Feb 03, 04
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cruel men
some guys can be the biggest assholes ever...i was madly in love with my best friend n we acted like we were dating, he loved me i loved him, but he was an abbusive asshole and just a few days ago he met some chick n is now dating her and has completly forgotten about me, he even got he to call me n bitch at me while only a few days ago we were the best of friends n he was tellin me he was going to marry me in the future...i haven't had a bf in over a year n im not bad looking but everytime i meet a nice guy i fall for them and i always get screwed in the end, i find it so hard to trust anyone now, i need help..someone tell me wut to do im so confused!!!
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Feb 03, 04
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Be happy your not with him... and keep looking. Thats all you really can do. Besides your only 17, go have some fun. When your 40+ and havent dated for years then you can worry.
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Feb 03, 04
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If he is being abusive then he isn't worth your time. I had a best friend that i used to have a causal fling with untill he decided that it just wasnt gona happen. He wasn't abusive but he really fucked with my head for a long time.
Last year he was very cruel to me though for reasons i'm not sure of. It just twisted and his reasons just didn't add up. I never got an explination and I have just pushed him out of my life to the best of my ability. Although he still is friends with my friends so there is always a chance of confrontation. I just think you should let him be. Don't worry yourself over someone else that obviously is not going to treat you with respect and be hot and cold all the time. Trust me it will really set you up for heart ache. Let it be. See it as his loss, and find someone that treats you with the respect you deserve. Last edited by Kandyapple; Feb 03, 04 at 10:57 AM.
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Feb 03, 04
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Guyz ARE assholes! :finger: well most of them atleast~
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Feb 03, 04
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Thanks Ang,
Love you to :kam: :finger: :tounge1:
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Feb 03, 04
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just goes to show how stupid women are becauz all they ever go for are the assholes, it doesn't matter if the nice guys are decent looking, well built and still semi-prick like (i.e. cool) - women want drama and go lookin for it so stop complaining.
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Feb 03, 04
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Awww thats fuckin ruff. There is no reasonable explanation or excuse for wat he did, and its nothing that you did so dont ever let yourself think that! It might be hard to see that he IS NOT WORTH IT but he isnt. Good luck hunnie fuck him and fuck his new little bitch!!!! :finger: you dont need that shit
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Feb 03, 04
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pooie.
in the end, just trust yourself. trust your emotions and your feelings. trust isnt something that should be easily gained in a relationship... however everyone has different meanings and levels to the word trust. sounds like he was mean to you, and he probably was. but dont give up on men\boys, there are plenty of good ones out there. and your 17, the majority of the guys in your age group (unless if you are hangin around a little but older guys) are out to have fun at that age. but then again who isnt then? who isnt all the time..... i think i jsut contradicted myself, what i meant was most guys at the late teens\early adult age dont want serious relationships. im not saying they wont date, but they probably dont want any "i love you's" and pickin out the kids names stuff. to sum it up: trust should be earned, and it doesnt happen in a wink, it could take months - years, guy sounds like a dick proabably was be sad and stuff for awhile but you know you can move on and find someone who is better suited for you. keep on truckin.
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Feb 03, 04
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yeah come on mel it's been proven again and again people are shit
i think you should just chill and not worry about shit for now... hang out with your friends and maybe in time youll develop a good relationship with some guy then itll lead to something bigger. but for now.. fuck it! party and have fun with your girls. it's all about you being happy and not letting some fucker mess with your mind.
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Feb 03, 04
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haha the funny thing claire is this guy is the guy u went out with in the summer...but guess what hes a fuckin faggot n i dont give a shit about him anymore hes fucked with me 2 many times n im just sick of it i know i said that many times b4 in the summa but this time im done i want him to move outta my hood n go back to being a stuck up west van boy
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*chokes on water and dies*
WHAT?!! HIM??!! are you fucking serious oh.. my.. fucking.. god damn girl you saw how shit he was! he does the same thing over and over im pretty fucken sure actually i dont want to talk about it, but just fuck that dont even waste your time bitching about it cause i know fo sho it ain't gonna change, and its not worth it.
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Feb 03, 04
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being single is better when your 17-18-19 etc..it took me 3 years to figure that out. So don't worry about him hun, he's just a stupid male *no offense to the guys :kam: *
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Feb 03, 04
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ahha gave me sum mental damage too...we didn't go out though..we were just best friends we kinda were seeing each other i guess..cause we both told each other we loved each other n shit n he said he was gunna marry me but fuck that...n he does have a low iq he graded with honors...but seriouslly the kid is 22 n he acts like hes 10...oh guess wut it was Nico's b-day 2day shes 2 now...poor kid has to have such bad parents..we should kidnap her n raise her ourselves hehe
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Feb 03, 04
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oh happy birthday nico.
woah, really? that's fucked up well whatever.. eh i try not to care about that shit now and that means i shouldnt bitch about it *shuts up* because its over and done with thank god. yeah she seriously needs to live with his parents forever
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Feb 04, 04
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Feb 09, 04
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all guys are assholes if put in the right situation, but thats a little far. dont take that shit, nobody deserves to put up with bullshit like that. power.
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Feb 09, 04
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FUCK IT! Men can be such ASSHOLES!!! I have been over this topic so much, that I don't even wanna say any more about it, cause I could just rag on for hours!
All I can say is that trust should build up waay slower than it usually is. Cause then they start messin with ya! :finger: :finger: :finger:
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