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When Your Friend Is A Slut
SEX and NUTHIN' BUT
So your friend can't get enough of it (sex that is)....till the point that that's all they ever do. The scary thing is that they're always with random ppl. So the question is: Is this a problem? Should you step in, or leave the person be? Last edited by chat noir; Nov 20, 02 at 12:48 PM. |
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I'm on msn. [email protected]. Tell her to shout me a holla.
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I think you should talk to her..
I know some people that are like that.. and it's not healthy, most of the girls that are like that have low self esteem and having sex makes them feel wanted.. or maybe she just really is a horny sex crazed girl, I know plenty of them too :P if that's the case just warn her about all the possible problems she could run into and tell her to be safe, obviously you care about her, I hope everything works out good :) |
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people start loosing respect and things start backfiring on sluts
it's probably just a stage probably has lots to do with self esteem and attention she'll grow out of it soon enough, maybe just make sure she's being safe, and you're not getting up in it |
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if i say slut.. it's usually referring to a girl..
if it's referring to a guy that sleeps around alot.. i call them manwhores.. either way, i'd say talk to your friend, let her know your concerned and stuff.. i mean if she wants to do this you can't change her.. but letting her know you care and talk ing to her about it might get her to realize what she's realy doing.. i know of alot of girls do it for attention. most tend to stop cause they don't like the negative attention they get, but some keep on doing it. no matter how negative the attention is, it's attention and that's all that matters.. |
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So s/he likes sex...what's the problem...If they're using protection then leave em alone!!!
So many people think that if you sleep with alot of people you have low self esteem...In reality it just means that you like sex and you get bored of the same person. Why put yourself through the trials of a relationship when you can have the good stuff with no strings? |
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it's not really any of your business who they sleep with so you should probably leave them alone..
UNLESS it's starting to get them into trouble, then sit down and talk to them... just tell them your worried... blah blah blah.. but be nice about it |
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i had a friend like that, she slept with so many guys it was disgusting, everytime i talked to her i would have to sit there and listen to her say "i slept with this guy, and this guy, and this guy,and i fooled around with this guy" she would go on for like 2 hours, it was pathetic.i started to get a reputation like she had just by hanging out with her so i finally told her she was a slut and she had no respect for herself. i havent talked to her since but i heard from some friends that she still sleeps around all the time.
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besides, you can't tell your friends what to do unless they ask for your advice. If you can't stand by and watch your friend do it to themselves, then walk right away. They might realize their own mistakes once they lose friends for their behaivors- but that is applicable in many different situations. |
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I think you should tell your friend how you feel.
It would show your concern and perhaps give her a good indication of how other people view her as well. I think that not saying anything shows that you don't care about your friend. I don't agree with the whole "letting them make their own mistakes" thing. |
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I dont see why people call people sluts. Big fuckin deal so they like a variety of sex partners there is nothing wrong with that!!! Dont be so narrow minded and slap labels on people!Just because what they do u dont agree with doesnt mean that u have the right to sit there and call them down for it.
Keep an open mind :kimmie: |
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I'm all for sex, but what if what they're doing isn't safe -- ie. random partners with zero protection. I have an extremely open mind, just not when it comes down to STDs |
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