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Jan 11, 05
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fucking jibheads man
k so my cousin has been a jibtekwarrior for like 6 yrs now and shes my age with like 3 or 4 yr old kid who shes never been there for because jib is too fucking important to her.
So turns out her ex now has custody of the kid and theres some huge custody battle going on between my uncle and her babys dad.So now she doesnt wanna be a jibtek anymore. I call bullshit. I was hanging out with the bitch all day yesterday and fuck is she ever stupid. She has abosultely NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO INTENTIONS to clean up WHATSOEVERRRRRRRRRR!!!! I hate to sound so pessimistic but fuck Ive been around enough god damned drug addicts(and been one myself) to know who really wants to change,and whos just blowing hot air out thier fucking ass and she is! And like my mom is trying to help out and like offered her to stay with us and I was kinda all for it but now that I think about it I dont want some fucking jibtek living in MY HOUSE,touching MY SHIT,stealing MY SHIT! Fuck that Id beat the fucking shit out of her and I dont wanna do it. I mean I feel bad for my cousin but shit what the fuck are we as a family supposed to do for someone who isnt really willing to change like at all?Someone who only has a grade 8 eduaction and thinks that bikers and jib dealers r cool,and that having friends as junkys is fucking cool. UGH.Im so frusterated fuck. 
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Jan 11, 05
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i can sort of understand what you mean.
my cousin has been doing jib for...i dunno, a few years now i guess. every so often she surfaces or we bail her out of jail and she decides that she's going to clean herself up and everything is going to be wonderful and great and shiny. but it never lasts. and we let her stay in our house and then she steals things, and she slept in my room once and stole things out of my room. it's hard because i want to believe her everytime she says she's going to clean herself up, but it gets more difficult each time.
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jib sucks.
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Jan 11, 05
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I dunno its an odd situation for me cuz I used to be a jib head myself and I managed to get myself out of it you know?
Like i cant even talk to her because she doesnt understand what im saying because shes so like dumb because of her lack of education. I wish there was just some way I could like smash her in the head and *POOF* shed wake the fuck up and actually make an effort to change you know?
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true dat.
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That sucks. Once upon a time I had a boyfriend who did jib - wow that was so NOT fun. Thank goodness that it didn't go on for very long (maybe 9 months?), he quit and is clean now. It's so hard to see someone you care about hurting themself in such a way, and it's pretty much impossible to talk them out of it.
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Jan 11, 05
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shit thats harsh, im sorry to hear that, and poor kids...i have never had to deal directly with drug addicts but know i ppl who have and ive seen it.its really hard to deal with. but from other situations i have been in i know that if u really want to change nothing will hold u back. if ur just saying u wanan change to please others than your waisting your own time and the time of everyone trying to help you. i hope all goes well tho...
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that does suck n all but if she says shes gunna clean up then u should just supposrt her even if u do call bullshit im in rehab up in kamloops right now for doing jib n the biggest thing thats helping me is my support group she wont be able to stop unless she has support so just be there 4 her n tell her she can do it if u believe in her then maybe she will be able to believe in herself n actually be there for her kid n if she doesnt clean up then just sit her down n tell her how u feel bout her habit n that u'd like to see her do sumthin good 4 herself n that u'll be there for her thats all she really needs...
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^ You'd have to be on jib to read that paragraph with no periods.
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No, I'm just saying that punctuation is a virtue of the learned. If you don't use it you look like you're on drugs and you really dont want that at all do you I mean if you don't use punctuation it looks all sketchy and hard to read because there are no stops for you to catch your breath do you see what I mean now this is so painful for me to type because as I'm typing it I'm trying to say it the way it would be spoken and right now I'm out of breath and I haven't even said a word
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whatever man i know what its like to worry about family, but fuck theres no way your cousin can raise that kid wihtout the kid getitng fucked up too so their probably better off somehwere else cuz with a grade 8 education hows she even gonna get the money to support them.
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if she ends up moving in, make sure u buy ur self a lock for ur bedroom
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Jan 12, 05
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she isnt moving in than fucking god.
my mom dropped her ass off at a safe house,before she left she came over to our house cuz like she got into a fist fight with my first cousins wife(her dads wife aka step mom) Cuz like shes in jib psychosis and is only a week clean SUPPOSEDLY so shes still detoxing from the crap. Annnnnnnyways,she picked a fight with her step mom and her step mom cuffed her in the nose and busted it up all nice INFRONT OF HER KID. Fucking retards man. And like before she left to the safe house this afternoon she was talking to her boyfriend whos in the hospital right now cuz he got blood poisening cuz he stepped on a nail and bla bla bla, anyways the mother fucker is being a stupid selfish bastard and not supporting her at all and like putting her through a guilt trip for "leaving" him. I was fucking yelling at her after she got off the phone with him,fuck I cant beleive bitches can be soooooooo fucking stupid and stay with guys like that. Its just like so hard and fucked up for me cuz I was never like that,and I cant understand where shes coming from at all. I wanna be there to support her but shes so fucking stupid and has her head stuffed so far up her ass im beginning to wonder when the last time she saw daylight was. Whats even worse is that she seems to be taking advantage of my mom because my mom is a softy for fucked up kids she always has been and always will be. My cousin called my mom tonight from the safe house asking my mom to drive IN THE SNOW out to LANGLEY HOSPITAL to go and give my cousins JIBTEK MENTALLY ABUSIVE BOY FRIEND MONEY SO HE CAN USE THE FUCKIN PHONE TO CALL MY COUSINS ASS. My mom said no,thank god. Im just so vexed at my cousin. I told her last night that we are here to help her but if she fucks us around or trys to take advantage im going to fucking smash her. ughhhhhhhh. stupid disfunctional family why cant you just fuck off?!
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Jan 12, 05
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That is really rough n stressful on u,and ur family, but its proably the roughest for your cousin right now...The only thing i can really think of to help u out is just sit her down for awhile and give her the straight goods.Give her the pros n cons try and make her see ur point of view.Try to get her to realize that if her boyfriend isnt gunna support her and is juz gunna treat her like shit, then how the fuck is she gunna stay clean, or fuckin be happy with him.Just tell her how u feel and try to explain shit to her in small terms so her brain can understand them, cause im sure she has a lot of brain damage..just try not to ramble on like concellors do, cause it'll just go through one ear n out the other. Also make sure that u listen to her too cause that's something she really needs right now is just someone she can trust and be able to talk to when she needs someone there for her, even if u can't stand the bitch.
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Jan 12, 05
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i try to talk to her but she just wont shut the fuck up and actually listen. Shes right and im wrong.
I cant talk to her anymore cuz i get to the point where i wanna punch her in the face.:(
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Jan 12, 05
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Shiiit, well then thats harsh, i dunnno what else to say...Maybe u should write her a little letter...She might just brush it off, but she will actually take it to heart.When i was using a lot my mom would always write me little letters to tell me how she felt. I would always just brush them off but I actually took them to heart and they really kinda helped me n made me realize a lot of shit. I appreciate my mom for those things. Your cousin reminds me from what you've wrote about her, she reminds me a lot of myself so maybe writing a letter for her and just leaving it in her mail box or something might help out a bit. Who knows if it dont help now it might just help her down the road a bit...
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