Boys

Courtney · #1 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

ahh!! i use the word BOYS because they are not yet mature enough to be classed as men...anyway, why are u guys so stupid??? and hard to reaD?? I actually like guys i get along wiht them alot better than most girls btu when it comes to more than freinds there just so...stupid?> i don't know what my deal is...

tamara · #2 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

i don't there is a problem with calling them BOYS...that is what most of them are...eventhough they deny it...girls are way more mature than them...you have to date some thats a bit older than you to find an equal amount of matureness...but sometimes that doesn;t even work...

Special_J · #3 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

Totally! They seem really nice when you hang out but once you become more then friends they start acting differently and get all weird! ARGH! Stupid boys! :finger:

tamara · #4 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

hahaha...thats funny...cuz its true...:P

Courtney · #5 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

i know i wood neevr date someone my own age.it doesnt work out at all...the guy would have to be at least one year - 2 years older than me

Courtney · #6 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

special j that is fucken so true like ill be good freidns with a guy but then they just turn into such...clingy creeps like do they think chix like that???

tamara · #7 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

i dunno...guys have issues when it comes to being "JUST FREINDS"...they don't think its possible...is something wrong with haveing frinds that are just guys...i don;'t think there is...

Courtney · #8 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

HUH?? i have lotsa friends that are guyZ!!

sungoo · #9 (**permalink**) May 05, 03

Maybe it's cause they're inexperienced with their feelings.
Can you really blame people for things they can't control?
If anything I'd feel sorry for them...
I mean, wasn't there ever a time in your life when you were insecure with your love life?

mugsy · #10 (**permalink**) May 06, 03

usually the problem arises from both girls and boys... i mean definately guys are way better friends then girls... chicks are backstabbing bitches that usually tell everyone else your fat... i have more guys as friends then i do girls... but i also realize that i am indeed a girl myself... "not all women are bitches but all women have a little bitch in them"
so i too have the bad qualities... and it jsut dont mesh sometimes in relationships... plus the guys probably dont knwo how to show affection. it comes naturally to chicks, the whole motherly thing, boys more then likely think they are not givin out enough, cuase well face it alot of the girls out there are attention pigs... the want to be loved. so the guys will do what the majority of the girls want.
give it time...

Cdn_Brdr · #11 (**permalink**) May 06, 03

No offense to the girls out there but that maturity line is bullshit. I'm 25 and all through my life if I've dated a girl who is a couple to maybe 3 or 4 years younger than me they always seem like immature little twats.

I won't be unfair and say that all women are like this but the whole thing about how girls mature faster is shit. Yes, you're bodies start to mature faster, that's a fact. As for mental maturation I'd say that every person is unique... everyone knows someone who might be older but still act like a child.