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Sep 12, 02
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being threaten by your parents....
I 'm soooo fucking sick of it.. everytime school starts they threaten me with the whole 'get out of our house factor'..
I'm sick of it for christ sakes! like dont they want me to finish school? I'm trying to make an effort here to finish it but all I get it.. the ' be quite or get out" thing.. arent I allowed to have a fucking opinion? yeha, ok.. I know most of you are gonna give this whole teenage drama with parents thing.. but its been happeing for about 5 or 6 years now.. its a consistan cicle that wont end unless I actually leave!! and the fucking thing is I dont have to do anything.. I can ask a question nicely or tell them comething nicely and they flip out on me.. just like today.. GRRRRrrrrrr I wanna leave but I got school.. and I dont know what to do.. I'm tierd of all this shit!! /me Cries 
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Sep 12, 02
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merrrr........
I'm not fucking kidding here... what I posted is the truth and I'm like actually scared and dont knwo what to do.. fuck maybe I'm just stupid for postin it on some raver board and expect some one to understand. and know where I'm comin from.. fuck.. /me continues to cry
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Sep 13, 02
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All I gotta say is that parents are weird and they don't ever understand shit. Its like night and day with them, at one point everythings cool and they don't mind anything, but tha next everythings my fault and that leads to them bitchin about other totally unrelated topics and complain about everything.
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Sep 13, 02
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^^^I wouldn't doubt it if they did.. though today my mom called me and left a msg saying they want to where I was and how I was but didnt say they wanted me to come home
 but she only called me to remind me about my doc appointment.... LAMEas for me and my parents getting along.. I dont get along with my mom at all as for my dad.. we did till last night.. heh.. so yeha.. its giegh. I left last night and I'm at krista and they denie things.. its so fucking lame.. merrrrrrrrrr... ugh.. I wanna go on.. but I dont...mer...... I hate this. I want it to END!!!!
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Sep 13, 02
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i'd say every kid goes through the "if you dont listen then get outta the house" from their parents. i cant think of a really good explanation why they would say that to their kids since i dont have teenager kids to deal with myself. i know i've had my share as well as my sister with the "get outta the house" business but its not because my parents hate us.. its cuz we piss em off :toasted: in the end our parents too are humans and are far from perfect.... so if they get pissed off, usually theres a reason. it may not be directly your fault theyre pissed.... they might just be letting out some stress after a shitty day at work....
but seriously... what i think you should do is just calm down for a bit and try to understand why your parents are giving you shit... if in the end all you can really conclude is that they are giving you shit with bad intentions rather then the fact that they really care for you, then i guess its time to move out and get on with your own life.
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Sep 13, 02
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^^no shit
k-pryde, I didnt do anything though.. thats the thing... I came into the kitchen and saw that something that belongs to my firend had been used I asked them NICELY not to use it and my mom flipped on my and told my dad to get on my case so he did... and they flipped out on me and told them no to tell them what they can and cant use.. fuck they can use my things if they want.. I dont really care as for my freidns shit.. you dont go and use it with out asking especially when their not around... ugh. I dont even use my friends things when there not around!I respect there stuff... but as for being calm.. I have been I didnt even argue with them when they were yelling at me... i just sat there took it and walked off and I was rather frghten cause my dad has never and I mean never in my life time yelled at me.. it was my first time hearing him raise his voice at me and tell me to be quite or get out... merrr... and dude my parents dont care that I'm not at school.. LAME merrrrr... some fucture they want me to fucking have!
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Sep 13, 02
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have u considered sitting down with both of them, and telling them how u feel? doing this may show that u are acknowledging that there is friction between u and u're parents, and by talking about it with them, it may show that u are working at trying to resolve it.
in the mean time, don't bottle it up inside of u........ if i'm in a rough period, i express it in some way (ie. draw, write a poem, play my piano, etc). or talk with someone u trust. :)
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Sep 13, 02
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Why not just get up and take the initative to move out? Get a job, get some money, and tell them you're leaving.
what that could do is either a) scare the living shit out of them and then have them apologize/admit they're wrong/tell you they really want you to stay or b) you'll be out on your own and happier living in a less negative environment, not to mention when you start supporting/doing things for yourself, you feel a lot better about life..and well, yourself. It's a win win situation, really.. I moved out 1 month after I graduated highschool and I haven't regretted it yet :)
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Sep 13, 02
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JuicE, i talked to my parents many ties but what I tell them goes in one ear and out the other and were back to square one! I've tried everything with them... heck I even went to counsling with my mom.. ack...
Myra, I'm actually did move out then moved back in cause of school.. I've been home for about 3 weeks now and all I get is shit. so yeah I will move out again.. and I know they dont care if I do. Cause my mom hasnt been askin me to come home. So I'm still trying to get a job(have been for the year, lame I know) and save up and get out. I think krista will be movin out with me. GO FIGURE! so yeah.. in time it all well be delt with. but I'm just sick of being threaten.
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Sep 13, 02
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i don't know if i'm in a position to offer a suggestion that would be useful to u, as we don't know eachother. all i can say is surround ur'self with positive people, those who know aggravate, or yell at you. this friend of u'res.........krista..........seems to be just that type of person. good luck. :)
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Sep 14, 02
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u want thenm dead? u know who to call.
actually that may not be the most constructive soultuion..if you ever need a place to stay, or someone to talk to you can alwys ive me, a acall..im there for you girl...your a good person and ill be there to heklpl you throught these trying times..i thing you got my number...give my cell a shout at 6047216562..and all other details will be discussed then. Last edited by SEAN!; Sep 14, 02 at 04:01 AM.
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Sep 15, 02
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jovi sweetie...i know how u feel...i really do....cept i actually am moving out in nov....renting a place w/ my friend....getting another job so i can make rent each month....im still goin to school tho...cuz im gunna move bussing distance away.....just its gunna be sooooo hard...harder then i thought when i told my parents...but i can do it....for the first few months while getting used to it will be hard...and getting things on track and everything....but it all works out in the end....if ya wanna come out and live in delta..or maybe surrey then we can make room...my only rule is...i have to go to school....and be able to make rent...other then that...any thing goes in my life...
im want to move out because its not working living at home....my brother even lives in vancouver and at friends most of the time cuz he doesnt like it here.....but he cant get a job either....so he cant move out...and my sister cant afford it right now anyways....but working 2 jobs (7 days a week) and school and homework....i wont have any time for myself....and it'll be hard....:(...oh well....i'll live...but yea...if ya ever need a place to stay after nov 1....im here for ya
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Sep 16, 02
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Myra, yer right!
But yeah.. looks like I'm moving to van or WR.. and shit.. grrr... and the stupid bitch that moved in my house should DIE. fuckin whore!*coughseankillherformecoguh* but yeha.. in jan I'm moving to tdot and shit like that.. right now I'm just fucked.. trying to stay alive while being sick*cough* grrr... but yeha.. as for calling peeps I'm horrible about that, Sean. I think Ijust feel guilty talking to anyone about my probs or having them help me or something.. heh.. but we'll see what happens.. merr... I may not being around a comp.. so yeah.. need to call..?or something.. 604.313.2695
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