I HATE FAThERS DAY...

[Courtney]

I feel bad for people whos fathers have passed away, but In some ways maybe its better for them, at least they can hold on to some good memories or something..I dont really have any?

[Joanne]

Originally Posted by charly

i think it's funny how people can go hating on their dads on fathers day and no one really says anything, but if anyone does the same to their moms on mothers day everyone else will jump down your throat. he took part in making you too..

from my experience, people jump down your throat jumped at regardless of whether it's your mom or dad you hate.



anywhoos, I've had serious contemplations as to whether or not my father is a sociopath. I can't stand him. he makes me sick. I did not say a word to him on father's day and he did not say a word to me on my birthday. with my situation, it's not one of those difficult adolescent stages in life where you hate everyone in your family. because I've learned to appreciate the many things my mother has done for me, despite her crazyness. as for my father, all I've seen over the years is how little he has done and how pathetic of a father he really is.

--Joanne :P

[Pussy_Kat]

i havent talked to my real father in GOD knows how long.....but meh...thats what u get....stupid fuck

[Courtney]

Originally Posted by charly

i think it's funny how people can go hating on their dads on fathers day and no one really says anything, but if anyone does the same to their moms on mothers day everyone else will jump down your throat. he took part in making you too..

You don't know me or my situation with my father..I have a right to "hate" on him...and if my mom was like him I would "hate" on her too, luckily she's not..

[say_whut]

Originally Posted by Courtney

I feel bad for people whos fathers have passed away, but In some ways maybe its better for them, at least they can hold on to some good memories or something..I dont really have any?

please, do not feel bad for me or anyone else whose fathers have died already. instead feel bad for yourself you ungrateful, whiney, bitch. if you're anything like your online persona i can see why you n dear old daddy don't get along. do you honestly belive it's better that some of our fathers have died so we can now hold on to some good memories? you've gotta be fuckin kiddin. you may not have a lot of good memories of your dad but you've also got the rest of his life to have some. you've still got a chance to get to know the guy. i can't. i hear stories of my dad from family and freinds, there's my "good memories" of dad.

you say you hate fathers day cause your dad is "the worst"? what makes him so fuckin bad? does he beat you, touch you in your no-no zone, spend the months rent money on whores n crack rocks? please elaborate and tell the class why your dad is such a terrible person. if he has done, or does something so evil that you really have pure hatred for the guy then okay, at least it's justified. but if it's just because you two don't get along, like your first vauge post implies, then shut the fuck up! no matter how bad you've got it, there are plenty of other people that have it way, way worse.

grow the fuck up kid. life's too short to spend it whining. be glad you've got what ya do.

[Courtney]

^heyy man I'm sorry your dad died but don't tell me I'm a whiny bitch and that's why I don't get along with my father...My hatred is VERY justified(I don't however really want to get into WHY on a public message board)

[mugsy]

Originally Posted by say_whut

please, do not feel bad for me or anyone else whose fathers have died already. instead feel bad for yourself you ungrateful, whiney, bitch. if you're anything like your online persona i can see why you n dear old daddy don't get along. do you honestly belive it's better that some of our fathers have died so we can now hold on to some good memories? you've gotta be fuckin kiddin. you may not have a lot of good memories of your dad but you've also got the rest of his life to have some. you've still got a chance to get to know the guy. i can't. i hear stories of my dad from family and freinds, there's my "good memories" of dad.

you say you hate fathers day cause your dad is "the worst"? what makes him so fuckin bad? does he beat you, touch you in your no-no zone, spend the months rent money on whores n crack rocks? please elaborate and tell the class why your dad is such a terrible person. if he has done, or does something so evil that you really have pure hatred for the guy then okay, at least it's justified. but if it's just because you two don't get along, like your first vauge post implies, then shut the fuck up! no matter how bad you've got it, there are plenty of other people that have it way, way worse.

grow the fuck up kid. life's too short to spend it whining. be glad you've got what ya do.

whoa whoa whoa..... not to jump into the middle of this but really you dont know her situation nor do i. i am currently loosing my dad to cancer, and this fathers day was harsh sad, and over the past year or so ive learned to get over myself, and respect my dad no matter what.
some people can be justified on hatred towards family members, as terrible as it sounds. and maybe alot of those people dont want to address that issue on a public message board.
we all have varying opinions. because ive had a normal great dad, i cant see hating one, but other people havent had what i have had. its not something i can understand or comprehend, so i dont even begin to think i can. all i can say is sometimes you dont know what you have till its gone, and sometimes you do know what you had when its gone.
dude calm down, she is not saying your dad was a bad dad, shes not affecting you.

[Jingles]

Originally Posted by Courtney

I feel bad for people whos fathers have passed away, but In some ways maybe its better for them, at least they can hold on to some good memories or something..I dont really have any?

i understand what you are trying to say here - i really do

but if you really thought about it, you can see how awful it is to suggest someone might be better off having lost someone

i have not lost a parent to death
but i have lost others and i would give anything to have them back
and it has been suggested to me that maybe it was better for my boyfriend to have died, because then at least i wouldn't have to live to see them with anyone else..he would never break my heart

but, that's not how it works, because once someone is gone there is no chance to rectify anything, there is no chance to do anything other then what has already been done

at the very least, no matter what your relationship is with your father, the very fact that he still lives means there is some hope of things one day getting bettr, even if you don't see that now
those who have lost a parent whether they had the best relationship, or the worst have no hope of things ever being any different
adn there is nothign good about that

[cinist]

I think we've all worded things in a way that we have later have regretted.


I’ve been through a lot with my parents , and as a result I have much respect and love for them. we fight of course, and the past was rough at times. But after you go through certain things with your family you realize that everyone is human and we need each other in order too make it through the tragedy’s that can happen.

[charly]

Originally Posted by Courtney

You don't know me or my situation with my father..I have a right to "hate" on him...and if my mom was like him I would "hate" on her too, luckily she's not..

never said i did.
i didn't mean anything against you or everyone else in this thread who doesn't get along with their dads.
it was just an observation from when i thought back to mothers day and how so many people where jumping down peoples throats when they didn't absolutely love and appreciate their mothers. but no one's really done that for the fathers. and they're parents too [even though sometimes not all act like it, but same goes for mothers].

[KandyKid]

You dont apreciate him until you lose him, lots of my friends complain about not having a good relationship with one or both parents, your lucky to have a dad, get a chance to know him better.

[chemicalbeatss]

ok. only thing i've got to say is...to me, family is what u've got. no one will really GET u...understand u like your family does. i think even if u have a bit of a fucked up family, they'll still pretty much be the level with you. my dad and i are not that close, but not far...we have a kindof understanding that i KNOW will never be able to replace with anyone. i've got a lot of respect and i've learned quite a bit from the guy.


i dont celebrate fathers day - i think its a bunch of media-ized 'let's celebrate' crap...but whatever - - it's always good to appreciate.

oh and whoa - everyone's so volatile on this board - so many little riffs going on. everyone just...whishhhhhhhhhhhhhh lax!

[fantasy20]

i hATE Fthers day because mine is gone , but too alll u peeps outthere who loves ur dads u go, be lucky u have one and love them forever...

[SEAN!]

i love my daddy, i bought him a bottle of tangueray..and we got drunk together on fathers day.

my dad is like an older version of myself.

p.s both of my parents are the best parents that anyone could ever wish for, every day especially when reading threads like this i realize how lucky i am.