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Jul 10, 01
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for my first party, I told my parents that I was going to sleep over at a friends house. They know that I go to raves now. They still get a bit angry though. My mom always makes fun of me, based purely on the fact that I go to parties and dance. she asks me "did you dance" and she does some weird... wiggle... whatever... whenever I go out now, I say "I'm going out to dance" and they're ok with it.
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Jul 10, 01
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My mom doesn't like the idea of raves at all, so when I told her I wanted to go to one, she flipped out (but gave in after a while and ended up driving me there *lol*). I don't know what my dad thinks; I never talk to him about it cuz I know he'll say no.
My mom's pretty okay with me being out all night now, just as long as I tell her where and what time and such... She understands that because I'm 18 now, I'm going to go anyways so there's nothing she can really do about it. Its kewl. My mom is great :) wundergirl, my mom had the same drug talk with me too... telling me about how she used to smoke up behind the portables at her school and stuff like that. *lol* She also tells me that she doesn't want me doing drugs because they are so much stronger and have so much chemicals in them, compared to the drugs she used to do, which is true. So yeah, she knows that I go sober, so the trust is there. ][\/][iska
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Jul 10, 01
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You know what Winston? My friends used the exact same excuse to go to Phat Farm. They all stole field trip forms from the school office, and told their parents that they were going on a geography 12 fishing trip. haha...I swear. I laughed my ass off when they told me what they did. But guess what?! It worked...
I wish my parents were cewl with it, but they're not at all. I usually tell them anyways, but some weeks, I decide that I don't want to put up with them bitching at me so I "sleep over at a friend's house." It works, cause since I tell them when I go once in a while, they think that I tell them every single time. They know I did drugs at the parties before, but now they think that I go sober. I hate lying to them, but during those few months when I was completely honest with them, it bought me WAAAAY more shit than I'm getting now, soooo yea. Erica :AZN:
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Jul 10, 01
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my parents would die if they found out i even concidered going to a party but ohh well what can they do....... the bday parties are always a good excuse but they alwyas want me to call home at 11 or sum shit to check in...... its kinda hard though with the music..... but sumtimes i get creative and make up sum bull about sum sailing club on van island or a trip to cultus lake..... but if they ever found out i was at a rave that would be the end for poor lil old me..........:043:
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Jul 11, 01
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important update: as of last night, i am now allowed to go to parties
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Jul 11, 01
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sammy....you are THE genious!! you make a sista proud..... liza
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Jul 11, 01
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Or use it in place of Oregano.
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Jul 11, 01
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MOM: what are you up to tonight son?
ME: going to a dance MOM: what time does it end? ME: oh I dunno...7 or 8 am MOM: oh really! a rave by any chance? ME: I prefer the term "All night dance event" MOM: well whatever you want to call it, just remember don't be brought home by the cops and if you do, just pray they take you with them. ME: sounds like a plan mother Just be upfront, if they say "no" then either wait t'ill you're old enough or educate them more about what goes on and give them facts and show them that its not just a place where young people go and do their drugs(which sadly is what raves are be promoted as) Drugs are not only present in raves, but also in schools where sometimes drugs are only a phone call or a locker away, students also face peer pressure and are willing to try anything to fit in.*hehe I used this too, it worked for me* I have many opinions about the generalization of raves, but I don't want to get off topic and bore you people to death... Jordan
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Jul 12, 01
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there is minimal drug use at spanish so u can say "SEE!! not that many people are on drugs!" ...if she only knew!!
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Jul 13, 01
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i was thinking the EXACT same thing...i'm gonna do that. i'll ask julie if she wants to have a "mom's night out" and we'll bring both our mommies.
geeeeenius idea. Liza: MWAHAHAHAHAHA! my plan worked!
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