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Mar 25, 02
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Being abnormal..
I think I'm the strangest person I know and my friends sure as hell make me feel that way.
I consider myself a very independant person and I feel like I'm a loner cause, I'll go for a walk by myself, drive somewhere just for the view and sit there by myself, go to the mall for whatever reason by myself, go grab a coffee and sit there and read by myself and everytime I do something like this someone calls me on my cell and it's alway's the same routine, "where are you? what are you doing? your by yourself? Oh!" then they act all weird because I'm doing something by myself. I've noticed my friends pretty much never go anywhere by themselves and I find that strange, honestly I enjoy being alone more most of the time because I can do thing's I truly enjoy. Is this anti-social? I still chill with my friends on occassion, but I think most of the time I'd rather be by myself. I enjoy a lot thing's that would be considered artsy or flakey by some and I dunno. I think I'm growing even as a person and part of that growth is slowly leaving my friends behind. 
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Mar 25, 02
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i would go crazy if i didnt have time to myself...i love being by myself its so peaceful....:)..plus..i agree..sometimes i just get in moods where i hate being around ppl.....
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Mar 25, 02
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you are not unique. i would say you give yourself too much credit.
perhaps you think this will help you pick up chicks on here. *shakes head*
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Mar 25, 02
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i agree with stabhead...
it's like a fucking trend to be a loner with problems these days i'll probaby overhear some etnie-rhinocerous girls talking tomorrow -- "oh my boyfriend's such a loner! --awwwww you're so lucky! i wish my boyfriend didn't have any friends --hey look at that guy, he looks like he slept on a park bench last night! let's pick him up!!!" ...some sort of mutated post-grunge syndrome . it's cool to be pathetic .
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Mar 25, 02
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ya...i agree with rhianna on this one...i have never met a gurl who wants a loner guy..thats just crazy talk.
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Mar 25, 02
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i only have one friend who is confused by people needing time to themselves...and he's annoying as shit.
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Mar 25, 02
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nah..ur not abnormal..cuz lotsa people like to be independant..people need their alone time and lots or people would rather prefer to be alone then social...but yeah..ur not normal either..cuz no one is..wut is normal?..normal would probably be boring..=P~
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Mar 25, 02
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you guys dont understand, loner guys for those girls that are insecure. if he's social and happy all the time, he wont have time for her, and she'll get all worked up over it, make up accusations, etc.
loner guys, usually act like this to pick up chicks out of pity they will accept you and be like, "aww.. dont be so down". SAD. it looks like you are heading for some emotionally damaged girls, sweet. i hear they're crazy in bed. you should just hope they dont cut off your genitals.
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Mar 26, 02
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*sarc*
on second thought i like to be with ppl all the time...that's why i do lots of drugs with my friends and hang out outside of big raves and try to make more friends...we always do a big rail of jib and pop a cap before we sneak into the massif...it's sooo fun...you should come with us sometime someguy cause you are abnormal for wanting to be by yourself...you could even drive us...as for insecure girls...me and my friend really really like them...and someguy can go and pick all you insecure girls up and we can all sneak into the next big party....so don't worry someguy you'll always have us.
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Mar 26, 02
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Mar 26, 02
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Apr 01, 02
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Here's something for you all, I'm not out to pickup any girl's off of here so don't even waist your time, secondly I'm not saying I'm unique or special, I know I am both because everyone is. Lastly, I only posted this shit cause my friends made me feel like I'm some weirdo since I alway's do shit by myself so I was just wandering if maybe I am anti-social or something to that end. Don't alway's think so negatively of everyone.
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Apr 01, 02
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YOU SPELL LIKE YOU ARE SPECIAL.
psst. girls dig smart guys that can spell. is that what surrey education gave you? or are you 14? another point secondly I'm not saying I'm unique or special you made a post titled "abnormal" and you going off about how you think you're so indifferent. how is that not saying you are unique/special?? Last edited by stabmyhead; Apr 01, 02 at 05:06 PM.
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Apr 01, 02
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play nice little ones
the only thing they teach you to spell in the surrey educational system is your hardcore graffiti name so you can tag trees and those yellow power boxes... and 'cyre' can't even get that right ... his loco friends call him carolina or some spunk like that ...
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Apr 01, 02
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anti-social: opposed to social laws or to organized societies. likely, tending to interfere with or spoil public amenities...
So in the dictionary sense, it sounds like you are not anti-social, but even if you were, it doesn't make you "abnormal". I think diversity=equillibrium.. Some people are just more introverted than others... and some just need more space than most.. I personally enjoy having time to myself, not EXCESSIVELY, but I go down to pappagalos (nearby coffee shop) on my own with my sketchbook in hand, sometimes, if I have nothing else to do... It's just part of a hobby for you, it seems.. like it is for me... a way to keep me focused... wanting time to yourself, in my opinion is perfectly normal.. But it's up to you, and your own definition, I wouldn't let your friends decide who you are for you, if I were you...besdies, "anti-socail" is too strong of a word to describe wanting time for yourself, since you have friends anyways... it sounds more like your friends are insecure about being seen as "lacking social life"... maybe that's why they regard it as funny.. *shrug*
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