PARTY girls = bad girlfriends? - Page 3

Silverwinged · #51 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by projectone

Cant some people work a good job? Have a house AND still party?

not every day, no.
and a lot of people in the age bracket that post on fnk for example, can't prioritize their ass from a hole in the ground.
usually most people come to a point in their life when they stop drinking every night and think about the future.
a serious job and a serious relationship needs hard work.
there is no margin for error with something like "oh sorry, i got too drunk last night, cant come into work."
or "sorry, i was really hammered when i was grinding on that guys crotch and then made out with him."
you know what im getting at?

tiedye · #52 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by projectone

Cant some people work a good job? Have a house AND still party?

why would you buy a house if you didn't want to party?

project.one · #53 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by t-skywalker

stay who u are!!!

I do nothing but!

Silverwinged · #54 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

IMHO, guys who would make amazing boyfriends, will not date party girls simply because they come across immature, with no real direction to their lives and come with too much of a risk of getting hurt/cheated on.

WYATT · #55 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by projectone

I think sometimes they are better if you have the same lifestyle. Then you dont have to worry about conflicts in that way. It sucks ass! I know!

me too dude !!!!!

project.one · #56 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Silverwinged

not every day, no.
and a lot of people in the age bracket that post on fnk for example, can't prioritize their ass from a hole in the ground.
usually most people come to a point in their life when they stop drinking every night and think about the future.
a serious job and a serious relationship needs hard work.
there is no margin for error with something like "oh sorry, i got too drunk last night, cant come into work."
or "sorry, i was really hammered when i was grinding on that guys crotch and then made out with him."
you know what im getting at?

I know exactly what your getting at!
But also, I know that I can drink and not worry about doing something that could jepordise my relationship if I had one, or my job.
People who have that problem probably shouldnt be drinking then!
Serious relationships do need work, but if you have to do to much work, then could there be a problem? I think that topic is open to different people and everyone is different. (So lets not start :P)

Im going to be working in my job where Ill be making good cash ,and Ill looking at a house pretty soon. Im still going to party.

Everything in moderation and with Responsibility. And your good!

veN · #57 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by projectone

Cant some people work a good job? Have a house AND still party?

if these men exist, id like to meet them. haha.

Silverwinged · #58 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Nev

if these men exist, id like to meet them. haha.

amen sista

mojo · #59 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

Allison is growing up.

: )

WYATT · #60 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

lol >>>>>>

Silverwinged · #61 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by mojo

Allison is growing up.

: )

i've learned to prioritize.
having a good boyfriend has helped tuns.
standards meter was cranked to 10, left there and after a little while i found a 10.

and what are you laughing at wyatt?

mojo · #62 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Silverwinged

i've learned to prioritize.
having a good boyfriend has helped tuns.
standards meter was cranked to 10, left there and after a little while i found a 10.

there are only a select few of us in this city. : P

i'm happy for you friend.

Silverwinged · #63 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by mojo

there are only a select few of us in this city. : P

i'm happy for you friend.

wings and beers soon?

project.one · #64 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Silverwinged

...after a little while i found a 10.

Im happy for ya Allison :P

KenJi · #65 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Silverwinged

not every day, no.
and a lot of people in the age bracket that post on fnk for example, can't prioritize their ass from a hole in the ground.
usually most people come to a point in their life when they stop drinking every night and think about the future.
a serious job and a serious relationship needs hard work.
there is no margin for error with something like "oh sorry, i got too drunk last night, cant come into work."
or "sorry, i was really hammered when i was grinding on that guys crotch and then made out with him."
you know what im getting at?

some people on this board could really heed these words.

but I also agree to the fact that it can be done. If the partying, relationship working the job is all done in moderation.

A balance in anything is a must.

t-skywalker · #66 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by projectone

But also, I know that I can drink and not worry about doing something that could jepordise my relationship if I had one, or my job.
People who have that problem probably shouldnt be drinking then!
Serious relationships do need work, but if you have to do to much work, then could there be a problem?

Everything in moderation and with Responsibility. And your good!

i have to agree with all of this......every type of person has a match....it does take work, but honestly a real healthy relationship shouldnt be that much work.....honestly if ur working extra hard to keep the relationship together then its just not ment to be. it should all come naturally, if ur ment to be together.

also i think if u drink and u do those types of things then ur not responsible.
u shouldnt drink. i never make out with ppl i dont want to make out with or go and drink when i know i have to work the next day. i have never cheated on my boyfriends. and im way more tame now from what i use to be like when i had one.

mind u i have had to go thru the trial and error to figure all this out.

mojo · #67 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

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Originally Posted by Silverwinged

wings and beers soon?

heck yes. lets actually do it this time though!

project.one · #68 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

I do drink and whatnot.
But Ive never done anything that would make me regret like cheat on a girlfriend or miss work for.
At any point that I start doing stuff that makes people annoyed with me, or that I start doing things like that because of my drinking, yeah I will stop.

I know my own balance!

baby-phat · #69 (**permalink**) Jun 18, 06

I drink, I do stupid shit at times while doing so but when I am dating someone I drink less and am more responsible with my actions. Never cheated while drunk or otherwise.
I used to know my balance.. but ever since doing that herbal detox my booze limits have changed somewhat drasticaly. Oh well, time to cut back.