that one little thing...

[set2hate]

When you think really highly of person, they are great in every way and then they do something and it's like, "WOAH didn't see that shit coming".

How do you deal with that? it's tough because you have to let people make mistakes and try not to judge them for those mistakes, love them through it. But on the other hand, it's like if they can do something like that do you really want to be around them? were they always capable of this but hiding it because they knew you wouldn't approve, or was it a one time honest to god mistake? I also feel bad for having this reaction, because i have another friend who commits this 'mistake' every time she walks into a 7/11 and i don't get the urge to shun her; but then i expect that behavior and so it doesn't feel like deception when she goes ahead and does her thing.
slowly but shurly i seem to be loosing more and more friends, simply because i can't be around the things that they are doing.

[Pussy*Kat]

maybe you need to find a new group of friends?

just a suggestion

but if you cant stand them, are they really friends?

[tiedye]

just live life drunk.

[impure]

i think i know what this is about

[Ragga_Wh0re]

who youre friends with is a direct reflection as to who you are.

if you associate with morally reprehensible people,youre on the same level as them.Even though you might not be doing the shit theyre doing,being friends with them shows that you condone thier behaviours/actions...which reflects very poorly on your character.

[impure]

to elaborate on that thought ^
by being friends with people who do such things is to say you think what they're doing is acceptable?
i think

[Ragga_Wh0re]

uhm bud you didnt elaborate on my thought,you just reworded it.

but anyways,the just of it is:

hang out with pieces of shit...you`ll be a piece of shit too.

[Prissypants]

Doesn't tend to phase me too much...One thing I've learned is that no matter how well you think you know someone, you never REALLY know everything they're capable of.

[Jen-E-03]

I know how u feel. I have a small group of friends because i sorta filter out the ones that would just end up bringing me down to their level.

[Prissypants]

Originally Posted by Jen-E-03

I know how u feel. I have a small group of friends because i sorta filter out the ones that would just end up bringing me down to their level.

I thought you liked coming down to my level?

[MissBehavior]

Oh dood. That first paragraph...I did that the hard way.

People suck. Some are just better at hiding it than others.

[Ms.Tarantula]

'that one little thing' doesn't seem like such a little thing to you..