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Old Dec 21, 01
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Gf/bf getting in the way of Friendship!

I hate friends who decide to suddenly ignore you once a guy/girl gets in the picture. It's like you don't exist. Do I not have a right to be pissed off when they come crawling back? What's even worse is when they come crawling back after when you told them the relationship they were currently in was bound to be bad.

Should a good friend say its okay, don't worry about it* hug**hug* or I told you so and you didn't listen.

Am I being selfish for not being a friend, or am I being mean, even though I was the first to get hurt, cuz I got ignored.

People like ya'' deserve shit. Ya'll should go and seriosly look @ your priorities. I know you have to spend time with your gf/bf, but it ain't no excuse.

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Old Dec 22, 01
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fuck...

isn't that the WORST!
i know exactly how you feel tim.
my friend has done that to me in the past...and it pisses me off when they break up and she came running to me to for a shoulder to cry on.
i just say kiss my ass :355:
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Old Dec 22, 01
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the same thing happened to me in the summer....no names mentioned.

but yeah. it does suck cuz they WILL come crawling back and that's when it becomes really awkward
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Old Dec 22, 01
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is this post about me??????
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Old Dec 22, 01
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Twiggy said but yeah. it does suck cuz they WILL come crawling back and that's when it becomes really awkward

Yeah, and what does a true friend do? I've been going through many scenaiors in my head and I'm totaly confused.

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Gilkayo said is this post about me??????
On what asumption do you think this is about you?
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Old Dec 22, 01
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well..when friends do drift from u due to bfs/gfs..its just that they are so totally absorbed into that love state...no matter wut..even if i disapprove of a good friend's bf/gf..i'll support them on it no matter wut cuz its wut they want and u usually can't change their minds anyways..and if they do happen to fall and come back after drifting away..i would most likely be there for them cuz i know that's when they need a friend and i wouldn't wanna abandon them..

if the situation was that u warned them about the relationship being bad..saying "i told u so" wouldn't be the best cuz they probably already know u were rite and are regretful..so why rub it deeper into their faces?..

but yeah..it does suck when it happens..no doubt about that.. :021:
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Old Dec 22, 01
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Originally posted by ~lazee_grrl~
well..when friends do drift from u due to bfs/gfs..its just that they are so totally absorbed into that love state...no matter wut..even if i disapprove of a good friend's bf/gf..i'll support them on it no matter wut cuz its wut they want and u usually can't change their minds anyways..and if they do happen to fall and come back after drifting away..i would most likely be there for them cuz i know that's when they need a friend and i wouldn't wanna abandon them..

if the situation was that u warned them about the relationship being bad..saying "i told u so" wouldn't be the best cuz they probably already know u were rite and are regretful..so why rub it deeper into their faces?..

but yeah..it does suck when it happens..no doubt about that.. :021:
hey jen, stop wasting your time posting on fk and find us a place to drink

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Old Dec 22, 01
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Originally posted by stringbeans_in_jeans
hey jen, stop wasting your time posting on fk and find us a place to drink
*yawnz*

haha..is that all thats on ur mind u silly bean boy?..help me!! :288:

EXAMPLE here:..john is crawling back..all he wants to do is drink now..but its ok..i'll drink with him..wut are friends for..=P~..
heh..j/j~
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Old Dec 22, 01
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*sigh*
I know exactly how u feel.
My best friend of 4 years is completely consumed with her bf....and he's the jealous/angry type so he gets mad when i'm around or if he thinks shes talking to other ppl more than him, which makes her spend hardly any time with me at all anymore. It really hurts me and it's been going on for over a year now. I wish she'd open her eyes and realize what she's missing in life and that she can do so much better than that inconsiderate asshole. I hope they break up soon, but she thinks they're going to get married. I'm sorry but at 15 years old you shouldn't expect to marry the guy you are dating. BLAH!!

But back 2 u:be a good friend but also explain how you felt about the whole situation and how it hurt you. Don't let those feelings go unknown.
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Old Dec 22, 01
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i dunno ...you posted it after i had told you everything....
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Old Dec 23, 01
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ouchies totally know what u mean... tim u've met all my close gurls and if u haven't reliezed i'm kinda diff from them. they get the guys while i'm the punching bad and crying shoulder. the sadddd part is that i hate comforting and i'm horrible at it cuz i haven't experienced half the stuff they have. i just go with the flow though... they need me..i'm there..even though i hate it. i feel like i'm their bitch.... oh god..
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Old Dec 23, 01
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i know exactly whatcha meen!!

ive was best friends with this gurl ever since a month ago....10 months ago she got this b/f and whenever they were going out she never wanted to do anything!! (like go to the mall...parties..coffee..etc) all she wanted to do was stay at his house ...i came over once in while visit her...but not too often cause when i did she got jelous that her b/f was looking at me!

so whenever they broke up or had a fight she would call me and cry how sorry she was for being such a bad friend to me and how i was the best friend she could ever have!!!
...a week later when she got back together with this guy...i was outta the picture again!!!

this happened too many times in 10 months to handle!!

then she lied to all my friends about me....my friends found out...she broke up with her b/f.....and now no-one talks to her...
her little games over....
and so id our friendship...not by my choice tho!!!

Firendship......sometimes..can be a bitch!!!!

~*~but then again??? what do i know?~~~~
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Old Dec 23, 01
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I only speak the truth Gilkayo.

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BeBu*FunFun said they get the guys while i'm the punching bad and crying shoulder. i just go with the flow though... they need me..i'm there..even though i hate it. i feel like i'm their bitch.... oh god..
Awww, man. I know how ya feel. I'm the same way. I can't just walk away. Sometimes I probaly should, but just can't.


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bitch!!!!
Yes it can. I wonder if being honest is the first thing a friend should offer? Or is it, being nice. My god, why is this so confusing.
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Old Dec 23, 01
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its' tough to walk away from that because i always think...maybe one day when i have my gurl problems they will hopefully be MY punching bag and crying shoulder.. hopefully being nice and sucking it up will pay back.. hehe i need to give it a try!

still after thinkin about it... i feel like i'm their bitch right now...eeekk
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