Making decisions you know that are going to effect you're life one way or another....

[Pussy*Kat]

So frustrating....

So stressful.....


I need an advisor or something

[Goat]

Making life decisions you're going to have to deal with you mean?
Or that I have to live with.
Because if you think i'm the father....well....prove it.

[Clayton.]

You need to chill out and stop thinking about thing's so much.

[Séguin]

what is it?

[Pussy*Kat]

Originally Posted by Ever666

You need to chill out and stop thinking about thing's so much.

i highly agree but..........its not that easy.....


Its about school, i got this GREAT oppurtuntiy but i dont know what to do about it......

half of me wants to go cuz i know it will be good for me but the other half isnt ready to grow up to that extent yet....

[Clayton.]

Originally Posted by Pussy*Kat

i highly agree but..........its not that easy.....


Its about school, i got this GREAT oppurtuntiy but i dont know what to do about it......

half of me wants to go cuz i know it will be good for me but the other half isnt ready to grow up to that extent yet....

I know how you feel, i have troubles making decisions aswell. And i wish i could take my own advice.

[Pussy*Kat]

<3 clay :)

[b0ld]

suggestion.... go now before its to late....
Next thing you know 10 years will fly by and you'll probably have bigger responsibilities (ie: a family) and would regret not going to school for what ever you are studying to which you can be more successful. Remember its about you and not always about impressing others. do whats good for you.... thats my 2 cents...

[C_squared]

I totally agree Kat. making the right decision may take some time. It took me 5 years to go back to school, and I must have spent like $300 in registration fees for different colleges and programs, but backing when it came to paying for the course. Half of the reason I backed out was because I wasn't 100% sure if what I chose as a career was going to be exactly what I wanted and the other half was refusing to grow up and taking that responsibility. been there.

Take as long as you need Kat, but you also need to push yourself once you know exactly what you want.

[Clayton.]

Originally Posted by C_squared

I totally agree Kat. A making the right decision may take some time. It took me 5 years to go back to school, and I must have spent like $300 in registration fees for different colleges and programs, but backing when it came to paying for the course. Half of the reason I backed out was because I wasn't 100% sure if what I chose as a career was going to be exactly what I wanted and the other half was refusing to grow up and taking that responsibility. been there.

Take as long as you need Kat, but you also need to push yourself once you know exactly what you want.

Couldn't agree with you more, i'm in a similar situation. Although due to not haveing a drivers license it will take more time then i thought to get to where i wanna be with a career. I'll get there one day though.

[Pussy*Kat]

After talking to Clay (and for once him being helpful and supportive)

I think im goign to go back.................as scary as that is

[PwInCeSs]

wooot what you wanna take?

[Pussy*Kat]

Financial advisory. I want to work in a bank doing stocks and shit

[MC Hammered]

Don't think and just do what YOU think is right. As long as you can live with the choices you make then there is no such thing as a 'bad' decision.

If you are stressing out this much to make one decision then you are going to have one fun life to live.

[Heffy]

If opportunity knocks. One best answer the door, cuz unlike Jehova's witnesses, it may not come back. If you believe that an opportunity to better yourself overall is available grab on with both hands. They become farther and fewer between the older you get. Just do what you feel will have the best long term effect on your life. Trying somthing and not succeeding *(which I doubt will be the case) is far better than having regrets.

Just Give'r!

[thechix0r]

Kat you seem capable of doing whatever you set your mind to, listen to what your heart is asking and it shouldn't lie to you.

[yoko*]

FYI

You may want to look into applying to work for a bank if you haven't already..

Many major banks/companies PAY for your education if it's related to your employment with the company. It's also a great foot in the door & opportunity to explore whether that's what you really want to do.

imo.

[Vitamin-X]

Ahhh those decisions...

Like whether to bet it up against a straight draw when you've only got mediocre pair.

[LeeBrat]

Originally Posted by b0ld

suggestion.... go now before its to late....
Next thing you know 10 years will fly by and you'll probably have bigger responsibilities (ie: a family) and would regret not going to school for what ever you are studying to which you can be more successful. Remember its about you and not always about impressing others. do whats good for you.... thats my 2 cents...

agreed. you could always take something in school part time if you dont feel ready to commit fully. at least your still young, you have lots of time to change your mind.
right now what im taking in school, im not fully sure anymore that i really want to pursue it, or really what i wanna do with my life yet, but at least im finishing what i started.

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by MC Hammered

Don't think and just do what YOU think is right. As long as you can live with the choices you make then there is no such thing as a 'bad' decision.

If you are stressing out this much to make one decision then you are going to have one fun life to live.

Agreed 100%
Life is about being happy and having fun!
Sometimes, you have to sacrifice fun (or, lots of fun) for a period of time in order to pursue goals that will make you happy. In the end, they'll go hand in hand. I understand how you feel right now b/c I'm putting 100% of myself into making a crapload of money by next summer so I'll be able to afford to move to Miami. Sure, it sucks not being able to go out and blow money on stupid things like shoes and booze, but in the long run I'll be much happier!