Ever ask anyone for respect...

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Have you ever tried to explain to someone that what they do makes you feel disrespected and their reply is simply: you're weird, I don't do that and all you wanted was an apology...

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does Luis Ronda gotta choke a bitch!!??

[FeelGood]

kids these days dont know the meaning of respect.

[Chewy]

yea...

[FeelGood]

you owe me some karma mister.
lol

[thechix0r]

I know that feeling... respect these days seems to have washed away in the gutter, much like morals and values... goals etc...

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Originally Posted by Chewy

yea...

Heres the story. The ex clearly knows what im into. Sound and music. Now everytime I bring up anything s&m she will reply I dont like it, or I clearly see she's not interested. Well at this point thats all I got going on, so it's mostly what I talk about (right Chewy?). Meh, pisses me off shes around but could care less what I do. So maybe its not a respect issue but an ex issue...

[Chewy]

an ex issue... you come first .. then family then friends . exs.. and so forth

[mindgurl]

yes.

but not so much that reply.

the fact that you feel totally disrespected.

what goes around comes around.

KARMA is a bxtch.

[t-skywalker]

i actually know this feeling...honestly i wonder if ppl sometimes, honestly,realize what i do for them...and when or if im feeling a little disrespected they actually know where im coming from....sometimes its the little thing that count**

[Chewy]

yes^^^.. the little things

[optimum sound]

I think you're being weird, just because I don't have an interest in somehitng doesn't mean I'm putting you down...I just don't wanna hear abou it....I mean do I really have to...it's not like we're together and I'm not saying don't do what you do...I just don't want to sit there and listen to something I'm not interested in...anyways I really don't know what you're bitchin about so think about shit before you email me with it ok thx.



<H2 align=center> Roya

this is the nasty email I got in response to hey respect me.

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Originally Posted by t-skywalker

i actually know this feeling...honestly i wonder if ppl sometimes, honestly,realize what i do for them...and when or if im feeling a little disrespected they actually know where im coming from....sometimes its the little thing that count**

Its funny you said that. My last line on the email I sent her was "I hope you know where Im coming from".

2 great minds think alike

[t-skywalker]

:)....its hard being us!!!!!~HUGS~

Originally Posted by optimum sound

Its funny you said that. My last line on the email I sent her was "I hope you know where Im coming from".

2 great minds think alike

[mindgurl]

drama?


Honestly I dont think people should have to ask for respect. If someone is your friend they should respect you regardless.

PS that girl who sent the message seems like a selfish cow

[robyn]

Cause nothing says respect like posting a personal email on fnk.

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Originally Posted by robyn

Cause nothing says respect like posting a personal email on fnk.

I dont like getting mad and dwell, posting here was a good place to vent. The selfish cow comment made earlier was great and now I'll go on about my day.

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Originally Posted by mindgurl

drama?


Honestly I dont think people should have to ask for respect. If someone is your friend they should respect you regardless.

PS that girl who sent the message seems like a selfish cow

I didnt ask for respect in those words. I basically said smarten up or get out of my life.

Robyn - I was going to say the same.....

Asking your girlfriend to partake in something like S&M and her saying no, and you persisting on bugging her about it is the biggest form of disrespect there is.

It is like you asking a girl for sex and her saying no, and you continuing to pester her for it.

If it makes her uncomfortable to talk about it, then why make her. Talk about forcing her to do something she doesn't want to. Maybe you need to re-learn the meaning of respect.

And if it isn't something she is into, maybe you should start dating someone who is more compatible with you.

[optimum sound]

omy

this got damn twisted. All this was about, me giving her a choice. Respect me or get lost. This girl is an ex but we remain close. Im not your typical guy and I dont put up with shit from women. She has only become like this lately because of her drug usage. Im not gonna deal with her mood swings.

So to make things clear...have you ever talked to someone about something you dont like about them, in this case disrespect, and them turn to you like youre weird for doing so...

I know for a fact someone is gonna twist this too...

[robyn]

I just don't see how her not wanting to talk about something that most normal people clearly find totally boring is disrespectful. Maybe you're just self-involved?

[optimum sound]

Originally Posted by t-skywalker

:)....its hard being us!!!!!~HUGS~

help? theyre drowning me here. Comon Im the good guy.

and Avana I do not pester her. If telling her I made a new track is pestering then ok...as for dating other girls? Langara in a week baby!!

[optimum sound]

Originally Posted by robyn

I just don't see how her not wanting to talk about something that most normal people clearly find totally boring is disrespectful. Maybe you're just self-involved?

most normal people?
note to self: normal people do yayo 3 weeks in a row then lash out for no apparent reason

geez i was talking about one person

Im still not mad, this makes me laugh...and maybe having dreams and being self-involved is a bad thing nowadays...

[robyn]

I just think it's an stupid thing to cut off all contact with someone over, there's clearly other issues a brewin'. Have you tried talking about her interests? I hear the yay is very hot right now.

[mindgurl]

Originally Posted by optimum sound

I didnt ask for respect in those words. I basically said smarten up or get out of my life.

Well. Only you know what your worth.


Is this person worth it for you?


If you feel disrespected i'd say they aren't worth it. You can't change people, they can only change themselves.

Ex's are also ex's for a reason. Maybe peace her out for good?