this made me speechless

GoGo_Gurl · #1 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

ha ha some girl is/was charging me with something i didnt do and the found me guilty and blah blah (dont wanna get into deatil)

so needless to say this girl has made my life a living hell for the past year and a half.

Now she has turned into a coke whore and i just found out that she is PREGNET!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ba ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha i know i shouldnt laugh cause that child does not disurve tob have her as a mother. But i'm going to make sure she has her child taken away from her. Pay backs a bitch

cinist · #2 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

why wouldn't you just want to let it go and hope karma kicks her in the ass? i am sure if the kid is endanger it will be taken care of.

GoGo_Gurl · #3 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

meh... its more fun for me this way

cinist · #4 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

you will never be happy person

cyberdog · #5 (**permalink**) Mar 29, 03

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Originally posted by cinist83
why wouldn't you just want to let it go and hope karma kicks her in the ass? i am sure if the kid is endanger it will be taken care of.

Sometimes it isn't tho...and sometimes it is, but not until some form of harm has occurred. I don't know the details, so I'm not suggesting which path is "right"...but, it does beg the question, if the action is correct, does the motivation behind it matter?

Cowboy · #6 (**permalink**) Mar 30, 03

absolutely not....what the hell are you guys talkin about.......

where the fuck do you get off trying to have somones CHILD taken away from them.....i don't fuckin care what she did to you.....did she kill youre baby cuz then maybe i could remotely understand where youre comin from.....so what if you HEARD she was a crackwhore...do you know this for sure......and even if she was it does not give you the right to interrupt somones attempt to get clean for their childs sake.....don't fuck with her kid...i mean the kid hasn't done anythign to you...and having the kid taken away by social services might do more harm then good.....it will grow up in foster families...it will have numerous social and emotional difficulties..unless the mother is endangering the child then you have no right to use your personal vendetta as an excuse to ruin two peoples lives...........

corrie

cyberdog · #7 (**permalink**) Mar 30, 03

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Originally posted by cyberdog
I don't know the details, so I'm not suggesting which path is "right"...but, it does beg the question, if the action is correct, does the motivation behind it matter?

OK, I can see where my post maight be easily misunderstood. What I meant was that I don't really know the exact situation, so what is "right" is beyond my ability to say.

BUT, the situation did make me think of an interesting, theorhetical question of actions and motivations in general, and I was posing the question as a general one, to be applied or considered in a number of situations, not just this one.

In this case, I can't say for certain because again, I don't know the people involved.

specialkonrd · #8 (**permalink**) Mar 31, 03

don't listen to them! she deserves to get fucked!

Cdn_Brdr · #9 (**permalink**) Mar 31, 03

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Originally posted by Cowboy
having the kid taken away by social services might do more harm then good.....it will grow up in foster families...it will have numerous social and emotional difficulties

You never want to see a child forced to grow up in the foster system. There are some great foster homes out there but there are some horrible ones too... where the people are just in it for the pay cheque.

It's an awful system. My parents fostered and we had 3 siblings move in with us. They lived with us for 5 years and became family... I still refer to them as my brothers and sister. After 5 years social services took them away and put them in a new foster home. they never gave us a reason as to why and they said they didn't have to because they had told us in the beginning "Don't get attached to these kids"

Give me a break! How do you not get attached after 5 yrs? Anyways.... after they took them we were allowed to see them only once and it was a hard day. Try saying goodbye to your family... lots and lots of tears. I've managed to see the oldest child recently as he is now of age to see me if he wants to. I still haven't seen the younger two. The youngest, my sister, was the hardest for me to deal with because we were very close and I would do anything to be able to see her now.

Bottom line..... be careful and think about what you're going to do before you do it. The foster system is not all rosy and perfect for a child to grow up in.

cinist · #10 (**permalink**) Apr 01, 03

^
thats rough but all too familiar in this system
why they take the kids away from foster homes after a period of time is beyond me, its so sad

do you still see these kids?

Cdn_Brdr · #11 (**permalink**) Apr 01, 03

^No.... its a long story but if you're willing to read it I will tell it.

When the three were taken from their parents the understanding was that the parents would NEVER get theri kids back. They were mentally unstable and the kids had been through a hurricane of mental abuse.

Some examples: The middle boy Wayne had been witness to his younger brother drowning in a bathtub when the parents left him in the tub. He was 4 and the brother 3.

The oldest Lou was quite often locked in a bedroom with nothing but a mattress and some cold KD for dinner while his parents went to the bar to drink.

The youngest girl Alma was found an hour long walk away from home on the side of the highway. She was 9 months old and crawling.

So for obvious reasons the three were taken from their home and placed in foster care. We were the first home that they had come to and they stayed for 5 yrs. During the course of that 5yrs the parents managed to have 2 more children who were taken by social services immediately after birth.

The other two siblings were placed in another foster home. Lou, the oldest boy, wanted the two youngest siblings to come live with us. He was very concerned with keeping the family together. For some unknown reason the people at social services didn't want this to happen. My parents supported Lou 100% on it and even offered to adopt the youngest two rather that have them feed off the foster system. They figured it may help in a decision. My parents would have loved toadopt all five but unfortunately the monetary situation just wouldn't work. They kind of depended on the money that social services gave them for the other three.

Now social services brass was very upset that my parents supported Lou and his decision. They basically wanted my parents to try and convince Lou that the situation was best the way it was. They wouldn't do it and were basically black listed at social services. Thats our best guess as to why they were taken away.

I've seen them only once since they were taken and that day was filled with a lot of tears. It was about a month after they had been removed from our home.

The kids were separated into 3 different foster homes and all of them began to act out. We fought for a year to try and get them all back but it didn't work.

This was 6 years ago and to this day the kids are STILL fighting to get placed back at my parents home.

I suppose I shouldn't be upset about it though... after all they did tell me 'not to get attached'

Here's to the foster system!!!! :finger:

cinist · #12 (**permalink**) Apr 01, 03

shiT! WERd thats tough....poor kids..
damn i just dont get it, it makes no sense...why not leave kids where they are? its terrible, i used to want to be a social worker but i couldn't deal with hurting kids like that, damn.
the system is gAy