Being Walked All Over

Pussy*Kat · #1 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

Grrr!

Doing so many nice things for ppl and getting nothing in return. And if it wasnt such a huge part of my personality I would stop (for all you smart asses out there whos comment was going to be; "just stop being so damn nice to ppl")

Gah! I wish ppl would just appreciate the things I do for them sometimes! Im not even asking for anything general in return. A Thank You or something would be nice....

So pissed!

project.one · #2 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

just stop being so damn nice to ppl

Pussy*Kat · #3 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

^ your lucky i cant bad karma you Matt

Silverwinged · #4 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

you just have to take more time and think about WHO is worthy of you being nice to. and who is not.

Revolver · #5 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

you get back ONLY what you put out.

now, if your putting out positive energy only to expect positive energy back to you then it will come back negative or not manifest at all....

it sounds like your expecting to be compensated for your efforts.wich could be the wrong way to approach it...

miss.myra · #6 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

You shouldn't be doing nice things for people and hope you will get nice things from people in return, it doesn't really work that way.

I know its hard to feel like you're being taken for granted, but kindness for others should really come without expectations. People could and often do show gratitude in a number of ways that we may not even notice.

If you free yourself from expectation, you will find yourself a lot less disappointed and upset at people.

Pussy*Kat · #7 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

^ I dont want to be compensated. I just am sick of not being thanked for my efforts.....

drives me crazy when ppl dont have manners

project.one · #8 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

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Originally Posted by Pussy*Kat

^ your lucky i cant bad karma you Matt

you love it! dont even deny it!

Heffy · #9 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

There's a balance between doormat and bitch (or in my case asshole). Don't let people fuck with you. If you do, they won't stop.

baby-phat · #10 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

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Originally Posted by Heffmeister

Don't let people fuck with you. If you do, they won't stop.

True story. And something I tell my friends when I feel they're being taken advantage of.

C_squared · #11 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

karma.

Pussy*Kat · #12 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

^ haha not so much

edit

C_squared · #13 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

it was karma for Heff.

Akeel · #14 (**permalink**) Oct 06, 06

i said it when i got it, but thanx again for getting me that head set :)

thechix0r · #15 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

Like myra said, even expecting a thank you shouldn't be necessary, the people that you are doing things for should just know to be thankful and say so... if they aren't they aren't worthy of your nice deeds. I have the same problem sometimes, but you just have to learn not to expect anything and you'll be alot happier with what you get.

Hope things work out Kat

crookedking · #16 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

the worst thing about getting walked all over is when they have muddy feet. it's always so difficult to wash my back when i'm in the shower.

B-rizzo · #17 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

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Originally Posted by Pussy*Kat

Grrr!

Doing so many nice things for ppl and getting nothing in return. And if it wasnt such a huge part of my personality I would stop (for all you smart asses out there whos comment was going to be; "just stop being so damn nice to ppl")

Gah! I wish ppl would just appreciate the things I do for them sometimes! Im not even asking for anything general in return. A Thank You or something would be nice....

So pissed!

unfortunatly this world is full of people who are selfish fucking assholes. Im the same way as you i only want a thank you every now and then but its so hard for people i guess.

Im guessing kat you live your life by "You get what you put into this world"

right?

Pussy*Kat · #18 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

^ Most of the time yes. If your lazy then you get shit all out of life. If you put yourself out there then you deserve to get something back.....

B-rizzo · #19 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

Yeeeeeeup, it comes with the territory i guess you can say, my advice, keep doing what your doing, the world needs more people like you and me out there :)

Ms.Tarantula · #20 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

Being walked all over? Kat.. you should know better then to let people walk all over you.

You can always do nice things for people (even I'm guilty of doing it) but when it comes to expecting things from others... HAHAHA... NO.

People who will actually meet you half way are few and far between.

r a m a z e · #21 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

baby if you give it to me ill give it you
i know what you want you know i got it.

tiedye · #22 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

^ ^
k.. that post actually made me laugh.

Ms.Tarantula · #23 (**permalink**) Oct 10, 06

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Originally Posted by r a m a z e

baby if you give it to me ill give it you
i know what you want you know i got it.

shutup!!

Pussy*Kat · #24 (**permalink**) Oct 16, 06

Im bumping this, cuz I harsh got burned again today!

Lesson Learned!

t-skywalker · #25 (**permalink**) Oct 16, 06

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pussy*Kat

Grrr!

Doing so many nice things for ppl and getting nothing in return. And if it wasnt such a huge part of my personality I would stop (for all you smart asses out there whos comment was going to be; "just stop being so damn nice to ppl")

Gah! I wish ppl would just appreciate the things I do for them sometimes! Im not even asking for anything general in return. A Thank You or something would be nice....

So pissed!

or when u do something and they say i will get u back for it blahblah and then ignore u