May 12, 01
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Siblings
I used to get along with my older bro, but in the past couple years, things have totally changed. He's at school down in Cali for most of the year now, but whenever he comes home, he makes my life even more of a living nightmare. He yells and screams at me until I cry. I swear, he did this every single day he was here about two months ago...even though he knew how pit bottom I was at that point. He comes into the room, yells the hell out of me (he has such a bad temper, that sometimes, I honestly am afraid that he is going to hit me), leaves...and then comes back 5 minutes later, and acts like nothing happened. It doesn't work that way buddy!! Geez. Especially since I take things in so easily. He's back tonight, but this time, I'm going to completely avoid time. Leave the house for the entire day if I need to. And if he does yell at me, I'm just going to try as hard as I can to brush it off. It's just so hard, cuz when he yells, it's always about really personal stuff, that totally breaks me down as it is. RARGH. Why can't we all get along??
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May 12, 01
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maybe it's the whole distance thing that's the problem? i'm not sure, Erica.
maybe you and him should just do more things together when he's up here...like go out for dinner or watch a movie or something. spend some good QUALITY time with each other and hopefully he won't have as many tantrums (sp?) if he's infamous for having a bad temper, try not to take his verbal abuse to heart (i know it's easier said than done).
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May 12, 01
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sisters...i do and don't get along with my 3 sisses...i must say i don't have it that bad..and i hope i never do..me and my oldest are pretty much ok..cept i'm afriad to get her mad at me...cuz i'm closest to her so it worries me when she gets mad at me...she's away rite now and i can honestly say i miss her tons...then my second sister...teh one i bitch it out with every once in a while cuz she just likes to be a bitch...but she;'s mostly gone and when she is here..she's with her bf so whenever we are together..its ok..well..most of the time..my lil sis and i get along one second and argue the next...she's gonna grow up to be a slutty snobby bitch girl..i can tell already and i wanna prevent it...tho sum things u can't prevent...i hate arguing with siblings...(not my younger sis tho)..with my two older ones..cuz they know more..they can say the real bitchy stuff...and when i cry...they jsut leave...as if their job has been done...and that just sucks..i hate heated arguements...i always lose...i can't fight back..i hate being the weakling...
erica..sumtimes distance helps cuz u miss seeing each other but in ur case..maybe all u need to do is reconnect with ur bro...like twig-e said....maybe stuff is happening to him in cali and he's releasing it on u when he comes back or i dunno...maybe talking to him more while he's away..or...yeah...jsut know in the end that he;s ur bro and he does luv ya no matter how much u guys don't get along..~
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May 13, 01
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Coinkidink...just as I hit reply on this thread, I hear my parents pulling up, meaning he's back!! Ahhh!!! :032:
Naw, it ain't the distance that makes us not get along. When he first left, I missed him like mad, and loved it when he came home for holidays. It's just...well, the past few years, I've spent a lot of time in and out of the hospital, struggling with big obstacles...and I guess it's put a major strain on the family. And in turn, he's agro at me cuz of that. Real agro. He gets mad at me, and blames me for so many things. It makes me feel like such shit, cause I blame myself enough as it is.
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May 13, 01
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my older brother is basically my best friend. we act alike, we say the same things, etc. it's weird. he's mr. Gap/GQ though. and i'm...well...anything but. however, we still act the same. he covers for me when i sneek out to go to parties. he's really cool.
but, we're SO alike that sometimes we get on each other's nerves. it's hard to explain.
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May 13, 01
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haha...me and your bro would get along. *remembers our ICQ convo* Thank goodness...mine has left me alone for the time being. I've pretty much avoided him. You know...*hug hug* *kiss kiss* Aiight, c ya! *hehe* It's not for too long. He's outta here in less than 2 weeks cuz he's working in Hong Kong all summer. He'll be back at the beg of August, but I think it shall be awright.
I think he started not getting along with me since he found out I was partying and doing drugs. He's been to one party, and he HATES raving. I guess not so much cuz of his experience, but moreso cuz he has a bunch of straight up old school friends, and they're all really messed up. He told me that one of his closest friends told him that the thing he regrets the most in life, was popping his first cap of E. So that's why he's soooo agro at me for going. Always puts guilt trips on me, and he ratted me out...that's how my parents found out. Now I just tell them straight out, but yeah...everyone under this roof HATES it.
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May 13, 01
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see that's the thing...
my brother only knows i go to partees...he doesn't know about the other stuff that sometimes comes with partying. he knows that i used to do that stuff but he doesn't know i still do. so yeah... he would kill me if he knew
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May 13, 01
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i have been through that
That used to the way me and my sis got along. She used to yell at me and say stuff to me that really hurt and all i would do was cry .What esle can u do.....i totally look up to and wanted to be like her. I don't know what happened but she went away on a trip ( for about 6 monthes)and when she came back she was completely different . It took a while for me to get used to it but now me and my sis are really close .
Azn_Sweet_e when ever he yells at u , i know it really hurts but i would try not to take it the wrong way .He could be going through something and he doesn't know what to do so he is taking out on u .But u should talk to him about it and tell him to stop treating u like that . I hope that it passes *smiles* if u ever need to talk icq me =)
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