loved ones who are constantly negative

[wum]

wtf do you do with them

[Hot Karl]

murder them.

[Bitchin]

Put them in thier place.

i uno... if someone makes me feel like shit.. I do the same to them... then ask how they feel.
I bet they dont feel so great.. eh?

teaches them a lessson for the most part.

otherwise I cut them outta my life.... simple as that.

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by wum

wtf do you do with them

could be depression even if its asymptomatic.

if their not willing to do anyhting about it then there is nothing you can do.

[Tea]

Listen to them. Chances are they just need to vent. Its ok to be friends with someone who has a different point of view just dont let it affect your own. If it does, then it is a problem. Clearly, it is getting to you...so maybe you might need space from that person...but really, i think honesty is the mark of true friendship. I know i would just be straight with the person if i started to feel i could not breath around them.

Good luck.

[Goat]

Rimjobs always pick up the mood.

[wum]

Originally Posted by Bitchin

Put them in thier place.

i uno... if someone makes me feel like shit.. I do the same to them... then ask how they feel.
I bet they dont feel so great.. eh?

teaches them a lessson for the most part.

otherwise I cut them outta my life.... simple as that.

well it's a bit more complicated i think. she's my mom, and she's been chronically ill for the last couple years. the funny thing is, being so angry all the time weakens her immune system, so we're always trying to cut her some slack...

[inside]

Originally Posted by Bitchin

Put them in thier place.

i uno... if someone makes me feel like shit.. I do the same to them... then ask how they feel.
I bet they dont feel so great.. eh?

teaches them a lessson for the most part.

otherwise I cut them outta my life.... simple as that.

Fuck, you sound like u would make a great friend.

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by wum

well it's a bit more complicated i think. she's my mom, and she's been chronically ill for the last couple years. the funny thing is, being so angry all the time weakens her immune system, so we're always trying to cut her some slack...

ddue shes dealing with alot of shit so its understandable that shes negative however that does not mena its healthy. She could be suffering from chronic pain syndrome which essentially causes depression in people who experience long term dibilatating and painfull illnesses. as a result of these illnesses people tend to develop depression because their perspective cchanges and they feel helpless.

tell her doc whats up and see what he/she thinks about it.