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Jun 09, 03
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hope all the best she finds a safe return.
i will pray for her. 
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Jun 09, 03
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I don't see how I'm being negative, by saying that I don't have much sympathy for a stranger in which I have never met before, probably never will meet, etc.
I can see as to why you would get so defensive seeing as you knew the girl, but seriously, give me one reason as to why I should care. I would see how I would care or be sympathetic if she was a dear friend of mine, but I don't have the time in the world to devote my heart out to each and every person on earth. She is the end product of everything that's happened to her and everything she's done. I'm sure she had an idea as to what she was getting into when she started hanging around that crowd and getting into all that bad business. Putting the blame on foster homes and abuse is just an easy cop out. The only thing I pray for is that she smartens up. And if she does come home, learn from her mistakes - no obstacle or experience is done in vain if you learn and correct your errors.
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Jun 09, 03
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Once again, its not asking for sympathy in any way so dont even state that in what you say, its the fact of people being soo disrespectful about it, sure she might of had an idea of what she was getting into, but when you start to lose friends, you'll make new ones no matter what it takes its part of being a teenager and wanting to fit in any way possible even if its doing that.
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Jun 09, 03
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COMPaSSION i guess its not in style ne more.
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Jun 09, 03
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^ You know Ash, it seems quite ironic coming from you seeing as how you seem to be all about the attitude. As for how I can have such an "attitude" about it, let's just call it personal opinion. CRAZY!!
I'm compassionate - to people that matter to me. Most people tend to be like that. It'd be easy for me to type, "Poor girl, awwww" but what difference would it make? Am I really caring any more or less? note: Teenage angst/rebellion is way out of control these days.
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Jun 09, 03
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no really ya think so......and why do you think that is
i could blame my drug problems on my parents and situations but really i did them cuz i was plain bored! theres nothing good to do ne more,for kids, there never really was that sukks . and no im not an attitudious person,. i have a verry strong personality, and i stik up for whut i believe is right. is thaty an attit6ude, ? yea' i guess but i dont think its a bad one
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Jun 09, 03
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^ It may shock you, but maybe I'm saying what I believe, and maybe, JUST maybe, I'm not having attitude problems? :) Then again, everyone always thinks they're right. HAH.
There's as many things to do, if not more, than the generations prior to ours, kids just don't want to do them. Which is really quite a pity because there are a lot more funner things to do than getting high/drunk or having copious amounts of sex. IMO at least. Maybe there should be some list handed out to every teenager, "HERE ARE SOME COOL THINGS TO DO THAT WON'T FUCK YOU UP!"
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Jun 09, 03
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i think this is just an example of how "kids" are now...
and it is a pity. and by that i mean, actually, just go talk to someone like your grandparents or even your parents...ask them...see what they say, i know that things are different from back in the day, some are better, but lots is worse... stabmyhead~i really do agree with what you're saying [reading between all the lines etc...] ash~compassion and understanding are two different things. i have compassion enough in me to say that i feel sorry for her [and tease is right~more for her parents (even if they are adoptive because obviously they cared about her as if she was their own)] but i don't in any way understand why she would continue on like she did, when obviously she had friends outside that circle that influenced her so much...in the wrong directions... it's hard because most of us pride ourselves on the fact that we can say "no" and we can be on our own, or are able to find people that we get along with without having to feel "desperate" enough to turn to ppl that we know are "bad" just so that we "fit in" somewhere...and some people just can't deal with life...they don't know how (and that's something that rooted deep in childhood, and even heriditary).... i sympathize with the parents and extended family... and then with the girl. and i hope that she finds out what she needs to do.
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Jun 10, 03
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Yah true...she has really gotta come to and help herself...get herself out of that shit...I really feel sorry for her parents...imagine how they must feel...
*wishin her luck* Paige
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Jun 15, 03
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its sad....just really really sad...i cant believe how disrespectful some people r to others they dont even know...obviously this girl has had a hard life and chose the wrong direction for her future....i just really hope the best for her..and her familyin
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Jun 15, 03
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I think it's time to drop the elitist "I'm better than everyone" attudite. In your words, I think you need to "check yourself".
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Jun 16, 03
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^^thanx natalie...someone had to say it
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Jun 16, 03
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exactly i feel sorry for everyone that cares about her, sitting around worrying about her, not knowing if shes dead or alive, or has some gross disease, or what shes doing, or where she is i know that if me or my brother did something like this it would literally tear my mother apart. i think its sad that she had to turn to a white powder for help.
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Jun 16, 03
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i feel awful about these kinds of things
hearing about young people fall into these kinds of lives. Just the other week while i was waiting at a bus stop in surrey on 104 i saw a young girl (obviously a prosititute) get picked up and she was around 12 or 13. It made me absolutely sick to my stomach. I don't understand how no one can care about something like this.. wether or not this person has decided to do this or made a mistake in their life that has led them to this, i hold great concern and sorrow wether or not i know them. that doesn't matter to me at all. they are still a human being as am i and no matter what they deserve help and compassion. If not there is no hope in this world
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Jun 16, 03
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okay so what you guys on the first page are saying that since she had such a horrible life her actions are justified?
so then if i wanted to go and do the same thing because of my horrible life my actions are justified? Im sorry sweet cheeks but i went through my share of hell yet i do not dwell on those horrible things and yet im not a prostitue and yet im not additced to drugs... It is up to our selves to learn from the bad things and grow past them, its up to us to overcome the pain and tell the wickedness that it cannot claim what little innosense and dignity and self respect we have left. If it doesnt kill you it only makes you stronger. Im sorry to say but your friend does seem like a coward to me.I can accept and appreciate the fact that she is a tortured soul... but shes only a tortured soul because she still lets herself be one.
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Jun 17, 03
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Yet you seemed to of missed the post about "everyone reacts to problems differently" Its just soo interesting how everyone looks at all the bad things people do but never the good things because she's "just another person" she might be just another person on the street, but everyone on the street has a story and everyone can honestly say they didn't want to end up there, so as for saying she's messed up you should really look at yourself and think "what have other people done to help her get there" she was screwed around at school, she didnt have as great of a family life as they're saying in all the papers, and she had abusive boyfriends who did whatever they wanted and didnt care what she wanted in any way. So before you start saying she's a "tortured soul" and all that, you have to look at what everyones done to help her get there, its not all her fault, she might have went down the path but alot of people have helped her get there. And as for "I went through hell does that mean my actions are justified" no they arent, but alot of people have helped her get to where she is now. So yes "sweet cheeks" if you would like to go down that path I'm sure if you go out alotta people will help you in this gay ass world where everyone looks out for their own ass and thats about it....People with no respect for these kinda things make me sick.
peace Dave
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Jun 17, 03
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by the way if you say "Im sorry to say but your friend does seem like a coward to me." look at the fact you have a roof over your head, most likely money, and not being abused, then tell me who's a coward because she's most likely facing a lot harder shit in life than you at this time
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Jun 17, 03
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hahahahahaha buddy your a fucking moron! A serious moron!!!!!There comes a point in time where you can only play the vicitim for so long, I played the vicitim for hmmm 12 years ofmy life and then i snapped... i had enough. SHE HAS THE POWER TO CHOOSE WHEN SHE STOPS BEING THE VICITIM U FUCKING IDIOT.
Sure i have a roof over my head ... nope i dont have any money I have maybe 2 dollars to my name:) and no im not being abused because u wanna know why? I boot fucked my father when i snapped and I promised him that if he EVER layed another finger on me i would fucking kill him... and he knows I would :) Your friend is a coward she still has a choice on wether or not she wants to do what shes doing, when i was fucked up and out on my ass at the ripe old age of 13 i decided 'hey this aint cool' and u wanna know what I did? I CHOSE TO BETTER MY SITUATION. I have no sympathy for someone who does not seem to want to help themselves. Thereare people out there that will help you change if you want it bad enough ... and she doesnt seem to want to. COWARD so ya ur a fuck head your friends a fuck head shes only going through what shes going through right now because she wants it and or is letting it happen. coward
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Jun 17, 03
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yet again you cease to amaze me with your posts and seem to not realize the whole point, how do you not know she's looking for help? how do you even know what she's going through? how do you know how she reacts to things that happen around here, sure you "dealt" with it even though I still say you're messed in the head a bit there bud so go to hell kthnx :finger:
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