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Oct 24, 03
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Stupid Exes and children....
I am so fucking mad right now.... you know how you get to the point that you're so mad that you want to hit something but there's nothing around to hit so you just sit there and steam... that's me.... right fucking now.
I've found out that my ex, her husband, and their two kids... one of which happens to be my son, have moved. Ok so moving usually isn't a big deal... unless you move to a fucking commune in the middle of nowhere, to a shack with no indoor plumbing. NO RUNNING WATER!?!?! All this so they only have to pay $300 a month for rent. They both make over $1600 a month! WTF?? They've used the excuse that they don't make enough money to justify not feeding my son any meat too. It's too expensive they say. You know what... if you want to be a vegetarian that's fine but for you to make the decision for a 6 y/o growing boy just isn't right... he needs those nutrients. So considering that they have to go to an outhouse to crap they've also included in their little info e-mail they sent me that for days it goes below -20 that they have an indoor kiddy shitter that they can use.... well isn't that fucking dandy. I've basically decided to go to the ministry of children and families and get my son out of there. I'll be pushing as hard as I can to have him come live with me. I have my own place, a good job, and a school right near me so I'm not worried. I mean the poor kid doesn't even get any new toys or clothes unless I buy them for him. All they give him are hand-me-downs they get from relatives. I've stood idly by letting them do their thing for too long. I always figured that as long as he was cared for that it was ok... but its gone too far. Visiting isn't enough anymore... he's coming to live with Dad... the end. MAD, MAD, MAD, MAD, MAD, MAD, MAD, MAD, MAD!!!! :finger: 
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Oct 24, 03
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Wow, Shawn...I can't even imagine how it must feel to know your child is in a situation that's probably not all that healthy for him (especially when you are probably contributing child support as well).
Good luck...I hope everything turns out well...
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Oct 24, 03
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^I contribute support plus extra money that I don't really have to put him in soccer, swimming, snowboarding etc... because I know they won't.
On top of that I'm constantly buying him things. The worst of it is that I can't even question them on where the supoort goes.. I'm not allowed to. I have so much support from family and friends that I know I'll be able to have my little guy with me. He deserves better and I'm gonna make sure he gets it.
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Oct 24, 03
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that fucking sucks... goodluck with getting your son! i seriously think that if arent making enough money to support a family YOU SHOULDNT HAVE ONE!
hey maybe you can teach your son the ways of father quagmire.. hehe
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Oct 25, 03
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They moved yesterday Myra.... it'll take time for all the paperwork to go through.
The thing is that they don't think they are being negligent in any way... I just don't understand how in the year 2003 you can have an excuse for not living in a place with running water and indoor plumbing. I have no worries that I'll be able to gain custody of Kieran.
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Oct 25, 03
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i hope you get your kid back..he belongs with you. and if you don't ill help you kidnap him fo real
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Oct 26, 03
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wow you sound like a great dad
good luck why would anyone choose to live in a shed? - your raising a child not camping
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Oct 26, 03
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i wish i had a kid id make a great dad
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Oct 26, 03
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good luck. Being raised by your father is awsome. I was raised by mine.
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Oct 26, 03
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just go to surrey hayden. im POSITIVE you could find some girl that'll have your baby
cdn: that's not cool man. do they even let you talk to your son? i'd get your son out of their asap and go blast your ex and her husband with a shotgun. burry their bodies.. dont worry they're in the middle of nowhere.
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Oct 26, 03
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^Oh I get to see him all I want... they live in a place called Pinatan Lake. It's up towards Kamloops.
I've always had full visitation, I mean I wouldn't have it any other way. My concern now is for the welfare of my son. I'm a kick ass Dad and as far as I'm concerned more dad's should step up to the plate and take care of their kids. I just feel that I'll do a better job than the ex is.... I mean at least at my house he can take a bath.
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Oct 26, 03
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shit dude, thats harsh, take the bitch to court man push out a few tears if you have to but get that kid out of there. If that were my kid i'd tell him to go take a big fat shit on mommy's bed every day until she gets some adequate plumbing. Thats bullshit no kid should have to trot to an outhouse to relieve himself.
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Oct 26, 03
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Yea, i can see why you're mad! do what you gotta do man, get your son back! He's lucky to have someone who cares that much about him, many people don't have that privelidge.
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Oct 26, 03
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Hang in there Shawn, and im behind yeah all the way to do whats best for your son.
From personaly experience my dad won custidy over me for awhile because he had a much better income and proved the court he was the "better and more appropiate parent". I did aprieciate my dad's concern and wantiing to do what he thought was best for me, but he never seemed to realize that I still wanted to live with mom too. What im trying to say is make sure your son is ok with living with you and listen to his thoughs and feelings cus thats all I realy wanted from my dad then. I do agree that his new home with mom seems pretty harsh, but that may a home to him? However you can never go wrong by beign suportive of what your son wants. I hope things work out well =)
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Oct 26, 03
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and i dont wanna live there anymore - its cold and a tad bit damp bunk
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Oct 27, 03
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while there might not be any running water nor shiny porcelain toilets for the child to use, you really don't have any grounds to say that his quality of life will diminish. rather, living there will probably expose him to a phenomena little seen by children nowadays: community. not only will he be raised by his parents, but also by the entire village. the value of such an extended family will make it difficult to prove to the courts that you can raise him better. especially since at the turn of the century, people grew up like this and turned out to be perfectly normal people.
(just being objective, not being an asshole. :))
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Oct 27, 03
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^^I was just going to say...
I mean, deciding to live a rather humble life doesn't mean that the parents are being negligent or abusive in anyway. just because a person doesn't spend a lot of money on their children or are cheap, doesn't mean that they aren't getting their necessities or loving them any less. and as a vegetarian, I think it should be mentioned that a child, if properly fed, can get a perfectly adequate amount of nutrients from a vegetarian diet. --(not trying to be a bitch, just trying to see a different side of the story) Joanne :P
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Oct 27, 03
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I think it may also be good in the sense of not being raised in such a materialistic manner, perhaps the child will also learn more values, interaction, eat better and get more excercise. Maybe I've got at hippie streak in me, but hey, the more I think about it the better it sounds. Except for the winter part. P.S. Me and Mr. Bdr are the same age, yet I could not imagine having a child, as I am one myself. Last edited by shorerider; Oct 27, 03 at 01:34 PM.
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