Although I do agree that you can't tell which people have valid disabilities (ie: pituitary problem, guy with portion of his brain removed), I feel the need to go on a rant. Keep in mind, I don't expect anyone to agree with me, these are just personal opinions.
I think that our society as a whole is becoming far too ingrained on blaming everyone/everything else for their problems instead of taking a good hard look at themselves, accepting some form of responsibility for their current state and doing something about it. Not only does this take away time and money from the people who have REAL problems, it creates a weaker population that, when the shit really hits the fan, will not be able to dust itself off and move on. Got a drug problem? blame your parents, blame society, when you should be looking at what you can do to change your own life... Too fat? people say "I'm too busy, I'm depressed, blah blah blah" The simple fact is that, unless you have some sort of serious mental disorder, you should be able to have enough reason to either do something about it or get the tools to do something about it. Failed a test? "My teacher is too hard. My teacher sucks. I don't understand. waaah" Seriously, I bet you you could walk into any 3rd grade class and pick any kid and ask them: "How do you lose weight?" and they'll say "don't eat bad food" or "exercise". I think that too often people will lie to themselves or dance around the real issues when what it boils down to is that YOU got yourself into this mess so now suck it up, admit you screwed up and DO something to change it instead of blaming all your crap on everything else. I know that 99% of the shitty things that have happened to me in my life, I've either had a major hand in or I've cried like a little baby and done nothing to change at the time but paid for later. The other 1% that I had no control over I moved past. No one is pointing a gun to your head to make you eat that burger, sleep with that person you shouldn't, take that drink, shoot that needle, etc. Why should some people get special treatment due to a CHOICE that they've made when there's people out there that need that treatment when they've had no choice in what's happened (refering back to the example of the person with the portion of their brain missing). Seriously, they invalidate people who have actual disability/issues because they are too lazy, self-absorbed and irresponsible to take any steps to correct the problems they themselves have made. I'm not saying taking responsibility for your choices is the easiest thing to do, especially when you have the option not to, but it does make you a stronger person in the end.
*Gets off soapbox*
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