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yea she started doing drugs in grade 7, and started prostituting when she was 14 and then she got sent to rehab for 11 months in utah, and she got back in december and in may she went missing and they dont know where she is cuz she had started doing drugs again...so sad!!
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http://www.canada.com/search/story.a...e-054c90b32fff
now all you f*ckers that are judging her can take a second look at what you're saying because I knew Gill before she started doing all this shit, it might have been her choice to go down this road but when you start to question all the things that have happened in your past you start to think "well whats there to lose" I mean if you're mom just ditched you off and you were thrown around in foster care, abused by your boyfriends, and all that other horse shit I'm sure you wouldnt really appreciate the value of life either, I went out with her before all this happened and she was a great, loving person and had a excellent life. She had a great life, sure she chose the wrong paths to take but you should never give up hope, I imagine if they let her stay like the centre said she would be better. But for anyone that wants to post another negative comment on this thread, here's a personal F*CK YOU from me because you havent been down the road that she went through. Dave P.S. No One Can Go Down The Same Road So dont bother saying you went through the same shit because everyone handles things differently Last edited by DaveyBoy; Jun 08, 03 at 11:29 PM. |
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poeple who are juding this girl without knowing her life and knowing her personally should lay off because the few of you that have such negative comments really should get a life, because if you have never met Gill than your comments arn't needed. i think that people should pray for the safe return of GILL, because she deserves it. so all you faggots with your negativity FUCK OFF IT'S NOT NEEDED
peace out MOFO'S |
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hmmmmm no how can you say shes obviously some harsh looser? granted i dont know, i cant pass judgment either way, and i dont pity her because pity is not what she needs. i think the situation is sad, by this i mean the whole situation if you have read the article from daveyboys post. i dont feel sorry for this girl, but i dont think shes a looser.
yes some people are stronger then others, at different points though. i have been through un-imaginable shit, well at least to me, in the past three months. at some points i was the strongest person in the room while everyone else cried. people who werent directly involved cried about what was goin on, but i didnt. at other points i was weak, and it was awful. and i still get that way sometimes. taking off can make me feel stronger not better. its how i dealt with my things, by gettin in my car and driving somewhere to sit and cry. that or i went to someone close to me. im sure others in my place would have done things differently, but i wouldnt call them loosers. my example is farfetched cause no i didnt turn to drugs, and no i didnt dissapear for months on end... however i cant stress enough that people are strong and weak at different points. if anything take this as an example. when you are at your weakest, there is always someone around who is at there strongest who can assist. in the end, yees it has to be you who deals with the problem and you who fixes it, but really, sometimes we all need help. |
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In a way I feel sorry for the girl, but in another way I have no sympathy. Anyone that chooses to do drugs like she has done probably have been through the same thing. I've heard it a million times over. I happen to have lost friends to drugs on numerous accounts. I have no more sympathy for them then I do for her.I guess what it all comes down to is that everyone makes their own choices. She chose to do the drugs. She chose to run away.
And to all you people defending her and telling us to shut the fuck up....she may be your friend but when it all comes down to it she is a junkie. The only difference between her and a person smoking crack on hastings is shes your friend. Do you have the same sympathy for all the other addicts out there? Probably not. True, this girl wanted help, but when she goes right back doing the same things with the same friends after treatment how much sympathy can you have for her? I guess I'm done rambling now.....I don't do it very often though. :kimmie: |
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everyone has their story... everyone has there friends... im sure the junkies in downtown have there friends that would fight for them....
i dont know her either... and ive lost people to drugs as well... which is why i hope she gets home and gets the chance to get on her toes at least. we dont always learn the first time around.. |
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Thanks to everyone thats actually looking at it the right way, sure she does not need sympathy but she does need support, if anyone actually DOES see her, notify the authorities or something, I couldnt imagine being downtown van especially on any drugs, and for the people who say she's a loser you really have to look at things a little differently because there is alot of people who choose to hang out with a different crowd and experiment with drugs, she was hanging out with older people and I know how the pressure gets to you it is hard to say no at times, my friends are all little chronics and I've experimented but not to the point of addiction, sometimes you have to just tell yourself its just not worth the risk you're putting your life at when you do them, to her there wasnt anything worth living for. People in foster care have a totally different life than people that are with their birth parents sometime, the people look at you like all you are is a paycheck that they recieve. Thanks for not taking what I said too harsh, but at the time I was reading what people were saying right after hearing the news about that, and its really hard when the person that goes missing calls you a couple days before and says she still loves you, then runs away a couple days after you say you dont care.... but once again, no sympathy needed but dont look at it that harsh because people deal with things totally different at times.
peace Dave |
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very VERY true I'm glad you have an open mind to things like this and arent all close minded |
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