Excuses you YOUNG kids use in order to go to all-night dance parties.

[MC Hammered]

I remember selling two tickets I had for Simple 4 a while back and I asked the girl that bought them (I was nice enough to deliver the tickets) how she could possibly go to the party.

She was maybe 14 or 15 years old. Her reply?

"I tell my parents I'm going on a Geography field trip for the weekend."

I guess she goes to a lot of field trips then.

I'm not a parent, but are parents THAT stupid nowadays? I remember all the freaking consent forms I had to bring home just to go to Granville Island when I was a kid. How in the world do parents let this slide?

I can't wait until my kid tries to sweet talk their way past me. If they can come up with an excuse I haven't used, I'll personally take them to the party and pay for the ticket.

[sNyx]

I informed my mom and dad about what there like (excluding the drugs) and tell them where im going (not chilliwack parties) and there semi-cool with it.

[KeeBLeR]

my excues "MOM!!! (hear from doorway) going to a dance party! be back in the morning! BYE!" *door slams*

[walkin]

I'm allowed to go NOW, but before i would use...
1) im goin on a student council retreat *pfft*
2)goin to whistler w/ friends (hahaha i would leave at like 4pm too!)

but now i can go so it's all good!

[powerpuffys*]

Tony do you really slam the door on them? That is quite rude ha ha ha

My parents are totally cool with me going to "Raves" I tell them I would not lay a hand on drugs, That's a lie. One thing I wouldn't admit to them is telling them I DO DRUGS or it's the end of the world for me.

Okay this is what I tell them when I go to a rave
"Mom, Dad I'm going to a rave right now"

They say "Okay, be back before sunrise and dance your butt off, and don't do any drugs *FINGER POINTS*

[BeatFarmer]

cuz for almost every party i've been to they have been out of town so i don't even have to say anything. but when they are in town i'll sometimes tell them or say i'm gonna crash at a freinds house.

they don't really have a problem with it but if i told them i was going i think my mom would be looking for signs of drug use for the next few days and she can be a pretty suspicious....even when i'm not doing drugs!

[c.tard]

heh.. beat farmer.. what u just said bout being suspicious bout drug use. my friends mom was once.. adn smelt him adn was like "your on acid!" hehe it was funny..

buuuuuut back 2 teh topic..

i simply tell my parents.. the truth..

i'm just like
"ya.. i'm goin 2 a rave 2 nite @ (insert venue here)"

then they just ask like.. ya.. what's it called.. how long is it.. who i'm goin with (sometimes....)

and if i'm doing anything the next morning

then my mom just tells meeh not to do drugs cuz the emergency rooms are full already (ay hte whole hospital talk..hehe) and then just to call in the morning when it's over...

my parents don't mind.. they think i don't do drugs (theyt hink i'm really innocent.. and i don't do all this stuff.. but they dunno..) my dad always asks meeh and i'm like..nope i don't do drugs (it's usually when i'm kinda sketched out that i say this@ hehe) and he believes meeh...


i guess i was lucky.. cuz my sis wanted 2 take meeh to a rave like.. when i 13 or 14?? my rents wouldn't let her.. said i was 2 young.. but they let meeh now.. i was lucky cuz she introduced them to the whole thing.. and they know all bout it.. so i had to do no explaining! hehe

winston ~ about the whole liek.geography frield trip thing.. i'm sorry but that girls parents must just be DUMB! i mean no permission slips or nothing to sign? yeesh.. think bout it.. but then again..maybe she's like my friend and makes up permission slips with the school logo on the top and everything and just gets her rents 2 sign that..

[KeeBLeR]

no matter how stoopid your parents are they wouldn't let thier kid go on a feild trip that is overnight with out concent and chances are the kid is just too overjoyed that they are going that they forget to ask for money for food from the parents! hahah it's all a scam on the parents side! it tricked em the first feild trip but after that one they are waiting for you slip up and get screwed or something so they can catch you in a lie !

[Psycho-RavEr]

the very first time i asked my mom if i could go to a rave she was ok with it... but then i had to ask my dad too and he started tellin me how everyone does drugs adn what not ... how the hell does he know anyways...? not EVERYONE's doin it.. oh well.. so then he told my mom and she would'nt let me go anymore... so now waht i do is tell them i sleep over if its an over nite rave or im goin to a buddy's house to hang out or just a regular party (if its a small rave)... i never got busted so dats pretty good... i dont do drugs or anything like that so iduno why they'r so freaked out about it.. oh well... i'll tell them someday.... not soon ...

...xoxo...

[Cowboy]

at first my parents were totally cool with me going to parties...but thats before they realized that it wasn't jus a one month phase...after i started going quite often my dad was kinda gettin pissed cuz my grades and all right...actually really pissed but whatever....so now sometimes i don't tell them to all the parties im going too...like the last couple they don't know about...and they know i do drugs and stuff cuz my dad told liza that he knew i did "E"..hehe i thought that was kinda amusing and kinda freaky at the same time...he's always givin me these big drug talks and shows me all these articles in the paper and stuff...kind of annoying cuz he thinks im gonna read something bad in the paper and then all of a sudden jus decide to stop doing drugs...as if i don't know theyre bad for me...but he's never coem out and said it htough...jus always.."warning" me...whatever though...

if my parents aren't away i say im sleepin over at someones house and shit...sometimes they believe me sometimes they don't...but they don't stop me from going...well at least they haven't been able to..

corrie

[acidic_liquid]

Im pretty lucky.

I tell em I go to a party.
Or sleepover/birthday works. Even though they know I'm going to a party...it's weird why I have to argue even though they'll let me in the end.

[~lazee_grrl~]

hmm..the many lies i have made..
~one..would be the field trip one..and yes..i had consent forms and everything..it was bad..they even gave me spending money..i felt super guilty..ahven't used that excuse again and don't think i ever will again...
~two..sleepovers/bday parties...i jsut go and never leave a number or name or nething..my mom gets pissed and wonders why the hell i have so many bdays and sleepovers..i just say..i do have friends u know..=P~
~three..just sneaking out in middle of nite..just get out..steal one of the cars..and GO!!...then make it home before ne of them wake up!!..
~four..yeah..i've used skool functions sucj as 30 hour famine or sleepover nite..blah blah..it works..
~five..friend needs me rite now cuz she;s having major crisis..i'm gonna go spend nite at her place..lalala..i'm gone...
~six..mom.i'm goin out..coming home late...don't wait up...that one works too..=)

hehe..wut else have i ever said??..not sure..oh yeah..i used a church thingy as an excuse once...BAD>..but yeah..thats all i can think of for now..
i know my mom suspects sumthing but my dad is clueless...and if i'm ever caught..i'm dead!..yeah..:Lazee:

[cLinK]

i used to lie to them, just say i was spending the night at someone's house...

but then one day i decided to tell them. i borrowed my friend's video of cloud nine (last year) and showed it to them, so they knew what a rave was like

they were okay with it, and my dad even packed a cooler for me with orange juice and water and stuff "for the morning, to refresh you"

now what a cool dad!!! hehehe

now they don't care

it's like

"mom, dad. i'm going to a rave. see ya tomorrow"

"what time will you be home?"


"probably before 10am"

"okay. have fun!!"

it's sweet

[Porpentine]

i myself have never lied about going to parties...partly because i am unable to (i'm such a bad liar, they would certainly catch me) and also because it wasn't really necessary. the first time, it took a little convincing, but since then it's been getting easier and easier. my parents do suspect me of drug use though, which is interesting since i am almost always sober. the one time i did try e, my mom checked my pupils in the morning and caught me. and i haven't done anything since.

-lauren

[Sammy Skillz]

i used to lie about going to sleepovers and stuff at friends' houses. but then my parents caught me and they found out about stuff i did at partees. i stopped partying until may of this year. and since then, i've had to sneak out...secret ninja style of course. i wait till they're asleep, and then i run downstairs to the basement, change my clothes, and then sneak out the door in my dad's workshop downstairs. it's always worked. it's not scary sneaking out...it's scary sneaking back in in the morning. Back in april...i had to sneak out for twisted. However, that saturday night, my parents had a dinner party...guests were still there when it came time for me to sneak out (my getaway car was waiting down the street..haha no joke). so i was like "fuuuuuuck!" cuz my parents would probably realize i was not in the house. so i was like "ok i'm really tired...good night!" and everyone said goodnight and stuff...and my room is on the top floor...so i was walking down the hallway while everyone was watching...and instead of going UP the stairs...i ran DOWNSTAIRS to the basement. i was sure my parents were gonna be like "what the fuck are you doing sammy?" but they didn't say anything...so i was like "cool" so i went to my brother's room to get my backpack (i always stash my bag and shoes in his room cuz his room is on the 3rd floor of the house...so it's on the way to the basement). so i got all my shit...and ran to the basement...and closed the door....i was in the dark. i put on all my shit (ie. bigass phat pants, hoodie, hat...) and then right when i was putting on my shoes...the DOOR opened. it was my dad and his friends. and they turned on the light....i was sitting there...with my bag over my shoulders, my shoes on my feet had all my party shit on...and my dad was like "what are you doing?" and i was like "ummmmm...ummmmmm" and i didn't know what to say and hten i saw this stupid rowing excersice machine on the ground so i was like "....exercising!' and my dad was like "what?...in your shoes?" and i was like "yeah...the little foot holders on the rowing machine hurt my feet so i wear shoes so it doesn't hurt that much" and my dad was like "ohhhh...OK!" so him and his friends stood there while i did 20 minutes of rowing. it fucking LACKED. and then after 20 minutes he was like "ok we're going back upstairs...goodnight!" i was like "yuuuuup...night" he closed the door and i ran to the workshop door and ran out of the house.

sketchiness. they've never caught me though.

however, a few days ago, i asked my mom if i could go to partees now that i'm 18. and i explained to her that drugs are everywhere in the world. if i REALLY wanted drugs, i could go to school and get basically anything during lunch. and she was like "it's not safe!" and i explained to her that it was because of security...etc etc. so she was like "fine...i'll talk to your dad about it"

next thing i know, my mom and julie's mom wanna go to a party. i put IDEAS IN HER HEAD! my mom at a party?

ummmmmmmmm that's probably the LAST thing she should be at.

[bebe]

hahahhahahaha sammy that is fucking hilarious!! rowing machine for 20 min!??!?! hehehehehe.... its amazing what we do for parties lol.... hehe... i hope ur mom and julies mom dont decide to go, cause that'd be really embarassing 4 u..... hehe.... ur so funny!!!

anyways, i used to just say im going out, but not tell her where im going.... but then she started pissing on me 4 coming home too late....or if its allnite parties, i tell her that im working (i used to work at the graveyard shift at knight and day hehe)... but then the morning after kandy shack, we got lost coming back, so i got home late and she was already awake and she caught me going home in the morning, fucking all burnt out and shit!! so i just had enough of lying and shit, and decided to tell her, but then im not close with my mom at all, and its really awkard to just sit down to have a conversation with her cause she'll just start yelling and shit..... so i didnt know what to do... then i talked to keebler, and took his advice and wrote my mom a letter instead of talking to her.... like seriously man everytime i try to explain things, she wont let me talk and she just starts yelling!! so she read the letter, and shes like ok fine u can go, but then dont do drugs blabla, and u cant go to all nite parties all the time.... once in a while is ok....
so now she knows that i go, and i know shes not very happy abt it, but she also knows that she cant stop me! hehe.... :Kimmie:


~elmar

[Candy-Kid]

man I still lie to them and I still get into trouble sometimes. It's ok just as long as they [b]Never findout that I go out then I am ok. :Somatic:

uhh somet things to say are
B-Day party
Sleep over
going to playduim- the late thing if it's a mini
you know how it runs to like 2 am *wink* *wink*
uhh I am just going out
working.
studying
friend have party.
concert all night

[BB_YungYung]

.. if it comes up

talking to my mom

"I'll be alright
Some people ( My brother) knows will be there, if anything bad happens.. I'll tell them to contact them"

to my brother
"I'll go check it out.... NOoooooooooo I'm not supporting the other companies"


hummmmmmm........ I hope some of you guys know what i'm talking about.. *blah*

[wundergirl]

and i realized it early....i couldn't ever trick. damn. that is one smart lady. and she would call me on everything too. geez!

but my mom was also smart in other ways. she was smart enough to know that even if she told me i couldn't do something, i was at the age where that meant i would just do it behind her back. keeping this in mind, when i turned 18 she sat me down and said some things:

she said she did drugs when she was younger.
she like weed, still does
she told me about the first time she ever did acid - and why she never did it again
she told me that she thought that drugs weren't good for me at all, and that the new chemicals so accessibel like e and speed scared her.
and then she said the greates thing a mom could ever say!!!!
SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE UNDERSTOOD THAT DRUGS AND PARTIES ARE A NATURAL PART OF GROWING UP AND BEING A NORMAL TEENAGER. not that she approved, but she would rather know what i was taking "just incase" something ever did go wrong.

i love my mom to death. the coolest lady ever.:027:
I MISS U MOMMY!!!!! i be home soon

[Glendita*]

Well first i just told my mommy that i was going to sleep overs .... then i felt bad (stupid conscince) , so i told her , she told me to stop , i said ok .... hee hee but i never said when .... so i still tell her that i'm sleeping over but i'm pretty sure she knows i'm lying because i have my party pic (well selected ones , none that i look fuck up in) all over my room and i have flyers everywhere in the house ..... still not sure why she hasn't confronted me , oh well guess she waiting for me to tell her.

[Hypercute]

I live with my mom and she lets me go the only thing she says is "have fun and stay away from boys!" She’s j/j though.

My dad is a different story...he hates that I go and told me "all ravers should be shot!" He’s not j/j:Stab:
He knows he can't stop me from going and has learned to live with it...I love to tell him when I go to raves just to piss him off...I know it's mean but I can't help it!:Kam:

[Flux]

i'm so glad i don't have to lie about going to parties... i'm a really bad liar...

luckily, my mum never tells me i CAN"T do things. the first time i went, she was like "no! i don't want you going! raves are so dangerous" but my older brother used to go to them sometimes and i think she knew that i'd be fine. so... either she trusts that i won't do bad things while i'm there (heh heh heh) or she knows that if she told me i couldn't go that i would anyway and i'd just be mad at her

ha... I LOVE everyone's stories about what they tell mum+dad... so amusing!!! you people are so brave!

[justin]

My parents dont mind at all that i go to parties

[stabmyhead]

excuses i use:

-"im going to an all night movie thing"
-"one of my friends passed away, i gotta go um, mourn with friends" (HHAHAHAHA i'm not kidding, i seriously said that!
-"im going out" *slams door. run like hell* and then i call them later on and be like, "im sleeping over at a friends house"
-"im going to a party" ( i dont say WHAT kinda party exactly...)
-"im going to sleep over at a friends house"
-or i just sneak out, or take off.

i am pretty sure they know, i mean.. its been a year.. you think they woulda caught on by now.. they are content with me going out at weird hours of the night and such but i know my mom doesnt want me attending these "rave" functions.. cuz she saw a buncha etarded asian ppl on asian news at a "rave" complain about how they would pop and wake up with no clothes on and molesting someone they havent met before... rar..

.stabitout.

[starsprite]

My parents are ssoooo super strict!!! i dunno when i'll be able to tell them the truth...it sucks lying but its the only way i can go. my mom had a horrible childhood and was never allowed to do nething at all so she thinks shes going easy on me by letting me go out at all! I always say i'm going to friends houses 4 sleepovers/birthday things and stuff. and i dont just have to lie to them when i go to parties, i lie when i wanna go out on a skool nite or even when i'm going to spanish..i am a pretty convincing lier. i know one day they'll find out/catch me or i'll just have 2 tell them..maybe in a year when i'm 18. I mentioned the word rave one time and my mom freaked out and was like "oh my god, ur never going to one of those, i've seen and heard so much bad stuff about them! its all about drugs and ppl getting raped and stuff!!!" hahaha whatever. i just hope she doesn't look through this one drawer of mine, its got all my lil treasures/pictures from parties...:Kimmie: yaaa......