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May 26, 03
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Seeing your Ex and they....
look really good and are talking to you .. after they pretty much havent for a year ...
this was horrable.. i went to grad with my (new) boy friend and i saw my ex and was talkin to himand he was being really nice.. and he looked .. really good.. :( and he was stairing at me most of the night and my boy friend noticed and was upset about it.. and i had to remind him that it was him who i want... even tho in my head i couldnt stop thinkin about how good my ex looked but my b.f looked even better :) this feeling sucks..... 
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May 26, 03
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Just be happy you weren't by yourself when you ran into him. You should have concentrated more on rubbing your new b/f in his face. Silly girl :)
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May 26, 03
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no i wouldnt rub my new man in his face.. cuz himand i have been broken up for about a year and 6 months.. and were fine with each other now.. the whole new guys and new girls.. but he hasnt had a new girl since. hahah when i get the pics back i'll send you the one i took of him and i together and you can see my ex..but i was kinda rubbin it in cuz i didnt leave his side the whole night and all that jazz
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May 26, 03
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Of course it shouldn't matter because I assume you are over him and you are content and happy with your current bf.
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May 26, 03
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^ yeah but it still sucks seeing the hotty ex. Lingering desires and all that stuff.
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May 26, 03
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hahahah all those things are great but... i would rather not cheat on my new .bf ... and also.. there wernt really any bad things about my ex soo i cant think about reasons why i dont liek being with him .. i would love to have him as a friend agian .. but i know.. i or he would try something... just its our past to be like that even after we broke up we tryed to hang out but it alwasy ended up... with my heart being broken agian cuz myfeelings would come back when he would kiss me.. soo ohhh weell im very happy with my new guy ..and so on and so forth
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May 26, 03
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my ex's mom is my manager and my ex helps out at the store when its busy... try that!!!!!! her mom doesnt understand the fact that we've been broken up for almost a year. she has this fantasy of us getting married or some shit, she always makes us work together on stuff, and its so obvious.
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May 26, 03
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after i dumped my ex in TO, every time i saw a guy with a castro on, i'd feel like puking...or pointing and laughing (cuz Will had a castro permanantly attached to his dumb head).
we'd go grocery shopping, and we'd see him and my friend jess and i would laugh at him. cuz we're mean like that. -s.
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May 26, 03
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all my exs got fat and shit. i fucking love it, they are stuck in their boring lives and jobs.
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May 26, 03
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/\ I have a certain curse associated with the people I break up with...After we have broken up, they all seem to get fat and I get better looking...(I do excercise to deal with emotional stress)
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May 27, 03
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And I know this is bad, but my last serious GF broke up with me and started dating this dude. he had a suspended liscense for drunk driving, crashed her parent's BMW, she switched seats and took the blame. he's an alchaholic at 20, "borrowed" over $1000 off of her, slapped her around a few times and is a fucking loser in general. But goddamn did it make me feel good to know that she can't do better than me. and you should see her gunt now. sticks out past her tits.
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May 27, 03
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May 27, 03
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May 28, 03
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^^^^^ this is the part of your post that i found the most interesting... basically [to me] you just said that you would cheat on your new bf if you and your ex were to hang out again.... and this thread is about how you saw your ex and you thought he was good looking. and that you couldn't stop thinking about him?? eventhough you were around your new bf for most of the night? conclusion:::[this is what i thought of immediately after i read your posts] you're not over you're old bf...and you don't/wouldn't have the self-control to stay faithful to your new bf.... ? are you being true to your new bf? and to yourself? and i hope that your new bf doesn't come on here...
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May 28, 03
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^ yeah the beach bum has the right idea :)
there is obviously something unresolved inside you when it comes to him What I don't understand is all the bitterness of others towards their exs - I mean sure, if they did you wrong - maybe. But the oppisite of love is not hate, it's indifference. It's when you don't care about what they look like, don't care if you don't ever talk to them and so on I wish my exes nothing but the best, sure in the first few months I may not. But after a bit of time I do. I wouldn't want to see my exs life go down hill, or see that he's fat and miserable - I have enough self-confidence to know I am catch - and don't need an exs dwindling self-confidence or social status to re assure me. I have noticed in Batgrls posts (yes plural) that she has brought up problems with her current boyfriend - the thing about wearing a sign that says 'not single, but wish I was' a few months ago (or weeks) posting about strange conversations with the ex - this post and about her over emotional state scaring her BF - It sounds to me like maybe you aren't ready to be in the relationship that you are in - perhaps there wasn't enough time from one relationship to the next for you to heal - I don't know what it is, but there is definatley something there all I can say is that if you aren't truly happy with the current bf, you don't spare his feelings by staying with him - you have to be true to your self and your needs in order to be in a healthy relationship anyway Jingles
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May 28, 03
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/\ Hehe...don't get me wrong. I bear no ill will towards any of my ex's. I am still friends with most of them and one has even invited me to her upcoming wedding which I am totally happy for. I was just making an observation. One of my good friends actually pointed it out to me (the ex's getting fat and me trimming up) and we both had a laugh over it... :)
Of course we were both stoned at the time...It seemed alot funnier then...hee hee...
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May 28, 03
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ya know what's funny? batgirl's 16.5 right now. therefore a year and a half ago she just turned 15. so i'm guessin you and your old bf went out for at least 6months? so you started going out with him when your about 14.5? SLOW IT DOWN. besides sounds like your not even over him and it's been 1.5years. w00t w00t gr.8 love. did he pop your cherry, then leave?
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