Running into Ex's

[ty_guy]

^^^ maybe he still longs for you. now that is power! whenever i see one of my ex's i just walk by normally cause i know i'm definatly happier cause i'm not with them anymore.

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by ty_guy

^^^ maybe he still longs for you. now that is power! whenever i see one of my ex's i just walk by normally cause i know i'm definatly happier cause i'm not with them anymore.

I def. know what you mean.. I've been happier in the past 3-4 months than I was for almost the entire 3 year relationship I was in.
being single rocks! (most of the time, hehe *sigh*)

[Sweet Heart]

I just broke up with my ex like 3 weeks ago of 8 yrs an im so scared to run into him but I know on things for sure I better look hot!!

[Kelster]

Originally Posted by *Geminiz*

People who feel the need to put others down to make themselves feel better are normally insecure about something. Houses + Fiance does not = happiness :)

i don't see how he was putting her down.

you haven't seen each other in a couple of years, so you catch up on stuff. was he not supposed too bring up his houses or hot fiancee?

[ebbomega]

Dear Adrienne,

I am currently single, living in a $200/month hole in a city where there's about 4 or 5 people that can actually hold my attention for longer than 30 minutes. I'm making peas and carrots in an industry that's supposed to be all about the bling or something and I'm an assembly line thinker (way to exercise that brain).

Sincerely,
An ex.

[diva]

^ I thought you two just humped? Did you actually go out?

My ex tries to make me think i've got a few screws loose, and lead quite the chaotic life; but when I stop to think about it, he's the one who's nearing his 27th bday, whining being tired all the time due to his exhaustive 3 day/week work schedule and has dropped out of school. He also probably spends a total of 20 hours a day sleeping and playing video games.

I might have a few issues, but in less than six months i'll have a degree in hand and multiple career prospects. Oh, and i'm 22.

People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.

[cinist]

Originally Posted by miss.myra

He's got a radical roommate too, so I hear!

this is what i keep hearing too..

[Revolver]

Originally Posted by decypher

You musta broke his heart :)

dudes got a point, but really all the game playing is soo lame but in all fairness ive caught myself doing sometimes....esp if i really really cared about the person. all that means is that i care about what they think and how i look. thers alot of fragile ego involved with guys. wether we want to admitt to it or not.

[veN]

Originally Posted by .daisy.

huh?
why stoop to their level?

I was totally honest with the way my life has been going. I dont think I have too much to be embarrassed about (other than the living at home thing *gags*)
I've got an awesome life right now, I dont feel the need to have to lie about a thing just to try and "one up" him somehow. I'm not into games like that.

Hey Adri, last time I checked, living at home to save up or pay off things to get yourself further ahead in life was a smart decision! I could have bias because I'm doing the very same myself, but I think you are doing fab dear! :) Don't sweat the small stuff luv, and that's all he is - A small part of your past.

[amanda rude]

Originally Posted by .daisy.

So I ran into my old ex from when I was 16 (or so) on the seabus today.
Why is it that whenever you run into an ex, they feel the need to tell you how much better they're doing than you.

"oh you're living at home?..well I just bought my second house with my fiancee...did I mention she's a model? "

like fuuuuuuuuuuuuck offffff

Did you break up with him?..... seems like it. It seems like he has something for you... maybe he's trying to get some revenge for something you did to him in the past (like breaking his heart?). I wouldn't care AT all for an ex trying to rub something in my face... because usually they probably just are, and deep down they have the issues.

[decypher]

Originally Posted by revolver

dudes got a point, but really all the game playing is soo lame but in all fairness ive caught myself doing sometimes....esp if i really really cared about the person. all that means is that i care about what they think and how i look. thers alot of fragile ego involved with guys. wether we want to admitt to it or not.

bingo! Having your heart crushed, as a guy, can make u exaggerate your position next time u see your ex. I bet he manages a mcdonalds haha

[TrixX]

Originally Posted by .daisy.

huh?
why stoop to their level?

I was totally honest with the way my life has been going. I dont think I have too much to be embarrassed about (other than the living at home thing *gags*)
I've got an awesome life right now, I dont feel the need to have to lie about a thing just to try and "one up" him somehow. I'm not into games like that.

hmmm, i don't think you really got what i was saying.....no where in there did i say to lie about what's going on in your life. if your proud be proud......that's all i'm saying. if someones confident about things they accompished why can't you be confident about things you've accomplished??

[ppcock]

Whenever i run into an EX (and it happens a lot for some reason) they try and give me the whole "im doing better than you" speach thingy.

Then I ask..

"Where do you live?"

"in surrey still"

Then I laugh and walk away.

[Akeel]

^
stop frontin like you had girlfriends in the first place.

[baby-phat]

argh!! :256:
oh yeah...exes are fuckin great. *grumble*
mine is in the process of going on and on about how much it hurts him that we are no longer together and seems to think that just because I don't wanna talk to him about the past/our relationship that I am hiding from things in life. like wtf?! ugh, I could just go on about all the crap he's talking to me about but it's all 'boo-hoo-feel-bad-for-me-cuz-I'm-feeling-sorry-for-myself" kinda crap.
I wish he would just leave me the hell alone!
I was in a hella grrreat mood before I made the mistake of talking to him. *sigh*

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by Akeel

^
stop frontin like you had girlfriends in the first place.

Why would he front about having girlfriends from Surrey?

[Tayfoon]

Whenever I run into x's that our break up was on good terms, we might chat for a bit and catch up, not this highschool bs about how my life is better than yours.

If I run into someone I had a rough break up with, I dont say anything, its called keep walking

[ppcock]

Originally Posted by Akeel

^
stop frontin like you had girlfriends in the first place.

atleast i wasnt 10 years older than my gf's

OH SNAP..

[Jen-E-03]

i've never had a problem running into ex's...all my ex's are really great guys and i enjoy running into them.

[Akeel]

Originally Posted by ppcock

atleast i wasnt 10 years older than my gf's

OH SNAP..

your just jealous!