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Jun 16, 04
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BrainWashing Society bullshit
Its so fucking sad ...the ideal of what the media and society potray as "pretty" and "hot" is Blond hair big boobs tan nice body brittney kinda deal..and yes they are attractive but whos to say other types of woman arent..most of my friends have this ideal in there head that all girls are fat and ugly and stuff they call them on it on the street"oh that girls really fat and ugly" and i look at the girl and shes not even fat!!! its scarey it really is more then scarey its sad i feel bad for them...whos to say whats pretty and whats not..i think every girl has good qualitys....all this shallowness makes me sick and i am wondering if this is ever gonna stop or if its jutsa gonna get worse...it pisses me offf like right offf...arrrrgggggggggggg maybe i need new friends but then again alot of young girls think this way...or maybe just the shallow ones ..anyone with me?
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edit- Outpost me and make me look like a jerk! Fine!
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sometimes its hard as a young female to not let this get to you. yes there are many ideals out there for guys, but so many more for girls. entering into adulthood our bodies change shape yet again, and we have to build even more confidence in ourselves as we are no longer tiny little teenage girls.
i believe myself to be extremely confident, if i dont like something about my body, i do something about it (like exercise) but still i have moments where i just dont feel 100 % about myself. it passes quickley but tis still there. females take in alot of "to be pretty look like this" and yes alot of it just bounces off, but some of it sticks. especailly when your peers say it to you. im not trying to ba alll "you dont know how hard it is to be a young female in this sex driven world" but take into consideration what we face each day. yah, we shuol say fuck it, and only worry about our selves and what we think and know how beautiful and individual we are, but thats waaaaay easier said than done. chicks are crazy horomonal creatures, and we are softer then alot of boys when it comes to things about external beauty. anyways, with the first post, i agree, its sad to see this. and usually it happens out of the girls own insecurity. from personal experience i usually throw down a snide remark to my gf's about another girl due to jealousy. (things like flirting with my bf, wearing the same shirt as me and rockin it a teensy bit better) but these remarks are usually me imitating her or something. my point - we females are dangerous creatures to ourselves and others. dealing with our own selfesteem is enough of a fight, dealing with other girls insulting us just makes teh fight bigger.
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Uhh.. I don't know if you've noticed, its kind of hard not to, but there are ALOT more restrictions and pressures on Female beauty than males. And no, its not dumb to let this bother you especially if it is your friends saying shit like this all the time. Do you tell them to shut the fuck up when they do? Because I think you should. I think to a certain extent it might have something to do with the fact that they are still pretty young, however; age shouldn't always have something to do with it. For example, me and my younger sisters have never been anywhere as shallow as alot of our friends and peers. We were raised by great people with great morals, and cutting down other people for any reason, ESPECIALY their appearance, has always and will always be a huge no no. We've had our share of body image "insufficiencies", and as a teenager surrounded by this society and by the shallow friends I used to have, there were times when i felt slightly insecure, and what I accepted as beauty (or what i thought I was beautyiful to others) was a little bit restrictive compared to what it should be, and what it is now but we NEVER acted like your friends do. So YES, they need to grow up.. but in a way that isn't always possible for some people and basicly has nothing to do with age. Just be happy you aren't like them, and if this is a big deal to you (which I don't blame your for it if it is..) and if talking to them when they say shit like this, or maybe giving them a little of their own medicine doesn't make them realize what they are doing, then maybe you should think of distancing yourself from them if they can't even respect the fact that YOU don't want to hear them say cruel shit like that when you are around. Last edited by MistressSpankME; Jun 16, 04 at 03:51 AM.
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GREAT point. With all the shit young girls have to deal with, it would be really nice if so many of them didn't make it so much harder for the others. I Think all humans in general need to be much more tollerant, accepting, and compassionate; but it would be really nice to see girls band together a little more.. or at least lay off of eachother. Girls ARE vicious creatures, or at least they can be.
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ok ... im not being rude; howver, i believe that if a person is overweight its ther own falt !
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it really pisses me off how my frends complain about how much weight they've gained but then they eat fast food ..or sit at home all the time! if they complain in front of me .. i'll tell em straight up "yea, u gained weight!" go do sumthing about it for fuck sakes!
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There are a lot of guys that don't think the whole blonde, skinny, tanned look is hot. I'm going out w/ one of them. But I it's not just what guys think, it's what other girls, the media and even family memebers tell us. Young girls are sooo sensitive about their body image. It's insane how one little comment can fuck them up so badly.
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hhmm..... serious or sarcastic?
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