EX-Boyfriends

MAx · #1 (**permalink**) Feb 05, 04

Ok well see I have this thing where I can't stand to meet my girlfriends ex boyfriends whom they have happened to stay "good friends" with...It just bothers me don't ask me why...just get really uncomfortrable...especially if the guy pretends to be your buddy....FUck OFF you dont know me....oh well....anyone else think the same, or disagree.. tell me ur opinion.

frontline · #2 (**permalink**) Feb 05, 04

agreed. on most occasions. sometimes they are genuinely nice though.
But you can't help but think about him trying something etc...

MAx · #3 (**permalink**) Feb 05, 04

ya see that thought does cross my mind but I try really hard not 2 be insecure....especially with this girl...but then she tells me she's goin 2 the mall with him cause shes going valentines day shopping...."HUH!?!"....what the fuck?!...."oh no its cause he found this girl"......i dont care!.. what the fuck.. u know what i mean?

frontline · #4 (**permalink**) Feb 05, 04

yah man! i get hella jealous. i try not to show it. hard though. I dunno, I would probably wanna meet his new girl just to make sure he aint putting the moves on my lady. :soak:

AqvaYak · #5 (**permalink**) Feb 05, 04

the worst is when yyur the ex
then u dont know if shes blabed about u and stuff. paranoia.

klockwize · #6 (**permalink**) Feb 05, 04

she goin v day shopping with him? thats a no no......thats just no good,.....almost sacred, valintines day is all about sex and mushyness,

sorry dude, but this gurl is probly still interested in this guy or vice-versa
they have history, and thier goin v-day shopping????...i dont know?

i dont know the whole story,she may be fly and nice and shit but id think twice before i further anything with this girl,.....she should know thats out-a-bounds,

you should check this gurl for sure my friend

but i feel your pain.........i dont like ex-b/f either, or close guy friends for that matter

MAx · #7 (**permalink**) Feb 05, 04

fuck....

mugsy · #8 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

^ not neccessarily... and this is coming from a girl. and to tell you the truth we are just as jealous about your past relationships\you friends that have tits as you are. but in some senses jealousy is a good thing, shows you care..... as long as it doesnt get stupid.
going shopping with him isnt that big a deal, she needs male input, and you'll probabaly end up with a rad gift. and he needs female input.
dont always jump to conclusions, talk to the girl about it. if it bothers you to a point where you think about it alot, you need to talk to her about it. and if she doesnt understand and gets pissed off, you need to analyze your situation with her.
best of luck, and i say dont worry that much.

cerah · #9 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

Oh my fucking God you guys are dumb.

Big fucking woop de doo she's going Valentine's Day shopping with him *gasp* it couldn't perhaps be to buy you a present could it... nuh uh neeeeeever.

I've stayed good friends with all the guys I've had intense meaningfull relationships with. I think it's as total waste not to I mean after all the time, experiences and emotions you've shared you're expected to just forget it all and ignore the person you once loved when they walk by? Fuck that! That's the most idiotic theory I've ever heard of. You chose to be with the person for a reason... they most likely know you better then a lot of other people so of course you'd want to stay good friends with them.

There's these two little qualities that are integral to a relationship... they're called TRUST and HONESTY. Without them you have nothing. Learn to trust your girlfriend instead of jumping all over her back for continuing a friendship with someone she shared an intimate part of her life with. Soon you'll be thinking EVERYONE'S after your girl... you'll turn into a controlling bastard who monitors all her friends and her whereabouts and THAT will make her leave. Not because she has feelings for someone else but because you drove her away by being a paranoid and obsesive fuck when really you had no need or place to be.

THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS.

Yes there is this thing called a plutonic relationship and yes there is this teeny tiny lil thing called LOYALTY. As in you are loyal to your partner.

I've remained incredibly good friends with the guy I dated before my current boy. Yes I still have feelings for him... I still have feelings for all my ex's. Love's not just something you forget about and cast aside in my opinion. Unlike you though my boy TRUSTS me and I'm HONEST about everything with him and vice versa so we have no need to be jealous.

I think you all need to grow up a bit and learn how to trust other people BEFORE you persue serious relationships.

Oh and dj_klockwize... GO PARANOIA!! Seriously WTF?? Valentine's is JUST another day... a Hallmark created holiday made to commercialize one of (if not the) most valuable emotion out there... LOVE.

Cdn_Brdr · #10 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

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Originally posted by cerah
Yes there is this thing called a plutonic relationship

Is that like a relationship on Pluto? Or is it a relationship with plutonium? Wouldn't that be bad on the radiation scale?

Catching silly spelling errors is good times.... especially if it involves me getting to bug teh Sarah...

Cdn_Brdr · #11 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

P.S.... I'm friends with all my ex-boyfriends... except Frederico, the slut! I caught that pansy in bed with my brother's uncle's cousin's grandpappy!

cerah · #12 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

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Originally posted by Cdn_Brdr

Is that like a relationship on Pluto? Or is it a relationship with plutonium? Wouldn't that be bad on the radiation scale?

Catching silly spelling errors is good times.... especially if it involves me getting to bug teh Sarah...

Ooops... my bad. I meant to say "platonic".

On a side note... I want a relationship on Pluto... that'd be cool! We'd get to have sex in outerspace... zero gravity fun... good times!

P.S. ~ Mr. Shawn you aren't perfect... oh and FYI I have videographic evidence of Frederico doing you up the bumhole.

Jingles · #13 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

Sex in outerspace is the only reason girls remain friends with their exes :)

klockwize · #14 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

first of all cerah...........are you blind......its her EX BOYFRIEND!

i dont know what kinda v-days youve had, but the ones ive had are all about sex, mushyness, more sex, cuddling and then more sex

paranoid??.....i dont think so,

your saying that if your "new" b/f started hanging with his old g/f then went v-day shopping with her, you wouldnt get alittle curious??

and if its a new relationship, i dont think there is goin to be THAT much trust and loyalty yet, im speaking for this guy in his situation, not your lame sex life self

"WTF"-yeah what the fuck

more often then not, if you start hanging with your ex's there is still somthing there, YOU LEFT THAT PERSON FOR A REASON, ......DIDNT YOU?? UHH YEAH!! but now there is all this special "ex" time you have to fit in the relationship?? id, KICK ER TO THA KIRB MOFO!........shes a slutty,......can i be next??

klockwize · #15 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

first of all cerah...........are you blind......its her EX BOYFRIEND!

i dont know what kinda v-days youve had, but the ones ive had are all about sex, mushyness, more sex, cuddling and then more sex

paranoid??.....i dont think so,

your saying that if your "new" b/f started hanging with his old g/f then went v-day shopping with her, you wouldnt get alittle curious??

and if its a new relationship, i dont think there is goin to be THAT much trust and loyalty yet, im speaking for this guy in his situation, not your lame sex life self

"WTF"-yeah what the fuck

more often then not, if you start hanging with your ex's there is still somthing there, YOU LEFT THAT PERSON FOR A REASON, ......DIDNT YOU?? UHH YEAH!! but now there is all this special "ex" time you have to fit in the relationship?? id, KICK ER TO THA KIRB MOFO!........shes a slutty,......can i be next with her??

klockwize · #16 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

first of all cerah...........are you blind......its her EX BOYFRIEND!

i dont know what kinda v-days youve had, but the ones ive had are all about sex, mushyness, more sex, cuddling and then more sex

paranoid??.....i dont think so,

your saying that if your "new" b/f started hanging with his old g/f then went v-day shopping with her, you wouldnt get alittle curious??

and if its a new relationship, i dont think there is goin to be THAT much trust and loyalty yet, im speaking for this guy in his situation, not your lame sex life self

"WTF"-yeah what the fuck

more often then not, if you start hanging with your ex's there is still somthing there, YOU LEFT THAT PERSON FOR A REASON, ......DIDNT YOU?? UHH YEAH!! but now there is all this special "ex" time you have to fit in the relationship??

i dont know?? thats just the way i look at it, its not jumping to conlcusions, its obviouse observation!!

axion · #17 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

fuck, what ever happened to trusting your girl. put it to you this way, her hanging out with an ex-bf is like a test of how much she cares about you. if she can hang out with this guy who she has a history with and not mess around with him then she obviously likes you quite a bit. plus, the fact that you are secure enough to let your girl hang out with other guys will probably make you seem alot more attractive to her.

klockwize · #18 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

whoa, thats fucked....had to chage some shit, i didnt think they where all goin to go through,......but you get the point

MAx · #19 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

AXION MY MAN YOU ARE A GENIUS!....that is so true dude

klockwize · #20 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

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Originally posted by axion
fuck, what ever happened to trusting your girl. put it to you this way, her hanging out with an ex-bf is like a test of how much she cares about you. if she can hang out with this guy who she has a history with and not mess around with him then she obviously likes you quite a bit. plus, the fact that you are secure enough to let your girl hang out with other guys will probably make you seem alot more attractive to her.

why should she need the test in the first place??

MAx · #21 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

LOl....aw man, com'on klockwize..... :soak:

klockwize · #22 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

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Originally posted by MAx
AXION MY MAN YOU ARE A GENIUS!....that is so true dude

your being fooled.....ahhh

look before you leap, thats all i have to say, .....test?? the only test she needs to do is test out how "YOU"want it.....im not triing to be sexest, but

CHECK THIS GIRL!..... i just finished goin through the same kinda thing,.....its not fun

Mercedes · #23 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

AXION is right. gotta trust...

axion · #24 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

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Originally posted by dj_klockwize

why should she need the test in the first place??

he's obviously worried something happening between his girlfriend and this other guy, so im just telling him that instead of worrying about it so much he should just change the way he looks at the situation. its not a test just a change of perspective.

axion · #25 (**permalink**) Feb 06, 04

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Originally posted by dj_klockwize

why should she need the test in the first place??

he's obviously worried something happening between his girlfriend and this other guy, so im just telling him that instead of worrying about it so much he should just change the way he looks at the situation. its not a test just a change of perspective.