Im such a victim...

Cowboy · #1 (**permalink**) May 24, 01

yeah...i guess u could say this is a continuation of my thread about stupid girls who lead u on...yes...once again..i have been spat on!!!
so yeah there's this chick that ive been gettin to know for the last while and stuff right...i used to have a huge crush on her way back at the beginning of the year and shit right but now 7-8 months later...(that length of time will come into play in a bit)...so yeah somehow i come across this girls contakt on icq that gets sent to me..(not the girl i liked) and i find out that she's friends with the same girl that i had a thing for right..so yeah i start talkin to her and stuff and she tells me that the girl i like is havin troubles with her bf of 7-8 months...(see...that shoulda been me) and stuff and so theyre gonna break up...now by this time ive told the friend that i "used" to have a thing for her way back when...and then her friend told the girl that i used to like her and shes all like..."oh fuck he shoulda let me know a loooong time ago"..cuz she kinda dug me right...and so we jus started talkin and stuff..about her and her bf and how she wanted to break up with him and all this shit but she couldn't do it and all this shit...so i jus talked to her and stuff right didn't try to move in or anything...and then all her friends start tellin me she likes me and stuff right..so im like killa right and we start gettin kinda close and stuff...but her bf has no idea....
so then grad camping comes and i was not expecting her to be there at all...but then at about 1230 iguess...she fuckin appears out of nowhere..u can imagine my drunken delight...as well as my extremely high on some other shit which is bad bad bad....and on top of this..she tells me she broke up with her bf for me that day...i take this as a sign..=)..so we drift into the background from all the partying and we have sleepin bags on the hood of adams car right jus talkin and lookin at the stars for an hour or so and we start gettin close and such..we're both a lil tipsy so we start kissin and stuff but we're fuckin COLD (we're in squamish)..so we move to the back of adams vette..hehe..we're there for a bit and then yeah my friend ali comes up to the door and she's like yeah....shane and his friends are here and theyre surrounding the car he wants to talk to rachel right...im fucked so im kinda trippin.. shanes her bf..and neither of us expected him to be there....so she goes to talk to him and i chill wit ali and his friends leave and shit...nuttin happened that night or anything like that right but i could tell he was not happy despite him telling her that he wouldn't start shit because he wanted her to be happy and stuff right...so nothing happens..and after camping we're still down and stuff right and i keep seeing her...but then today she tells me that theyre are some issues...that's an understatement i can tell u that...turns out shane wrote her a letter making her all these promises and such...theres no chance for me....2 weeks is nothing compared to 8 months right...so yeah..i now take a back seat...well not necessarily..i don't want the back seat so ive decided to get a ride some other way..but the thing is...i harsh dug the chick..and she's still tellin me she likes me and that im the nicest guy she's ever met....(i get that alot)...three times this skool year to be exact...three times now i have pretty much had the girl in the bag and they change theyre minds or either go back to their exes...im soooo choked it's not even funny...and to top it all off...today one of the bf's friends comes to my skool today to talk to me...i was in class but he told friends of mine that im in alot of trouble and shit..i don't really care all that much but i don't wanna fight for a girl that i have no chance of getting...i guess if he started shit with me she might dump him right but...i dunno...i had a test in the block that my friend came to tell me about this guy lookin for me and i couldn't think of shit..i was all fuckin tweakin cause i think im gonna have to fight when i get outta class..but turns out the guy isn't there anymore and he jus wanted to talk to me or some shit...fuckin hurting...i jus wish girls weren't so retarded when it comes to making decisions...
i mean..i knew that it wouldn't be wise to go out with her so early after she broke up with him right..but iwasn't gonna take it that far for awhile...guess i shoulda waited even longer before i let her fuckin seduce me...grrrrrrrr....=(

corrie

omega_image · #2 (**permalink**) May 24, 01

fuk yeah man i totally know how u feel.......fukin gurls man........yet always the guys gets blamed or somin......i mean in our cases we dont do shit! just sit there, be nice, and try to have a good time......what do we get? left on the street.......grrr fuk man seriously i wouldnt mind moving and living in solitary.....but watever.....blah hmm all i can say is dont worry, there's someone out there for u! just may take a while for u to find her.....or for her to find u!
-adam

c.tard · #3 (**permalink**) May 24, 01

ouchies..sorry 2 hear bout tahts! damn.. alotta girls can be stupid like that (oh i'm a girl 2..but i dun do that) meh...not all girls will be like that tho...not much else to say but meh..i dunno..

you'll find a dope girl one day who's not like that..

but oh ya..the way i see it... (and don't take this to harsh or anythign cuz i dunno many details) but i wouldn't go forsomeone who kinda went for meeh while still with someone.. i mean the way i see it is..if they did it to them..what makes it so they won't do it to meeh?? meh..maybe the whole situationw as a lil different..i forget kinda..but ya.... i'mma shaddup now..

BeatItFarmer · #4 (**permalink**) May 24, 01

Girls fuck guys up....gotta have em though....I know what it's like to have to deal with ex bf's especially when they are a lot bigger then u....but sometimes it's worth it..... so maybe if u really did "dig" this chick then u should stay with her for awhile longer...

stabmyhead · #5 (**permalink**) May 25, 01

ahhh... the classic talk to you about all my guy problems and lead you onto thinkiing i like you then going back to my bf cuz we've had more history together and we're comfy together but i'll leave you hanging cuz i'm a bitch. excuse my rudeness. but man. this is horrible.

GIRLS THAT DO THIS = SHIT. not just any shit. ever eat like bean burritos and drink and had like raveoli or like mcdonalds and then took a big dump. thats the kinda shit. shit so bad that its BLEEEDS. err. k that was sick i admit.

i dont trust her. like honestly. i really dont trust girls like that. they make me sick. they are the ones that screw up the good guys. she isnt ready for anything. she is being really immature and grade 9 about this. dont fall for her trap. she is just playing games. trying to see if she likes you while strining her bf and you on ropes. ive seen this kinda shit before. the girl doesnt care about either one of them most likely and is just using them. you deserve better.

yoko* · #6 (**permalink**) May 25, 01

yikes

she must be a kewl girl n all.. but gee how the heck could she do that to you it sounds to me like she was lonely,.... or wut not or she felt like she wuz losing a chance with he bf, but once she gets her "oppurtunity" to make things better she jumps right back to it...

sounds like she fucking with your mind... and wuts with this bf?

my theory is, that if your gonna go for sum one, do it properly... even thought she broke up with her bf before runnin to you, she still hadn't completely gotten over him. if she had then she woud't have had jumped right back into his arms when he started his apologies and wut a fool he is to not realize wut he has until he's RIGHT ABOUT TO LOSE IT...

but hey, that's how it is right? don't no wutchoo got till its gone.

dragon boi · #7 (**permalink**) May 25, 01

shitty man shitty but hey theres always more fish in the sea its all good man smoke a blunt it will make u feel better hahaha :Somatic: yeah its all good
whatever!

moon*petalz · #8 (**permalink**) May 29, 01

*sigh*
me and you seem to have so much in common when it comes to being fucked over by the opposite sex. it's true, you are a sweetie...as far as i know....and it makes it easier for you to get hurt. i don't really know where i'm going except that ya, getting involved with someone that just got out of a relationship is probably not a good idea. and it's not always the girl(in your situations) that change their mind....i think you know what i mean. anyways...you will find someone...but it's not gonna be easy, and it's not gonna be the next girl that comes along(probably)...it takes time.it always feels like it's the girl(in guys case) or the guy(in girls' case) that's doing the retarded fucking overing(ha)...but i guess some people just aren't meant to be....you always say that girls do this to you...but i always say that guys do it to me....whatever...i'm rambling. relationships suck period. no they don't. i guess they can be good....you just gotta wait for the right person to come along...ya know?*sigh*...i honestly don't know what to say...in a way your lucky that you find as many girls as you do....some others aren't so lucky:(
i guess it's your charm and all around sweet approach....whick girls may take advantage of....don't lose it....just be aware of it.
anyways...i'll stop now...this probably helped ...ah....not at all....so i'll go...

but cheer up...someone else will come along and you will be soooo happy....just wait....it'll come when you least expect it.

luv liza

Cowboy · #9 (**permalink**) May 30, 01

i seeeeeee said the blind man pissing in the wind......its allllll coming back to me now.........

i know what u guys are saying though about gettin involved with a girl that jus got out of a relationship....i knew that beforehand as well....but the circumstances were a lil different and i thought that there could be an exception...well at least i did when i was fuckin hammered and fucked on jib and e and stuff....(whoa...what crazee memories)...so yeah..i guess i got ahead of myself//cuz i was plannin on waitin a month before i actually started the tru G mackin..but hey..we were both tipsy...she came up there to see me...and broke up with her bf..FOR me...so i think u can see how i was mislead a wee bit....

and liza...yeah i caught on...i guess we can all be pricks at one time or another....

i don't really want to put all the blame on her right even though she had more control of the situation once we started seeing eachother kinda...cuz i have been in the same position before...jus i was in shanes position and i too got the girl back...grrrr..shoulda seen it comin...but i guess i was blinded by her beauty and charm...or i jus got too anxious cuz i was likin her double each day...

and c-tard
ur right about the thing how i shouldn't have done it because it might happen to me...i never thought of that beforehand...but i can tell u i sure as hell have after the fact...i mean like i was thinkin if they didn't work out and we were to hook up or somethin down the road that would obviously be something that i would have to think long and hard about...do the pros outway the cons???
if u saw this girl..u would have a fuckin hard time trying to find enuff reasons not to give her a second chance....grrrr...i guess thats the nice guy talkin....or mr happy...pffft...same diff..heheheehe....jj

whatever though...relationships are fucked...unless u find a partner with the same moral standards...and i tell u its hard when ur one of the few who are respectful and courteous...but i guess thas my own for expecting the same in return....

corrie

cLinK · #10 (**permalink**) May 30, 01

Corrie

i can totally see how you thought it was an exception. BUT, i think you know now it was a bad idea... i have seen patterns in a few friends of mine that like, match up with yours.

For example... we will take my friend um jessi. he was in a long term relationship, and then was single for a while. he met this girl (i am going to call her "R", because i feel bad releasing all these names).
anywho, R had a boyfriend, but she liked jessi too. So they started kissing a little bit, and eventually this led to R breaking up with her boyfriend for jessi.

then one day R's ex boyfriend goes in for some operation that makes him go like, blind for a few days. and, since R and the ex had so much history, R went to take care of him. this made jessi a little mad... but it was okay.

then R started to spend more time at ex's house, saying they were just freinds... even though she "fell asleep on the couch"

anyway, to make a longer story short, jessi really liked this chick. he was like, head over heels for her, he jus thought she was great. and then one day, without that much notice, R calls him in tears saying "I'm getting back together with my ex"

you don't want that to happen? do you corrie???? i think that is what happens when you don't give people enough of that "resting space" (hehe for lack of better thing to call it)

i don't know why i told you that, cuz i think you already realized it... ah, maybe it will prove to you that you're not alone, and other people go through it to

anyways, i wish you good luck in finding a partner, just remember, don't look too hard, or you'll never find anyone, and you never know, the right person may be right under your nose!!

-colleen :Clink:

Cowboy · #11 (**permalink**) May 31, 01

whatever...im still like cool with the girl and she sorta flirts with me...but i know that she will probably have a long while before she breaks up with him let alone get over him so whatever...is all good...as was said..plenty o fish in da sea...

corrie