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booty calls are rad, but often I find that guys get emotionally attached if we booty call for 2 long, so my advice to u is: Fuck him/or her for a few months then tell him/or her to beat it then find a new booty call, or, keep a few booty calls in rotation
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I used to love showing up at this guys place after a good night of drinking
He'd be like, 'are you drunk again?' and I'd be all 'noooooo' - 'you only come here when you're drunks' me 'maybe' him why never in the day?' me 'cause i like you best at night, so can i come in?' him 'obviously' it was superb - no connnection during the day - and never at my place, I dropped in on him when i was in the mood it was every gals booty dream and it just sort of stopped one day and that was that - no fuss, no muss he was yummy snowboarder ~ wonder what he's doin' these days? Jingles |
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^ naturally - you are entitled to your opinion
but sex doesn't equal love and some of us don't equate sex with love. Sex can be a part of a loving relationship, for sure but good sex doesn't requie love - in fact great sex doesn't either. there is a beautiful connection between two people in a relationship who choose to make ove - But booty calls aren't about 'making love' they are about sex or fucking - masturbation with a partner.... I am not sure why you think people with low self esteem are the only ones who enjoy casual sex - I have certainly enjoyed non-committed sex, and have no self esteem issues. Sex isn't just about marriage. In this 'new day and age' some people don't consider marriage their ultimate goal, or even something they want to bother with - so in turn should they never have sex? I think not - done correctly booty calls can be fun, satisfying and totally non-degrading. Its all about communication So no making pot shots - just cause you don't agree with them , doesn't make the people who partake in them morally inferior broaden your mind and we agree to disagree Jingles |
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^wurd!
i agree...i find the sex is BETTER when its not a booty call cuz you get used to what gets eachother off....i mean....i was with a girl that jus fuckin when crazy by me tickling her back.....i mean...i never would have fuckin guessed that.....who the hell gets off by having youre back tickled....i jus had to do that for a few minutes and she would jus go nuts...hahah man that was sweet.....anyway.........*sigh*... but yeah...booty calls are fine......but i have run into trouble with them as well....the girls start gettin all attached and shit and acting like their fuckin bf or some shit...and then i feel real bad becuz i have to start treating like shit cuz they jus don't get the whole i don 't like thing...ure jus hot.....and i feel bad cuz if i had known that was gonna happen i wouldn't have gotten involved in the first place....but it is hard for anyone to have frequent relations with someone and not become attached....so ure best bet is to only have contact with that person if it is directly related to a bootay call..... and jingles...u are sooooo my ex gf.....ure sweet.... and sue....if he doesn't seem to get the hint...its becuz youre either the only one on his list of booty to call....or...ur at the end of the list and ure his last shot....so give the guy a break...u can't blame him for trying...and considering youre drunk normally it would be easier.......... corrie |
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no thanx.
If I'm gonna have sex with anyone.. it should be worth it.. and shit.. but booty calls for cuddles on the other hand.. I'm down with that.. I just gotta find some ones that down with JUST cuddling and no more.. damn it! |
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i totally agree........ it may seem to some that self worth is missing but i dont have any self esteem problems from it so if you handle it and are safe about sex giv'er............ |