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Dec 27, 02
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I hate friends!!!... the problems
omg.....
grrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!! I have had this friend for about a year now and well she just fukin stabbed me in the back!!! We used to lend each other everything. I got all my stuff back luckly but I still have some of her things. Our friendship got to the point where she would ask me if I wanted to go to the mall and I would go with her every time. But when it came to me asking her to go to the mall with me she would always say no. I got this jacket for about $80.. and well for me thats quite a lot of money.. due to me not having any money at the moment. She borrowed it and then gave it back the other day.. she then wanted to borrow it again cuz she was going to whistler so I let her. Havent got it back since. It has been with her for about 4 months. Since me and her were best friends she used to wear it everytime we went out. My mom then just said, since she has been borrowing the jacket that she just has to pay $30 for it. And she is refusing to do so... cuz she said that she has only worn it about 4 time.. BS!! Not only that I have been through shit with her. For one thing when I slept over at her house.. her and her boyfriend fucked right beside me.. how disrespectful eh?? Not only that her bf... well.... oh gawd not even going to get into that.. :soak: IT hurt me too!!!!! fuckin bastard!!! And yea I do admit that I have been doing drugz lately. I did get into doin acid a lot. Learnt a BIG lesson.. and now regretting it. U learn from ur mistakes. Well when I did go out and do acid... I told her to tell my mom that I was staying at her house for the night.. what does she do?? Go and tell my mom im doing acid at sum guys house... next thing u know my mom yells at me.... Im hating it... It feels like all my friends are now stabbing me.. and soon its gunna kill me.. No im not meaning sewicide.. I mean like Im not going to be able to trust anyone... or do anythin with anyone. geeze!!! im so not in the best mood... I told her to take responsibilites about having other ppls stuff and this is her responce "take responsibities .. lol you should learn from me .. atleast i don't do drugs and stay over and guys houses and shit .." argggg! I need to get out of this house!!!! Anyone of u ever had any problems with friends? Any bad situations?? Last edited by sweet~kandy; Dec 27, 02 at 05:44 PM. 
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Dec 27, 02
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doesn't sound as though she's much a pal.
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Dec 27, 02
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not anymore I can tell ya that!!
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Dec 27, 02
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*hugz*
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Dec 27, 02
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i totally ditched most of my polish freinds because they all seem so fucking fake to me and probably dont really even like me...so i haven't chilled with them since i got into that fight @ studio...its as if those guys expect you to show off and suck up to them because they're sooooooo cool...so ive been chillin you guys and some freinds from burnaby more lately
hell half the time it seems like u guys dont even like me lol
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Dec 27, 02
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and people wonder why I trust no one.. hmmmm....
I hear ya tina.. haven't had something like this happen.. but I've had similar when I was a lot younger.. just be REALLY picky with who you trust let alone dont just give people your trust make then EARN it.. :)
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Dec 27, 02
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Being picky.. sounds like a good idea..
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Dude were all still friends.. PLUR *sorry if I sounded a bit out of it there*
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Dec 28, 02
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Hhahahaha I'm glad none of my friends are stupid.
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Dec 28, 02
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OMG tina i completely know where u are coming from.
As of last week i no longer talk to my best friend of 5 years. Fuck we had been through it all. about a year ago she started treating me like she was better then me, and in the summer she hooked up with a guy i was together with at the time. yeah i understand that we were all drunk n stuff but still i would have NEVER ever done that to here no matter how fucked up i was, but the thing that hurt me the most was that i didnt find out of her and i later found out that she never even planned on telling me. I didnt talk to here for the whole summer. Then in the middle of september it was her birthday and i though it would be nice of me to call and say happy b-day. so i did, we started talking again and she kept saying how she wanted to come to another party with me in van n stuff so everytime i went to vancouver i would let her know and ask if she wanted to come. then last week i asked her if she wanted to come over with me for nye and she got all pissed off and said thats all i ever talk about, she said i was going to fuck my life up and end up a crack whore and tired to get all these twinkie sluts to lip me off (ha ha i had fun with that though). needless to say i dont talk to her anymore. Anyways just thought i would give u my story and let u know that ur not alone, i'm pretty sure we have all be there, me and her were best friend and we used to lend eachother everything to, but i still dont have half my stuff, but whatever. I know what its like so if u ever wanna talk let me know Dont worry tina i love u *hugz*
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Dec 28, 02
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yeah friends are the fucking worst eh?
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Dec 28, 02
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^^^
ive never cheated but all the guys that i hung out wiht before were players one of em had a gf for 3 years she found out like 10 or 15 times he cheated on her and she took him back every time
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Dec 28, 02
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looks at stabby's posts... hahah...
anyways... heh... #1. why would you let her walk over you like that? #2. wtf? she had sex with her b/f beside you. haha, that's sad. again look at #1. (/me looks at stabby's post.) #3. why are you doing acid? #4. Why are you doing A LOT OF ACID? that's just stupid. honestly. Is this how you want to remember yourself? I want you to think about this for a minute. Don't just continue to read. Think about this please. How old are you? 16? Acid, seriously. bleeding your brain cells at 16. Is this something you would brag about? Is this something you want to remember in the future? #5. Two wrongs don't make a right. You're both wrong. She's being a bad friend and you're making poor choices in life. You think she should stand by you unconditionally, which she's not doing. But you as a friend should not put her in a situation where she has to bitch you out for doing too many drugs. 6#. There is nothing wrong with being burnt a few times, it makes you wiser. or jaded. and finally in regards to your question. The only problem I seem to have with my friends is that I never see them enough. Maybe you should choose your friends more wisely. I do not know Neal but he seems to stick up for you often.
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Dec 28, 02
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Im not braging bout it, my whole point of the story or lil thing I wrote was to say what a bitch she was to me. And how pissed off I am at her. If u guys dont like the fricken post then next time dont respond... Krista: Im not friends with her anymore... why would I be when she did all that shit to me?? Last edited by sweet~kandy; Dec 28, 02 at 10:22 AM.
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Dec 28, 02
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Maybe you should try to understand that just like her, you're not perfect. So untill you make an effort to DO the right thing, rather than BE right, I see what you're saying insignificant. As much as it feels great to BE right, it's still unproductive.
In my posts, I'm not trying to BE right, I'm trying to DO the right thing. I'm trying to help you but if you see it as me trying to BE right, then take it as you will.
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Dec 28, 02
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^Damn you for not telling me what I want to hear Steve, it's like you're trying to see both sides of the story instead of sugar coating your reply with a simple, "OMG YOUR FRIEND IS SUCHA BITCH" remark. It's like you're trying to be realistic or some stupid shit like that. FUCK YOUR ADVICE MAN.
If you don't like the advice given, then don't bother making a post about it in the first place. Your friend may be a bitch, but if there's one thing I hate more than a controlling friend, is the one that takes it and plays victim. There is only one side of the story being heard here and it takes two to tango, princess. I mean, poor you... your friend was so harsh on you :( *tear*
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Dec 28, 02
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having sex beside a friend isn't all that big a deal though.
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Dec 29, 02
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I wasnt asking for advise on anything...
I did however ask if u guys have ever had any problems similar or somewhat.
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Dec 29, 02
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^ yea so true....
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Dec 29, 02
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Well then, instead of DOing the right thing.
I'll have to settle with BEing right. I have no Problems at all with my friends. We all respect each other 100% and would never stab each other in the back. I say this not only because it's something I believe, it's also because it's something I've experienced. They treat me well. They treat me like a human being. I have incredible amounts of loyalty from my friends. If I needed to find someone they'd hunt them. If I needed someone to stand up for me, in an argument or a fight, they'd be there. Again, I'm not just saying these things, they've all happened. My friends know what I'd do for them and I know what they'd do for me. I don't know what I'd do without my friends. I don't seem to ever have trouble with friendship anymore. but that might be because I don't trust just anybody. They must prove their loyalty to me. This is how it is. If you're one of my closest friends, I will use all that's in my power to be the best friend you'll ever have. but if you break my trust, I might forgive what you did to me but I won't forget and I'll never trust you again. For the last 3 and a half years, I don't think I've ever had a bad moment with any of my friends. "Friendship, peculiar boon of Heav'n, The noble mind's delight and pride, To men and angels only giv'n, To all the lower world denied." - Samuel Johnson, Friendship: An Ode.
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