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Dude girls never like to spell things out clearly..they expect you to pick up on clues and read between the lines...thats just the way it is lol
Next time try this.... Me: you want anything at Costco? Her: no thanks....i would like a water from Mac's though...u going alone Me: no with brian Her: oh nevermind <<<<<< THIS is a BIG clue, when girls use this word pay attention Me: are you sure? <<<<<< At this point you should be in damage control mode... instead of saying, "are you sure", you should have said something like, "why don't you come with me..." Her: ill go by myself Me: ok <<<<<< This was BAD See girls (and people) will give out clues hoping you will pick up on it, because it puts them at less risk of being rejected, in the sense that basically she is asking to be able to go with you. She expects you to pick up and realize what she wants, without having to come right out and say it..... you'll learn, just pay attention to what she says more closely. I wouldn't be upset her, she really didn't do anything wrong...more of a communication thing...how long have you been seeing her? One word of advice though, never say you are sorry to a girl... Last edited by electron; Jan 12, 05 at 11:26 PM. |
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I keep trying to remind myself that guys just dont fallow or get our subtle hints. Such as; *roll eyes* *ignoring* "um yeah whatever", "oh...", "nevermind", "fine!" etc etc... I think this is why girls can be so confusing. Since we know them and use them we start to take the slightest lill hints way too seriousely and personaly sometimes.
Now when it comes to bf's we give off alot of lill hints thats maybe theres somthing wrong or were trying to tell you somthing(usualy Im not happy wtih that) In most casses we wont be blunt and say exactly what it is, but rather send off these hints either waiting for you to finaly clue in or ask us "whats wrong?" BTW askign us once "whats wrong" isnt good enough... keep asking till we finaly say it or start guessing because we like it when you can figure it out yourself and tell us what your sorry for :) Then you also have pms... and it doesnt make the above any better. Last edited by Ree Fresh; Jan 13, 05 at 12:27 AM. |
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Fuck dude, if you really care about your girlfriend, and you care about making things work, and you care about not playing games, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU THINKING? Obviously you selling her out isn't going to make things better. IMO, neither of you seem mature enough to be in this relationship! |
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hahah what the fuck do I have suck up, i didnt start this thread i dont have these problems cause i know how to deal with bitchs and there games. |
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HA! I love it when they try to pull that BS on me. I have no patience for that, here's how I would've handled it:
Me: i have no problem buying you a water or doing anything else that you want Her: no thats not it...you are rude....u were going to let me go "by myself" Me: i asked you TWICE if you wanted me to get it, and you said no Her: i said i will go "by myself" that should have been a cue Me: If you wanted to go with me and so and so then you should have said so. I may have alot of talents but reading minds isn't one of them. Me: instead of hinting at bullshit just come out and tell me you want me to get you a water when i go out Me: its alot easier and a lot less heartache Her: oh so now what i have to say is bullshit, thats good to know. Me:No but what you're trying to pull is. So once you finally get off your bullshit, feel free to contact me, until then have a nice day or week or whatever you and your bullshit chose to. This conversation is now over. CLICK!! Sometimes as a man you need to take a stance especially if you know you didn't do anything wrong. Because sometimes women try these lil powertrip tests to see how much and how far they can ride you. DOn't let them..that's when you lose em. Be a man let it go. If and when she wants to comeback then let her and that's if you haven't lost interest. Good Luck! |
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I love how all the women got so defensive. Its like they are all united. If a guy makes fun of a girl and there are girls around, the girls will all help defend. If a girl makes fun of a guy when other guys are around, the other guys just laugh. It's odd isnt it.
And if a girl plays with me, i just fight fire with fire. Because naturally she's going to be a lot more emotional. Then you provoke them, they get mad and say what they really wanted to say all along. Then I dont really give a shit because i knew it was coming... then i say what i need to say, then its over. PRESTO: problem solving in 3 easy steps. Then they usually dont get your motive on getting them mad, so naturally they think they are the problem solvers (they always have to be the heros, the doers of right). But us men just have to accept that. |
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sometimes tlaking dosnt help cuz people think your attacking their very essence so they get defensive an shit, or they try and rationalize their fucked up behaviour even tho they know they are fucked up just because there too stubborn to admit it. atleast thats my experience |
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grow up! Last edited by yoko*; Jan 14, 05 at 01:48 AM. |