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Sep 09, 03
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Jingles,
I would always be thinking about it. Obiously if its been 50+ this person doesn't seem to be the kind of person id want to be in a long term realationship with. I mean Vancouvers not that big of a city, you'd run into an ex fuck everywhere you went. Thats just me though. Too each its own 
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Sep 09, 03
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I stopped counting after it stopped being something to brag about....it's called "graduation". Not that I don't remember every person I've been with, but keeping a running tab or notches on the bed-post is no longer the priority it might once have been. I really could care less about how many people my partner had been with over the years. I might be concerned about someone who put 10 on the bag last week, but overall it's a non-issue. And yes, there are guys out there who get called sluts and whores. I've been called that a few times, by friends and co-workers. Thats why I constantly try to cut those words out of my vocab. Age ain't nothing but a number.... Sex shouldn't be.
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Sep 09, 03
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hmmm...All I would be thinking is that s/he must have some skills after all that practice...
It would seriously not even phase the way I would feel about them...# of partners is not an issue...as long as they are clean...
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Sep 10, 03
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id never ask or tell
what serious good could come from that kind of honesty - youd never feel equal in a realtionship i think its waaay more important to figure out how clean they are
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Sep 10, 03
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I really didn't want this post to be about JUST numbers again - that's honestly not my question
what i really wanted to know was how you would feel to find out that your partner is more experienced For Example Jimmy and Jane are dating - they decided to talk about 'the sex' Jimmy has slept with 4 girls - but it turns out Jane has slept with 8 Does Jimmy feel less like a man? Nothing to do with sluts or dirty (though I am sure no matter what a person's number is it can and often will come up) Or Sean and Sue are dating and are in love and have been sleeping together for a while - they decide to have the numbers talk and Sue finds out that Sean has slept with like 70 girls - She honestly loves him......but will she look at her partner differently now?
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Sep 10, 03
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holy fuck 50!!
man thats ten times as many people that i have slept with.. i don't know how id feel thats why i don't ask questions liek that...their history dosn't matter as long they don't have any dieseases. on the plus site a chick thats slept around alot is probably pretty good in bed..hahahhaha
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Sep 10, 03
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Sep 10, 03
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I think it all really depends on the number.
If I was with someone and that topic came up, I wouldn't lie [what's the point?]. But if they had slept with like 30 other people or something, I'd have to admit, I'd think of them differently. I can't help it. I'm only 18, so numbers can be high. But anyone with a really high number, is probably not the type of person I'd want to be with. If it was only a few more then me, or nothing excessive I wouldn't care. It's only excessive numbers that would bother me.
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Sep 10, 03
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Well as some of you know, this is a really hard question to answer for me. This person I just slept with would have to be really special to me, so I don't think it would matter to me. If she told me that her number was 50, I'd definitly think differently of her.
Hard question -jay :209:
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Sep 11, 03
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If we were dating and felt strongly about each other it wouldn’t matter. As long as they stayed true to me and didn’t cheat on me... I would want to go get tested of course. Its better to be safe than sorry.
Jingels I love reading your post in this forum. You always have good thought provoking questions.
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Sep 11, 03
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it's not about how many people the said person has slept with but how awesome he/she is in bed. also, the std check is a must for all, because it only takes one.
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Sep 11, 03
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I wouldnt care how many people the person has slept with, but id care if the person had only slept with a few people. Inexperienced people suck and usually when a persons only been with a few people I end up having to take charge and school the kid on the skills, which is crap because it should 50/50 u give as much as you take and if im doing all the giving im going to lose interest quickly.
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Sep 12, 03
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At my age, if he said anything over ten I'd probably tell him to hit the road...and man ten would really be pushing it.
The type of person I want to be with is not the whore type. Some people like that, others don't - I certainly know where I stand.
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Sep 12, 03
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i have sex to get off and i have sex to live out my fantasies, ive done the love sex thing before and its not exactly my cup of joe. My eyes have a tendancy to wander and when ur in *love* ur significant other doesnt normally appreciate that. So to save myself from bullshit jealousy crap i refrain form getting involved.
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Sep 12, 03
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my two main gf's i did that with...i thought i loved them...but i think i jus really wanted to get in their pants...it was stupid....i know better now.... and goddessa...what the hell happened...only a few months ago it was 25.....get ur freak on "do dododododo.. do dododododo" if i was with someone that had been with 50 people i don't really see how i could take the relationship seriously afterwards....i mean..the odds are ur jus 51 so jus enjoy it for wat it is....good wholesome sex..... the situation that i think this would mostly have an effect would probably be on couples pondering marriage.....becuz the majority of infidelities are a result of that persons lack of sexual experience....for example....they didn't act out certain fantasies before they tied the knot...or they jus aren't satisfied with how many partners theyve been with and maybe theyre missing something....so you can probably guarantee that the person who has already slept with 50 people most likely has enough experience to make the decision that she doesn't need anymore of it and knows what she is and isn't missing and therefore would be more secure sexually in a marriage...but on the other hand the spouse might now feel inferior where they might not have been prior to his knowledge of their spouses experience and a feeling of inadequacy would sometimes develop.... i don't feel i can honestly answer the question further becuz i don't feel people of myage give or take a few years should even be in a serious relationship... corrie
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Sep 13, 03
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when I first lost my virginity, I thought I was in love, because it was a different and stronger feeling than I had ever had before. Now I realize that it wasn't love, but at the time I honestly felt as though I was in love. Now that I do know 100% what I feel love is, I would never have sex if love weren't there (with both parties).
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Sep 13, 03
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and goddessa...what the hell happened...only a few months ago it was 25.....get ur freak on "do dododododo.. do dododododo"
I never said it was 25 i beleive i used 25 as a referance, i think i said something like "so if i had sleot with 25 guys im considered a slut" or something to the effect of that.
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