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Old Nov 20, 02
Kuckucksuhr
 
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When Your Friend Is A Slut

SEX and NUTHIN' BUT

So your friend can't get enough of it (sex that is)....till the point that that's all they ever do. The scary thing is that they're always with random ppl.

So the question is:

Is this a problem? Should you step in, or leave the person be?

Last edited by chat noir; Nov 20, 02 at 12:48 PM.
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Old Nov 20, 02
Lord of the Blings
 
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I'm on msn. [email protected]. Tell her to shout me a holla.
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Old Nov 20, 02
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I think you should talk to her..

I know some people that are like that.. and it's not healthy, most of the girls that are like that have low self esteem and having sex makes them feel wanted.. or maybe she just really is a horny sex crazed girl, I know plenty of them too :P if that's the case just warn her about all the possible problems she could run into and tell her to be safe, obviously you care about her, I hope everything works out good :)
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Old Nov 20, 02
flick ma bean
 
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people start loosing respect and things start backfiring on sluts

it's probably just a stage
probably has lots to do with self esteem and attention
she'll grow out of it soon enough, maybe

just make sure she's being safe, and you're not getting up in it
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Old Nov 20, 02
JELLY BULB!
 
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1.don't call them a slut because even if that's what they're doin' it hurts 2 be called that.
2.tell them yu are concerned but don't try to change them because you can't change people.

*huggles*
emma
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Old Nov 20, 02
Kuckucksuhr
 
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it's funny how when we use the word slut you assume girl...

but what if it was a guy? (okay, so maybe not the most typical to use for a guy?)
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Old Nov 20, 02
Lord of the Blings
 
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Because it is ok for guys to sleep around ok. A guy who does this is not a slut. He is a playa. Shit, let a playa play!
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Old Nov 20, 02
.fade.into.dust.
 
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if i say slut.. it's usually referring to a girl..

if it's referring to a guy that sleeps around alot.. i call them manwhores..

either way, i'd say talk to your friend, let her know your concerned and stuff.. i mean if she wants to do this you can't change her.. but letting her know you care and talk ing to her about it might get her to realize what she's realy doing..

i know of alot of girls do it for attention. most tend to stop cause they don't like the negative attention they get, but some keep on doing it. no matter how negative the attention is, it's attention and that's all that matters..
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Old Nov 20, 02
dumb it down, would ya?
 
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have your friend PM me. i will give your friend cyber sex that will make him/her forget allllll about sleeping around in real life.
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Old Nov 20, 02
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So s/he likes sex...what's the problem...If they're using protection then leave em alone!!!
So many people think that if you sleep with alot of people you have low self esteem...In reality it just means that you like sex and you get bored of the same person.
Why put yourself through the trials of a relationship when you can have the good stuff with no strings?
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Old Nov 20, 02
Miss~duB
 
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it's not really any of your business who they sleep with so you should probably leave them alone..

UNLESS it's starting to get them into trouble, then sit down and talk to them... just tell them your worried... blah blah blah.. but be nice about it
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Old Nov 20, 02
kickitliketae-bo
 
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let him or her fuck thier brains out.
Buy them a family pack of condoms hahaha
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Old Nov 20, 02
GIRLS ! GIRLS !! GIRLS !!
 
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TELL HER TO STICK WITH 1 GUY !!!!!

PLAIN n SIMPLE !
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Old Nov 21, 02
kickitliketae-bo
 
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its not that easy 2 stick with one partner. I know because I myself get bored very easily... so ya easier said than done
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Old Nov 21, 02
GIRLS ! GIRLS !! GIRLS !!
 
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depends on what your lookin for

#1 quick fuck
#2 a relationship
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Old Nov 22, 02
Registered
 
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i had a friend like that, she slept with so many guys it was disgusting, everytime i talked to her i would have to sit there and listen to her say "i slept with this guy, and this guy, and this guy,and i fooled around with this guy" she would go on for like 2 hours, it was pathetic.i started to get a reputation like she had just by hanging out with her so i finally told her she was a slut and she had no respect for herself. i havent talked to her since but i heard from some friends that she still sleeps around all the time.
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Old Nov 22, 02
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Perhaps she just likes to play mind-games on poor, unsuspecting guys. Yeah... the good ol' power-trip on us feeble-minded males who cannot resist our most instinctive urges... :keebler:
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Old Nov 22, 02
Extra Crispy Beats
 
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Quote:
Originally posted by Timdareez
depends on what your lookin for

#1 quick fuck
#2 a relationship
um.. no shit.
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Old Nov 22, 02
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Quote:
Originally posted by Kelster:
people start loosing respect and things start backfiring on sluts

it's probably just a stage
probably has lots to do with self esteem and attention
she'll grow out of it soon enough, maybe

just make sure she's being safe, and you're not getting up in it
Kelly's right...

besides, you can't tell your friends what to do unless they ask for your advice.

If you can't stand by and watch your friend do it to themselves, then walk right away. They might realize their own mistakes once they lose friends for their behaivors- but that is applicable in many different situations.
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Old Nov 23, 02
Don't Believe The Hype
 
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I think you should tell your friend how you feel.
It would show your concern and perhaps give her a good indication of how other people view her as well.

I think that not saying anything shows that you don't care about your friend. I don't agree with the whole "letting them make their own mistakes" thing.
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Old Nov 23, 02
Don't Believe The Hype
 
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diva is a jewel in the roughdiva is a jewel in the roughdiva is a jewel in the rough
^also, i know that the people who just stood by during a trying time in my life aren't in my life anymore.
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Old Nov 23, 02
JELLY BULB!
 
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Quote:
Originally posted by ~*goddessa*~:
its not that easy 2 stick with one partner. I know because I myself get bored very easily... so ya easier said than done
i'm the exact same way
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Old Nov 26, 02
Fuck the corporate world
 
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say: "can i have a go at it??"

friend?
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Old Nov 26, 02
kickitliketae-bo
 
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I dont see why people call people sluts. Big fuckin deal so they like a variety of sex partners there is nothing wrong with that!!! Dont be so narrow minded and slap labels on people!Just because what they do u dont agree with doesnt mean that u have the right to sit there and call them down for it.
Keep an open mind :kimmie:
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Old Nov 30, 02
Kuckucksuhr
 
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Quote:
Originally posted by ~*goddessa*~
I dont see why people call people sluts. Big fuckin deal so they like a variety of sex partners there is nothing wrong with that!!! Dont be so narrow minded and slap labels on people!Just because what they do u dont agree with doesnt mean that u have the right to sit there and call them down for it.
Keep an open mind :kimmie:

I'm all for sex, but what if what they're doing isn't safe -- ie. random partners with zero protection.

I have an extremely open mind, just not when it comes down to STDs
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