when its hard to say 'no'

miss.myra · #1 (**permalink**) Jul 22, 06

It sucks. You really want to say 'no' and you're not the only person the other is depending on, but you know you're really going to get it if you do say no.

I've usually got a backbone but sometimes I'm easily guilted into things.

decypher · #2 (**permalink**) Jul 22, 06

I know what you mean. I can never say no sometimes and it's so frustrating

Carrie · #3 (**permalink**) Jul 22, 06

I'm learning how to say no aswell

but sometimes you just have to stand your ground.

Veni*C · #4 (**permalink**) Jul 22, 06

im the worst at this... i always feel so bad if i say no.... getting me into alot of trouble.....

hardstylin · #5 (**permalink**) Jul 23, 06

<--- *rubber arms* :)

**kiMMie** · #6 (**permalink**) Jul 23, 06

Human nature to feel the need to help others. Saying "no" appears to be abandoning someone, and normally people don't like to carry that type of characteristic on their shoulders.

Beware of always saying "yes" though. People have the tendency of thinking that you're the "yes" person and expect it from you if it gets said too often.

Flip · #7 (**permalink**) Jul 23, 06

I respect a woman who can't say NO. That's why I nail mutes, they can't say anything.

C_squared · #8 (**permalink**) Jul 23, 06

I love to hate the word "no".

~lazee_grrl~ · #9 (**permalink**) Jul 23, 06

still learning to say no...i hate saying it..

miss belle · #10 (**permalink**) Jul 24, 06

I have the same problem, I'm just too nice and people take advantage of that.

STORIE · #11 (**permalink**) Jul 24, 06

IM good at saying NO
HAHA

baby-phat · #12 (**permalink**) Jul 25, 06

Quote:

Originally Posted by Carrie

I'm learning how to say no aswell

but sometimes you just have to stand your ground.

Same here.. :)

Ms.Tarantula · #13 (**permalink**) Jul 25, 06

Quote:

Originally Posted by STORIE

IM good at saying NO
HAHA

me too.. I be like... ''uhm... fuck you.'' <-- thats how I say no.

STORIE · #14 (**permalink**) Jul 25, 06

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Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

me too.. I be like... ''uhm... fuck you.'' <-- thats how I say no.

or creeper walks up or makes dumb comment

me--> " um buddddAY FAWK OFF"

STORIE · #15 (**permalink**) Jul 25, 06

wow im a bitch to random creepers

tiedye · #16 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 06

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Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

me too.. I be like... ''uhm... fuck you.'' <-- thats how I say no.

funny.. when we say "fuck you" to eachotehr, it's considered flattery.

I'm not relaly about saying no.. I'm all about just coming across as the kidn of person not to present with a yes or no situation

unless I'm in a g ood mood, or you're worth my effort.. .I'd much rather spend my time distorting reality

miss.myra · #17 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 06

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Originally Posted by STORIE

wow im a bitch to random creepers

this thread wasn't about saying no to random creeps. good for you if you know how to say no, most people should in that case.

it's more about your close friends and family.

decypher · #18 (**permalink**) Jul 26, 06

The worst is the family members who attach some sort of guilt or other extortions of emotions to get you to do things completely unrelated. It's really low in my books.

AAA · #19 (**permalink**) Jul 28, 06

all I know is NO means eat me out first ...

QuanNeur · #20 (**permalink**) Jul 30, 06

Staying in is the new going out. Never leave the house and you won't ever have to say "no." Just don't answer the phone.

djmarkpaul · #21 (**permalink**) Aug 03, 06

When a lady says NO, it means is they don't enjoy giving head...the exception is that they secretly like it when you force them.

BTW I know this thread was certainly not started to be in a sexual context, but it's elusive nature is begging it to be derailed.