Ive been contemplating it for a while, but times that I think a relationship is growing between me and someone, something stupid always has to come in between.

I just feel like I have way more to offer than what meets the eye, and I would like to share it with someone special. Its really hard to meet someone, let alone someone you can connect with.

I have been making myself think that i dont need anyone, but the truth is I really feel its time. Im so mixed up right now i really dont know what to do. Single life is not for me any longer.

ja_raul · #2 (**permalink**) Apr 15, 06

pity

ebbomega · #3 (**permalink**) Apr 15, 06

go into it with that attitude and your relationship is doomed for failure.

i know it seems harmless to be in the 'i really wanna be in a relationship' mode but it can be dangerous. for one it could land you in a relationship that you don't necessarily want to be in simply for the sake of being in a relationship. fuck, it landed me into a 2.5-year one like that.

be in a relationship because you're compatible with the person, not because you want to be in one.

Silverwinged · #4 (**permalink**) Apr 15, 06

in with the JESUS CHRIST NABS

before jim.

ebbomega · #5 (**permalink**) Apr 15, 06

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Originally Posted by Silverwinged

in with the JESUS CHRIST NABS

before jim.

You must spread some Karma around before giving it to $userinfo[username] again.

Capt.AA · #6 (**permalink**) Apr 16, 06

I dunno...all I can say is..you never know who you are going to meet;) I'm in something right now that I know is going to be amazing and it totally came out of the blue. Just be patient..take a look around..pick the right one..

Good luck dude.

impure · #7 (**permalink**) Apr 16, 06

you can't fill the lonely hole with a person.

i didn't want a relationship but then i met someone who made me want a relationship again. we're the most unlikely couple, but it works really really well.

tiedye · #8 (**permalink**) Apr 16, 06

How To Dress Emo 101

Varney Rae · #9 (**permalink**) Apr 16, 06

Relationships...bahhh
humbug.

hardstylin · #10 (**permalink**) Apr 16, 06

id hold off nabs.

I forsee you getting pwnd if ur hurting for a gf.

Bevvy Swift · #11 (**permalink**) Apr 16, 06

true dat. lots of girls (and guys too) sense the neediness in thier would-be partners and exploit it to the fullest, sometimes without even realizing it. the moment you stop looking, you'll find someone

veN · #12 (**permalink**) Apr 16, 06

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Originally Posted by Cheez

the moment you stop looking, you'll find someone

quoted for truth!

sidekick · #13 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by Cheez

the moment you stop looking, you'll find someone

double quoted for truth.

wishbone · #14 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

jesus christ

was resurrected today, maybe going to church to meet a girl would have helped? :)

Silverwinged · #15 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by wizzfish

jesus christ

was resurrected today, maybe going to church to meet a girl would have helped? :)

rofl.

Scarface · #16 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

Church girls are sluts.

Skitzo_Style · #17 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

everything yall are saying i agree with 100%.

Nabs, what u need to do instead of searching a girlfriend, is to try and find your path in life. if you are already traveling on the path you desire, you will eventualy find a girl walking on that same path as you.

so instead of trying to find someone, find youself. then the girl of your dreams will find you.

good luck.

Bevvy Swift · #18 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

everything yall are saying i agree with 100%.

Nabs, what u need to do instead of searching a girlfriend, is to try and find your path in life. if you are already traveling on the path you desire, you will eventualy find a girl walking on that same path as you.

so instead of trying to find someone, find youself. then the girl of your dreams will find you.

good luck.

thats probably the smartest and most profound thing ive ever heard you say, andrew. word.

esoter1c · #19 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by impure

you can't fill the lonely hole with a person.

Only girls can do that.

impure · #20 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by 3507321C

Only girls can do that.

they try.
hurting.

Skitzo_Style · #21 (**permalink**) Apr 17, 06

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Originally Posted by Cheez

thats probably the smartest and most profound thing ive ever heard you say, andrew. word.

heh, they don't come everyday, but once in a while i can glimmer a little bit of wisdom.

it's an emotion that everyone is guilty of, and that is the feeling of wanting someone in your life to put you on track. this is the exact opposite effect that the person wanted in the end. by neglecting that feeling and working on who you want to be, as i stated before, you will find someone on that same path.

cinist · #22 (**permalink**) Apr 24, 06

^
whoever gets to have you in their life will be one lucky, and if i know you as well as i think i do special girl.

Skitzo_Style · #23 (**permalink**) Apr 24, 06

i really hope so. thank you! :)

miSsy_chriSsy · #24 (**permalink**) Apr 24, 06

Relationships just "happen" when the time comes, this sounds like you're just forcing for something.... which is unhealthy right off the bat!!

impure · #25 (**permalink**) Apr 24, 06

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Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

Relationships just "happen" when the time comes, this sounds like you're just forcing for something.... which is unhealthy right off the bat!!

that's how mine happened!