background: there's a guy i've known since i was a kid. he always acted really weird and i always tried to figure out why.
fastforward many years where I took business and marketing courses and I notice I don't get along with the guys that acted very flamboyant, like Chandler Bing. just bouncing off the walls, with smarmy sarcastic comments all the time, trying to act cute in their own way like ebbomega or SEAN!. They all seemed to have a dearth of male friends, and wayyy too many female friends. in fact, whenever we would get together for group project i would see these guys kicking it with mostly girls and talking about relationships.
i put two and two together, i noticed my friend from above also had mostly female friends. and i think it manifested itself in different ways, like acting catty and generally giving a vibe that was off kilter.
i suppose the same can be said for girls that have too many male friends.
your thoughts?
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