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Jan 12, 03
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breaking up with someone
i've been such a pussy...i've been wanting to breakup with this person for so long...and finally couldn't take it anymore and just told them i'd rather be friends. and it's true. i actually would rather be friends. they didn't take it too well and it was obvious they were pissed off...and then stormed out of my apartment.i feel horrible..i feel like an asshole. but on the other hand, i feel relieved...which in turn makes me feel like more of an asshole cuz perhaps i should feel really really bad? i dunno. all i know is that it sucks breaking up with someone. :soak:
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if u feel that its best to just be friends then im sure it is... and the other person may feel angry or so now but they will soon enough realized thats it was for the better...
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hun, yeha.. but.. you dont wana like have a fake happiness right? so might as well be honest then lye,, right?
dont feel like an ass.. just think.. it would have hurt them more if it was all a sham!!! you did the right thing.. so keep your chinyou? :)
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yeah, breaking up with ppl suck, but it would have sucked even more if u stayed together with her when u didnt want to. Most girls always storm out or start crying when someone breaks up with them, its just how most of us are.
I think u did the right thing, and hopefully she will relize it too! But no need to feel like an ass hole about it, because you would have been more of an asshole if u styaed with her pretending to have feeling that wernt really there.
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i know that if i waited longer, it would have been worse but i still feel awful.
i just hate making people feel bad. and honestly...the reason i broke up with the person was cuz i wasn't attracted to them anymore and moreover, i'm not looking for a relationship. and it just sucks cuz the reason is all about me, and yet the other person ends u p getting hurt.
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hahaha..."she"...(sorry...)
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best be selfish... then not to be.. if your not happy.. then how the fuck is that fair tpo you.. huh???
oh.. well.. I'm sure... the person has been through wrose anywys.. and you had a valid reason.. like you still do wanna be firned with them right? so there ya go.. it is valid.. just give them time to get over yer sexy body.. then call them up and ask if the wanna go out for coffee or whatever!!!
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if your breaking up with someone, it's either.. do it now and feel bad, or do it later and feel even worse.
if you don't want to be in a relationship, then you don't want to be. it's best to end it now before you get too unhappy and it hurts the otherperson even more. breaking up does suck though, anything making someone else you care about feel bad. but like i said. do it now and it's a little pain, do it later it's a lot more.. try not to feel so bad though, =)
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Jan 12, 03
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^ true that. preach on :)
i'm sure i'll feel a little better by just sleeping on it. hopefully he will too.
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^^ i'm sure you both will..
sleep always helps a little! when you wake up, it's like a fresh start. you haven't been sitting there with it on your mind for hours, and sometimes it'll help to put things in perspective. gooooooo sleep! :P
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Hun don't feel like an asshole for breaking up with ta person you weren't happy with. Inturn it's alot better than leading him/her on, which would most likely make you feel worse.
Fuck.. i think i's time i take my own advice. At least you have the guts sammy, i've been dragging something on for a while that I should have dealt with a while ago.
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That's exactly the way I see it. Obviously nobody likes being dumped, or whatever you want to call it, but personally, I would have much more respect for someone who has the guts to end something rather than leading someone on and in-turn making things more difficult for both people involved... IT"S ALL ABOUT THE HONESTY!, well, atleast in my opinion anyway.
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no dude u did the right thing,... becuase the longer you wait the more attatched they get.... he may have jsut gotten upset cuz "i think we're better off as friends" can sometimes be used as a line jsut like the "its not you its me thing" lol but you were honest and thats good,
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