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Jan 08, 04
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everyone likes to say that they can handle the no strings attatched to the sex thing, however somewhere in that type of relationship someone always gets hurt. feelings arise from the girl or the guy and not from the other side....... oouuufff. i hear it can hurt, and seeing many of my beautiful ladies go through it ("i wont get feelings for him really") i just cant imagine it being good.
i choose honest relationship. Last edited by mugsy; Jan 08, 04 at 06:22 PM. 
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Jan 08, 04
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been in a "serious" relationship and at this age its jsut a waste of time. (thats 3 years im never gettin back).
but im not too keen on the "fuk buddie" thing as well. why fuk at all? is that really all that important???
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Jan 08, 04
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if your in a serious relationship sex can be wayyy better, A nice fuck buddy is good for what it is, Lil bunny is right a serious LONG term relationship is pretty pointless at this age until u have matured more, but nothing wrong with having a relationship thats not so serious with someone u care about, because sex is better.
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Jan 08, 04
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It honestly depends where the two people are at. I mean, there is no point is having a "relationship" if all you are looking for is sex. The reality of the situation is that you both are human (at least I hope so!), and IF you are both mature enough to handle a primariliy sexual/physical relationship and it has been communicated as such, then all the power to ya.
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Jan 09, 04
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relationships are waaaaay better than casual sex.
in my experience, casual sex just ends up hurting someone. and thats no fun. :sick:
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Jan 09, 04
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the search for an appropriate mate can be difficult....
the fuck buddy mentality is great for filling spaces in ones life.. the sex with out the seriousness and attachment (far less intimate if you ask me)... score! just giver' I get bored quickly of relationships that require effortless and most the time a fuckbuddy is usually more conviniant than not. It's all about the thrill of the hunt! If I don't get to chase a girl, it cheapens the whole experience for me.
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Jan 09, 04
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Jan 09, 04
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I think a fuck buddy can be good. Too much of it may then develop into a false security situation. If its once in a while i say why not. However i would personally choose a relationship over it anyday. The things u get from a relationship are more than just sex. Depends on what your looking for i say. And if u could handle random meaningless sex. :kam:
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Jan 09, 04
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How about a #1 that turns into a #2?
Then you start all over again.
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Jan 09, 04
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Well i think it depends on who its with.... cus a fuck buddy i think is good if its with an ex haha just cus sum people are better off that way and alotta guys just cant hold down relationships.... But overall if a guy can actually get serious then i'd say relationship all the way! Fuck buddies that last for a long time such as a year tend to get attached to eachother and what if one of u ends up getting a bf or gf? what would u say to ur buddy? it would clearly ruin ur freindship and stuff.... this topic confuses me.... HELP haha
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Jan 09, 04
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oo jeez this is kinda a tough one...everyone luvs havin booty calls but casual sex easily gets awkward if lets say one nite he's wit u an tha next he's goin after ur friend..how r u not supposed to get hurt then? but serious relationships can give u all tha luvin u want so u dont need a convenient fuk buddy..thats the beauty of havin sumone..not everyone is ready for commitment so i agree wit kraig..it depends where u r at in ur life
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Jan 09, 04
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I'm not into the whole "fuck buddies" thing. I don't think I would enjoy sex w/ a person I don't care about. I'd much rather a serious relationship. But finding some one that I wanted to be in a serious realtion ship with took for fucking ever. Most people just annoy the hell outta me.
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Jan 09, 04
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well this will be a rather one sided point of view considering all i've ever had is fuck buddys but here it is
fuck buddys. all the way. people say that people end up getting hurt but wouldn't you get hurt WAY worse if you were in a serious relationship. because lets face it: people break up. it's not a matter of if it's a matter of when. i don't care what you say, the highs of being in a relationship can't possibly be worth the lows i've seen friends go through as a result of ending a relationship everyone keeps saying that sex is way better when it's with some one you "love" but i hate the whole idea of "making love." I want to be violently tossed around thank you very much. :smoke1:
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Jan 09, 04
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i would definatly choose to be in a relationship with the person i'm sleeping with and have mutual respect and intimacy, instead of a casual relationship.
personally, i don't like to just sleep with anyone, or someone I don't know, for that matter.
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Jan 09, 04
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i've had both..and i don't want either of em right now
fuck buddies suck...i don't want to be humping a guy that's humping another girl the next day, and it hurts when things fall apart i want a relationship, but nothing serious...
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