regrets

[omega_image]

dont u hate them? just thinking abot things, and knowing that u could have done something differently to change things......it just sucks......and thinking about it drives u crazy! grrrrr maybe its for the best tho since if those things changed u wouldnt be the person you are today
-adam

[~lazee_grrl~]

omg adam..i know wut u mean..i hate regrets..and i always double think everything especially after i had already done sumthing about it...i hate it..i hate always thinking about the wut ifs...it sucks but u can't help but to wonder..or even wish u had done sumthing else...sumtimes..u can change it..but then again..if u did sumthign different..would u be happier or would u wish u had done the other thing...damn indecisiveness...yeah...regrets sucks...but i always try to live by this thingy..."no regrets"..no matter wut..just try to make the best of it ~:Lazee:

[kiMMie]

Ditto...

I hate when I sit and wonder..."Did I do the right thing? Or should have done something else?" That totally sux, cuz you'll always wonder...wonder about whether you're life is going down the right path or whether you've set yourself up for a fall...

I've been wondering about that myself lately... :043:

I hate it, cuz you're thinking about it almost all the time...it consumes a lot of your time and energy because you're thinking of other possible outcomes of different situations...

I hate feeling regret... :097: I know what you guys are talking about...

[~snow*white~]

regrets are the worst. i hate them alot cuz i always think about the situation again after i've done whatever it was and i always ask myself...was that a good idea? or what? i always get these what if's also in my head too.....what if i did this then would things have changed? or what if i didn't do that? oh geez.....i dunno........but it's true though, not everyone should have regrets....if you've actually did what you wanted to do then it was for the best right? you decided to do whatever, then that should have been the right decision.......no regrets at all.....but to be contradicting myslef.....even though i did do what i wanted to do....i still have those stupid regrets that always bug me....

[Erica]

Yeah, regretting sucks ass. People always say 'live your life with no regrets,' but I really don't think that is possible at all. At some point or another, you're bound to think "What if I did this instead of that." or "What if I chose this instead of that."

Recently I totally regretted not telling one of my guy friends that I liked him earlier last summer. We were just casually talking this week, and I told him how I felt about him, and he told me that if I said something back then, he would have given a relationship a chance. But that he would not have been the one to initiate it, cause he's shy. He's a truly wonderful guy, and I know if I went out with him at that point, my life would be so different now. It would have saved me from a lot of the pain that I went through. Also, he's the type of guy that totally respects girls, and he's also HILARIOUS. :) Buuuut, he's going to McGill this Sept, so I don't want to get into anything.

It's sad to say that I practically regret the past seven years of my life. But at the same time, I can't say that I regret anything. All the things that have happened in the past, regardless of how bad they were and how painful they were to struggle through, have made me who I am today. They have made me stronger, have a better sense of who I am, taught me a LOT, and have given me the gift to be able to relate to people, understand what they are going through, and be there to help them through tough times.

So I say...don't live in regret, even if what's happened has been extremely painful. As long as you pull through it and learn from your experience, it's all a part of growing and learning. Life would be horrible if we lived through each day full of regret from the past. Learn from the past, move on, and apply what you have learned to your future.

Erica :AZN:

[Porpentine]

i don't regret a single thing.

yes, i've done lots of things that were idiotic. but i think they were good for me.

adversity really does build character.

-lauren

[yoko*]

currently i regret not squeezin that bois sweet lil ass.. n..


I`m sorrie (kicks myself)

anyways :D yeah.. does it juss kill you to thin u coulda had sumthin REAL good... but u pushed it away...

rarh.. but I sort of believe that things are the way they are supposed to be.. and if it didn`t happen the way u wanted it then that`s becuz it was supposed to be that way.. whether it be becuz u urself screwed it over or sum one else screwed you over... (heh..)

either way... wut the screw. i gotta learn to live it to the fullest n break outta my hard shell n LIVE..

rargh...

mm simon...

[SuPaCoOpA]

Regrets may drive you NUTS butt they r a part of life...grrr to that!! Regrets teach yuu things however, maybe how to do sumthing better next time or what not to do...or they could be badd...life is full of weird things eeeep!!