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playing hard to get
as much i as should probably not like it
i love it i know this girl that plays it so freakin well...its such a turn on. whats better than what you cannot have. i love trying to break that wall down. but then when it falls its usually like aww what. i was hoping for something better. lol. oh well. if a gurl is all out to get me. thats no fun, you gotta fuck with my head a bit...then i will really want ya...:P anybody else like to play this game? or am i the only one... |
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elguato, not for every girl though. For some, it isn't so much a "game" as it is a way of filtering out the losers/jerks. If a guy gives up after one shot, then you know he isn't all THAT interested, or he's just plain insecure and wants you to feed his ego.
I mean, it shouldn't be taken to a certain extent though. A girl who just misleads for the pleasure of seeing some one fall head over heels over them, is no good, that's for sur.e |
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I know girls play a bit to try and get some info on a guy, but I also know when they are just yanking my chain and I couldn't be bothered anymore.
The sad thing is when they find out that I don't want to play along they come running back. Too late by then. |
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ok first off chill out there bitter pants im talking hard to get, but they still want you! sorry if you havent experienced this. im not gonna marry the gurl so why not have some fun people take life too freakin seriously |
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Mainly I don't like my head being fucked with - so I can appreciate others not wanting it either - that doesn't mean I haven't been guilty of game playing -
Most have I think straight forward or really clear hinting "hard to get but they stilll want you" as long as you know there is interest...then the game is fun....but that's cause you kind of know what's going on I think I know what you are saying Mr.Jay i think people dislike the games where they have no idea what to think - at least I know that's the one I hate. Last edited by Jingles; Sep 25, 03 at 02:43 AM. |
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It's like that Aalyiah Song
'if at first you don't succeed, you gotta dust yourself off and try again' It's not really about childish mind games... As someone who 99% of the time makes the first move, I do need the assurance sometimes that someone is still interested in me, I like it when other people make the moves too, and sometimes I need that reassurance that someone is actively pursuing me. heh. M |
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I enjoy playing games with guys its alot of fun. For instance Ill make plans with them 2 go out and then I wont call or I will call and bail, then they start to feel insecure and are like 'does this mean u never want to see me again?' its fuckin funny as hell! This always happens with greektoy and i. I find that when I do do this... it makes the sex 10 TIMES MORE VIOLENT AND ANGRY :kam:
suckers. |
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it's only fun if it lasts no longer than a night or 2
games that go on forever get tedious there are 2 types of games 1) both people like each other and are just dragging out the chase............... this is the good one 2)insecure person is not intrested and drags along the other for the attention and security......... not good |
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taking things too far = lame I do agree. but if both people want the same thing and they keep their priorities in line games can be lots of fun. If I am trying to hook up with a girl and I don't have to put any effort in to gettin her... It's not really a satisfying or worth it. If she puts the chase on I feel alot better about gettin her in the end. I love the chase and this game called love! |
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it can be fun untill someone takes it too far or someone gets hurt... but i do agree...to a certian point it can be fun ;-) trying to get what you dont have...... ~V |
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I think alot of people in this thread have already lost an eye. jay dream I totally agree. You just gotta know what ya want keep focused and stay on your toes. It's all a bunch of foreplay if you ask me. Last edited by soma; Sep 25, 03 at 02:11 PM. |
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