Fuckers that you cared about and they played games (boys and girls)

[cutienikki]

How do you get urself over it? easy question but when they keep toying with ur emotions and making you believe something that's not true...when you feel like ur on top of the world with them and they are "different" and then at the turn of a dime they do a 180 and they are a completley different person...

[mojo]

they are selfish. be grateful you found out the truth now, get passed it and raise the bar.

[cutienikki]

^^^ true enough, i hate to sound like a teenage girl but how do you heal the pain? what happens if u don't get "closure"

[Vitamin-X]

^
You end up bitter and jaded and become a cat lady!
Don't let it happen to YOU!
:)

[cutienikki]

Originally Posted by Vitamin-X

^
You end up bitter and jaded and become a cat lady!
Don't let it happen to YOU!
:)

LOL didn't we have this convo? :p haha where are you on msn?

yea at one point i was really bitter (becoming really bitter now) and i always said im gonna have 12 cats all named Mr. Mittens :(

[Heffy]

Take it from me. If the person does this to you, they are not worth you time. My ex has been fucking with my head for months and I finally decided NO MORE. By toying with your emotions, this person is unworthy of you. Remember that as cliche as it is "there are more fish in the sea" , becuase it is true, i didnt think so at first, but it is. I've been led on by a couple of chicks since my ex. and at first it bothered me, made me feel like there was somthing about me that wasnt good enough. Now i realize that its their loss, and i can do better. YOU CAN ALWAYS DO BETTTER!
anyways.
end of rant.

[Miche Me]

^damm good advice!

[cutienikki]

Thanks Heffy it was awesome advice, sorry about ur ex...

right now i feel like paintballing his house...

[LastWerd]

Yea, they are totally not worth your time!

It is so wierd how people will be in a relationship and just lie lie lie! It is a total game to them. Fucked up people just want to see how much they can get away with.

Sometimes the only "closure" you will get is realizing the person was a wack job! Surround yourself with your single friends; party, be young and have a good time!
The right one will show up when you least expect it.

[Vitamin-X]

Originally Posted by cutienikki

LOL didn't we have this convo? :p haha where are you on msn?

yea at one point i was really bitter (becoming really bitter now) and i always said im gonna have 12 cats all named Mr. Mittens :(

My Msning goes through stages alot then alittle!

And remember Mr. Mittens will always love you :391:
-Unless he's part siamese in which case he might be a complete bitch! lol

[Scarface]

Quit playing games with my heart...

[Briden]

when someone does that to you, act swiftly and bootfuck them out of your life. here is a little template, feel free to adopt to your own needs:

listen, and listen carefully. Please, leave me alone. totally, completely. don't call me, don't msn me, don't email me, don't communicate with me, period, Just pretend i never met you. if you happen to be where i am, i'll probably leave, but if i don't, i can't handle you, so don't interact with me. You can no longer claim ignorance, you know exactly how i feel, and how easy it is for you to hurt me.

i hate it to be this way, i wish i could be your friend, but today was probably the most painful day of my life, i nearly lost my job, i have no more tears left my eyes and nose are raw, I feel worse than I ever have, it's a miracle i didn't throw myself in front of a bus on my lunch break, but i kept my promise somehow, if only because i know how guilty you'd feel if i didn't.

i'm blocking and deleting you on my msn, and your email address.

about the money you owe me, KEEP IT. maybe that will teach me a lesson.

none of this is your fault, i did it to myself, but if you do not listen to me and respect my desire to be left alone, then you are just being cruel and hurtful, you know now exactly what will happen.

please, i'm serious, leave me the fuck alone, if i have to endure another day like today, i don't know if i can keep the promise i made you. I'm sorry, I love you, goodbye.

[gratia]

people who mess with your head either can't take care of their own emotions and need to control everyone around them so that they can feel in control. or they are just plain ASS HOLES! i met an ass hole not too long ago. but i decided not to let it get to me. life's too short to be linger over past mistakes.

[Prissypants]

Truth is, you never do...you take a piece of it and learn from it. You grow apart, time moves on and in awhile you barely remember them...

There is ALWAYS something more out there...What hurts now won't in a while.

[B-rizzo]

2 quotes to live by; and i learned these are true earlier this year (nothing like being dumped by your gf the day after valentines day :P )

1) What only hurts you makes you stronger.

2)Its better to love and hurt, then to have never loved at all.

[cutienikki]

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

2 quotes to live by; and i learned these are true earlier this year (nothing like being dumped by your gf the day after valentines day :P )

1) What only hurts you makes you stronger.

2)Its better to love and hurt, then to have never loved at all.

#1 is so true...and #2 though i duno i mean i duno if i would really like to love..bitterness/jadedness comming out..if it means getting hurt then i don't want to love....

[Ms.Tarantula]

Originally Posted by cutienikki

Thanks Heffy it was awesome advice, sorry about ur ex...

right now i feel like paintballing his house...

really cuz i feel like doing some vandalizing, lets fuck his house up :)

[cutienikki]

Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

really cuz i feel like doing some vandalizing, lets fuck his house up :)

I think im in love :p LOL

u got paintballs/paintball gun? or spray paint? hes got a REALLY nice house the only thing is that he lives in tawassen........fucker

a part of me really wants to go fuck his house and him up....but hes a fucked up guy who needs to deal with his shit and move on and not be so uptight about everything and or anything that doesnt go his way

[mojo]

tsawwasen huh...whats his name?

[cutienikki]

yea im not going to release that...just cuz his name isnt really common....

[mojo]

i understand. i have worked out there for a while so i thought i might know him, or be able to sniff up some dirt.

he is probably a coke head loser anyways likea lot of the boys in that town.

[B-rizzo]

Originally Posted by cutienikki

#1 is so true...and #2 though i duno i mean i duno if i would really like to love..bitterness/jadedness comming out..if it means getting hurt then i don't want to love....

But the feeling of Feeling in love is one that i know i definitly miss, and in those times you may find the one that you are looking for. I can understand how you say jadeness and bitterness comes from it, but it is sorta true, when you are in love you feel on top of the world... at least i did :)

[cinist]

the only thing you can do is leave it alone for a few years, then come back and kill them when no one will suspect you. it's the only thing that makes sense. it's going to take me like 9 years to get through my list, but i'm commited.

[cutienikki]

Originally Posted by cinist

the only thing you can do is leave it alone for a few years, then come back and kill them when no one will suspect you. it's the only thing that makes sense. it's going to take me like 9 years to get through my list, but i'm commited.

haha that's awesome! i love it!

Originally Posted by B-rizzo

But the feeling of Feeling in love is one that i know i definitly miss, and in those times you may find the one that you are looking for. I can understand how you say jadeness and bitterness comes from it, but it is sorta true, when you are in love you feel on top of the world... at least i did

yea i understand what ur saying and im the same way i miss "being in love" or at least feeling like im on top of the world and unfortunally that's how i felt with this dickwad, however now because of what he did im even more jaded and bitter than i was.....:(

Originally Posted by mojo

i understand. i have worked out there for a while so i thought i might know him, or be able to sniff up some dirt.

he is probably a coke head loser anyways likea lot of the boys in that town.

thanks for the reassurance mojo, however i like totally bombing his house with paintballs and wrecking his car...i won't however i like Cinst's idea about going back a year and then doing my scheming...plus its his parent's house....

[B-rizzo]

Yea its gonna hurt each time but that feeling, god damn that feeling is so good... But like i said what only hurts make you stronger, and if you made mistakes or your ex made mistakes you learn from them and they make you a better person :D

Dont worry Things can only get better :D!