Clubs or Raves?

[Antenna_Boy]

aaaaaahahahhahahaha^

[ebbomega]

Originally posted by Antenna_Boy
raves are raves, all parents know what generally happens at raves = drugs....but hell i go in to raves drunk as a mexican mule!!! hmmmm

could it be that alcohol is more healthier than drugs when taken in reasonable amounts? i think so :PartEkid:

Um.

You're an idiot.

[cinist]

if i made a mistake and had a kid, it would be going to boarding school .

if it wanted to go to a rave then so be it, what can ya do

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

jon you know if your kids went to a rave
youd fuckin drive them and teach them to trip people out
hahaha :kam:
you'll be like the rest of the old people there :kam:

[Belms]

Damn those drunken mexican mules. *shakes fist*

[crookedking]

is being as drunk as a mexican mule about as drunk as a skunk in a trunk?

[Antenna_Boy]

not really, the difference is one is mexican, skunks dont live in mexico, and the second, a skunk which locks itself in a trunk is a dead skunk in the morning peeeeuwww!!

[bebu*funfun]

i know from my mom's point of view is that she is a lot more comfortable with me going to raves than clubs.. due to all the media talk with random shootings at clubs. yes she is quite informed about the deaths at raves as well..but she knows they are all from drug overdose. she trusts me enough to stay away from drugs...so its a fair game. ive only been to a handful clubnites..and i dont feel welcomed in the scene due to my age, so it is definately something i can wait out on. and when i do have the previledge to go to a club..it becomes a special thing, instead of "just another rave".

[Antenna_Boy]

plus, at raves u can do a workout cardio, now thats a big plus cuz when u sweat no one really cares, but if u sweat at a club, u sure get the attention of the deo crowd :284:

[Atlantis77]

i dunno if my comment has been said already but i was too lazy to read all throug the rest of em and antenna boy here has been blazin the boards with his comments.
Its all relative, i mean it depends what ur tryin to keep ur daughter away from. raves in generall are classified as illegal events. (im the older peoples head) My parents didnt even think there would be security and such at a "rave" I mean raves have the drug problem, but the atmosphere is a lot more happy and to my findings, in the past few years i havnt encountered "much" violence, except for the few scraps at plaza or creepy people. I have to say the amount of horney guys have increased, but thats also due to the fact that scandalous dressed girls have also flocked the dancefloores along with the barstars and their dress shirts opened up.
Clubs have their downsides too, i mean drinkin driving, fights, creepyguys. To be honnest ive seen more girls leave the club with guys theyve met and people havin sex with totall starngers then i have at raves. U can easily get DRAGGED into a fight at a club via bouncers, someone else thinkin ur givn them the cock eye, or hittin on the wrong girl/guy. You can have drinks spilled on u and ur brand new shoes stumped on by some drunken retard.
So ur kid can go to rave, possibly pop E, and a very very minor chance of gettin into a fight. Or ur kid can go to a club and u have to worry about drinkin drivin, fights and possibly sex with a totall stranger. Im not promoting one over another, but in general, for all activities, get to know ur kids friends. Not all of em, but the ones he/she hangs out with the most and talks to on a regular basis, ask where they are goin. And if they talk about someone whos name seems unfamiliar to u ask who they are. I m no parent but this is how my parents raised me, and i think it has worked well so far. Ive stayed out of trouble except for the few times when a friends friend couldnt keep his mouth shut, but these situation are unavoidable regardless what u do.

So button line to this LOOOOOOOOONG, but possibly imformative reply. BE RESPONSIBLE. no matter what the fuck ur doin. Have AT LEAST 1 person u can count on when shit goes wrong. That person is usually ME within the circle of my friends. im a good boy :D

[Atlantis77]

fuck its late, HORRIBLE HOREIBLE spelling. I hope my paper, due tomorrow, is much better

:P

[RichWeee!]

I did things rather differently than a majority of ravers who hit up a Plaza Party long before they were legal. I was clubbing for a long-ass time before I ever went to my first rave, popped my first cap, etc, etc. I still enjoy raves on occasion, and especially the friends I've made/will make, but I still prefer clubs a helluva lot more. However, RAVE ON!

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

Originally posted by Atlantis77
fuck its late, HORRIBLE HOREIBLE spelling. I hope my paper, due tomorrow, is much better

:P

dont worry
if you do it on the comp spell check will save your ass

[Antenna_Boy]

dave^ we cant be picky here in the forum, i mean, look at all the shitty spelers outt hear

[tested01]

i dont really like clubs as much simply because im not a drinker really.i mean i drink, and when i do i get CRUNKED, but i dont like drinking much, clubs are more for drinking i think.

i love raves though but its only so many that i go too

[Antenna_Boy]

raves are more expensive, clubs are cheaper...for pickup, clubs is better, for party atmosphere, duh its obvious :trippin:

[Lush]

Originally posted by Atlantis77
i dunno if my comment has been said already but i was too lazy to read all throug the rest of em and antenna boy here has been blazin the boards with his comments.
Its all relative, i mean it depends what ur tryin to keep ur daughter away from. raves in generall are classified as illegal events. (im the older peoples head) My parents didnt even think there would be security and such at a "rave" I mean raves have the drug problem, but the atmosphere is a lot more happy and to my findings, in the past few years i havnt encountered "much" violence, except for the few scraps at plaza or creepy people. I have to say the amount of horney guys have increased, but thats also due to the fact that scandalous dressed girls have also flocked the dancefloores along with the barstars and their dress shirts opened up.
Clubs have their downsides too, i mean drinkin driving, fights, creepyguys. To be honnest ive seen more girls leave the club with guys theyve met and people havin sex with totall starngers then i have at raves. U can easily get DRAGGED into a fight at a club via bouncers, someone else thinkin ur givn them the cock eye, or hittin on the wrong girl/guy. You can have drinks spilled on u and ur brand new shoes stumped on by some drunken retard.
So ur kid can go to rave, possibly pop E, and a very very minor chance of gettin into a fight. Or ur kid can go to a club and u have to worry about drinkin drivin, fights and possibly sex with a totall stranger. Im not promoting one over another, but in general, for all activities, get to know ur kids friends. Not all of em, but the ones he/she hangs out with the most and talks to on a regular basis, ask where they are goin. And if they talk about someone whos name seems unfamiliar to u ask who they are. I m no parent but this is how my parents raised me, and i think it has worked well so far. Ive stayed out of trouble except for the few times when a friends friend couldnt keep his mouth shut, but these situation are unavoidable regardless what u do.

So button line to this LOOOOOOOOONG, but possibly imformative reply. BE RESPONSIBLE. no matter what the fuck ur doin. Have AT LEAST 1 person u can count on when shit goes wrong. That person is usually ME within the circle of my friends. im a good boy :D

You have a lot of really good points, but there are a few things here I don't agree with.
One being that raves are a more "happy" environment, I understand that you're saying they're probably less prone to violence but in the scheme of things but I don't think raves are happy places at all, they're just a place where everyone can eleviate their seratonin levels and pursuade themselves that they're happy. Raves are a disguise, especially plaza parties and that only shines through once everyone starts coming down.

I don't know what to really think because there is that trust factor and I mean if I trusted my kids then I would trust that they wouldn't go off and have sex with some random stranger, how can I trust that they wouldn't go do drugs over sex... doesn't that seem a little bit hypocritical?

Antenna_Boy:
I don't think that raves are more expensive, because you're paying 40-60 dollars for a ticket and that's really only the price of massives that don't occur that frequently. If you're going clubbing on a pretty regular basis then you're paying for cover and drinks which can easily get up to 30+ a night.

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

Originally posted by Antenna_Boy
dave^ we cant be picky here in the forum, i mean, look at all the shitty spelers outt hear

sorry jon
Im jsut the grammar king

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

Originally posted by Antenna_Boy
dave^ we cant be picky here in the forum, i mean, look at all the shitty spelers outt hear

sorry jon
Im just the grammar king

[Antenna_Boy]

Originally posted by LadyShades


You have a lot of really good points, but there are a few things here I don't agree with.
One being that raves are a more "happy" environment, I understand that you're saying they're probably less prone to violence but in the scheme of things but I don't think raves are happy places at all, they're just a place where everyone can eleviate their seratonin levels and pursuade themselves that they're happy. Raves are a disguise, especially plaza parties and that only shines through once everyone starts coming down.

I don't know what to really think because there is that trust factor and I mean if I trusted my kids then I would trust that they wouldn't go off and have sex with some random stranger, how can I trust that they wouldn't go do drugs over sex... doesn't that seem a little bit hypocritical?

Antenna_Boy:
I don't think that raves are more expensive, because you're paying 40-60 dollars for a ticket and that's really only the price of massives that don't occur that frequently. If you're going clubbing on a pretty regular basis then you're paying for cover and drinks which can easily get up to 30+ a night.

I'm not a huge clubber, but i look at it in a practical point of view...a ticket is still 40-60 bucks...what can u buy with that money instead of going to a party?! Clubs, most of my friends pay for me, and I rarely pay cover for any club i go too :smoke1:

[Antenna_Boy]

Dave, its all good boi :smoke1:

[Lush]

you confuse me, so are you saying that it's more reasonable to go to a club or a rave?

Do your friends pay for your drinks too or do you just remain sober throughout the course of the night?

[Antenna_Boy]

i meant to say my friends cover some of the drinks and yes i do drink. i guess, it would make sense to say, if u have the money go to either or, i dont care. Each environment is socially different. I like both. But raves are more fun. If it is a party WORTH going to, it makes sense to spend the money to go to it. Same thing for clubbing. Why go to a club where atmosphere sucks and u drink urself stupid lol

[ebbomega]

Originally posted by LadyShades


You have a lot of really good points, but there are a few things here I don't agree with.
One being that raves are a more "happy" environment, I understand that you're saying they're probably less prone to violence but in the scheme of things but I don't think raves are happy places at all, they're just a place where everyone can eleviate their seratonin levels and pursuade themselves that they're happy. Raves are a disguise, especially plaza parties and that only shines through once everyone starts coming down.

1) You're describing E, not raves. The two are not one and the same, I'm afraid.
2) Plaza Parties are not raves. They never have been.

I don't know what to really think because there is that trust factor and I mean if I trusted my kids then I would trust that they wouldn't go off and have sex with some random stranger, how can I trust that they wouldn't go do drugs over sex... doesn't that seem a little bit hypocritical?

It only seems hypocritical if you yourself have ever had promiscuous sex or done drugs.

Antenna_Boy:
I don't think that raves are more expensive, because you're paying 40-60 dollars for a ticket and that's really only the price of massives that don't occur that frequently. If you're going clubbing on a pretty regular basis then you're paying for cover and drinks which can easily get up to 30+ a night.

I've been to plenty of free raves. I've been to plenty of free clubnights. I've been VIP to both. Both can rack up a copious amount of money regardless of how much cover is. If you get liquored up at a rave, that costs money too. If you buy the $5 waters at a rave, that tends to move towards "expensive". Not to mention the $1 five-cent-candies.

[vangroover]

I like clubs cause theres no fucked up 14 year olds