Apr 24, 04
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If you have guys being mean to you find a guy that's nice to you. Oh sorry I forgot that Girls complain about shitty guys but then treat nice guys like shit in return. Strange thing you ladies.
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Apr 24, 04
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hey let's not generalize ^ this applies to DJ G Style and Fantasy.
See the thing is you choose who you associate with, no one's forcing you to put up with shit from guys. I think one of the best lessons I've learnt in the past few years is to be selective when it comes to who I choose to hang around with. It's difficult to let go of someone you have an attachment with, whether it be a boyfriend or a friend who've you've known for sometime, but sometimes it's absolutely necessary. Don't feel obligated to hold on to something that's not there, if you're making an effort to be kind, maintain a relationship, or whatever it is and they're not giving putting just as much in return then maybe it's better to move on. In order to be respected you have to surround yourself with people who respect you. I'm generally a believer in the idea that "we are who we are, people don't change" .... that being said I do believe that people are capable of putting up really good fronts, this can even go on for as much as a few years, because it's seldom that you can really know a person. Subtle changes occur, but I think for the most part our genes, childhood and experience will determine the foundation of character. Anyways, what i'm basically trying to say is, it's your life, you can't choose your parents but you can choose your friends and the people within your social circle, so choose wisely.
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Apr 24, 04
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Apr 24, 04
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there's no point in creating an argument about which gender is better than the other in terms of how they treat one another. regardless of whether you've got a penis or a vagina, both sexes have assholes.
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Apr 24, 04
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Apr 24, 04
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So maybe your problem is that, like ladyshades said, you are associating yourself with the wrong types of females.
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Apr 24, 04
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But if you be selective and hella picky...your probably narrowing it down to the right people...never judge a book by its cover (and no im talking about looks...im talking about the "first impession" and what the person is like..how they act (the "Front" they put on to cover their inside workings, youd be surprised how many people i have encountered that are totally dope inside...but outside theyre asshole, and vise versa...then after getting to know them youll understand their subconcious nature...eg. are they selfish, are they overall nice people, are they hate full, unstable, backstabbing, etc..) As for letting go, thats both good and bad... good cause of any problems that may arise...they just wont be brought to you, but bad cuase "What if"... (this can go real deep, will the friends benefit you, is the girl friend worth keeping around, is this person who i thought they were, is my work assosciate really and asshole in person... this is just a basic rundown of questions you can ask yourself). People do change...but the basic structure of a person wont, for example ill be an asshole, but that wont change the fact that I respect people, what they have to say, also me being a tottaly nice guy to people who are nice to me. But i agree fully...its all who you choose to assosciated with, who you want to hang on to etc... Quote:
I agree with this statement... girls dont realise what theyve done until after the damage has been done. but in some cases they wont know what they had until its gone. In the end though...they always keep on coming back, wether it be the next day, or next 10 years...they will. (unless they really dont mature up or get that hit of reality). But then the choice is up to you, take them back...as a friend, or as more (if thats the case)... its all up to you... Edit: reading over this...haha i realised I have too much time on my hands...YEAH FNK Last edited by BenGiovanni; Apr 24, 04 at 02:34 AM.
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Apr 24, 04
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Nope im not with the wrong person, mainly to the fact that Im not with anyone at all. I have been single for 6 months now. And some of my friends that I have seem to be so disrespectful to me, I just dont understand.
Im also not saying that girls cant be disrespectful, cuz they can but ya..
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Apr 24, 04
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hehe i personally think its better not to stress...if theyre disrespectful to you...be disrespectful back...bad karma on their side... and some drama to add to the mix hehe
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Apr 24, 04
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its all fun and games til someone looses an eye...
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Apr 24, 04
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^^^
U betcha...
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Apr 24, 04
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No, vegetables. They simply zombie about.
I would hit LadyShades again with some karma, yet I have been too generous to her lately [as it seems]. If you put up with shit, people around you will start giving you more shit. Thinking that by ignoring what one friend said you'd make it stop is the kind of passive behaviour hammered into our heads in school. Stand up, make a point about not being treated like that, and walk away. Don't allow anybody to step all over you, cause at one point people will forget you are a person, and not a shoe-wipe.
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Apr 24, 04
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as of lately ive been treated like poo by many people... and i was bitter for about a day or so, then i got over it... realized that i am better then them\their level of immaturity.
yes men can be disrespectful, i have had many odd experiences where apparently my ass is the property of every man out there, and they can grab\smack\touch it when ever they like. but girls do this too. i remember doing "drive-byes" with my girlfriend tanya at wrestling tournaments... we had a freakin set up on how to grab a guys ass without being known. the world is full of bad stuff and bad people. society surrounds you, and yes you pick and choose who you are friends with, but you dont pick and choose who is around you in public. shit happens, by either sex... personally im more offended when another female insults me.
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I'm generally extremely respectful of all people, creeds, religions, age, beliefs, etc. But, hey, I have my dark moments, too. Again, usually 'cuz I'm not thinking too clear. Interesting how sometimes, at the end o' the day when hittin' the bong, I reflect on the day that passed and think, "man! What a jerk I was to that person." If it was a chick, I usually call 'em up and say, "man! What a jerk I was." . . and they'll go, "uh huh." . . .lol!
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Apr 25, 04
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Bob is right though, most people suck boy or girl.
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Apr 25, 04
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. .I probably shoulda' read ALL the posts on here. DJ gstyle mentions girls not being respectful. True, true. But, (and I REALLY hate to admit this) a lot of it is mixed signals. Or, even, unrecieved signals. Guys/girls believe they're giving off the appropriate vibes, not realizing that the opposite sex duzzint know how to read, or even respond correctly, to those vibes; or, even to pick up on them.
I hated to admit this 'cuz it's the primary point in that book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
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