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Mar 08, 04
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people who just didn't make the cut in High school
you know those people that tried really hard in high school to make friends but failed.... I mean really failed
you know guy who would go to the dances and try to break dance, look like they were having a seizure then attempt a head spin and almost knock themselves out. ha ha those people rocked lots of effort but no dice 
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Mar 08, 04
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I've met so many of those people, after the fact... who still seem a little upset by the fact they never got in the "popular" crowd. Which is usually the one most people are trying to get into, at least at one point.
I was in that crowd, I guess I just kind of floated with what became the popular croud from elementary school. I always was different than them, and had a very hard time because of it. I keep telling those people who tried, that they were lucky they never made it "in", but no one ever listens to me! Unless you are/were, or became a conniving, back stabbing, promiscuous, shallow, air headed, fuck ass... then they often treat you like shit, like they do most people. At least that's how it was at my school. I was laughed at whenever I tried to speak about anything other than boys or getting drunk or what I was going to wear tommorow, treated like shit if I stood up for the people they made fun of, and my own "friends" called me a dirt for years because I listened to punk and dressed like a '"skater". Luckily I finally escaped before I lost it completely, but it upsets me when people in their early 20's still long to have been in the "popular" crowd in highschool. then again, FF is right. the whole place is horrible. The way I see it, the further up on the social chain you go in higschool, the further down the "quality human" ladder you go. (generally that is, there are shitty people in every walk of life and vice versa)
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Mar 08, 04
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Im in highschool and im in the popular crowd and i try my best to make it so im not mean to those ppl that arent
i know what its like to not have friends or anything cuz i didnt when i was in junior high and stuff so being nice to the ppl outside of our circle i get in shit for all the time who cares being in the in crowd is going to bite them in the ass some day for being mean to all those ppl me....i hope that because im nice to everyone it wont hit me as hard
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Mar 08, 04
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^ good job. i always got shit for that too. Or made fun of because I talked to them during school. Not that I cared what they said to me, it just hurt that I would be friends with such horrible people.
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Mar 08, 04
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^agreed.
handsworth was the worst! so make plastic and fake hair! it was overwhelming.
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Mar 08, 04
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highschool was such a weird experience for me
the popular kids wanted me to be a part of their 'group' - they were always inviting me to parties, dinner, school events, etc., but I was always too busy raving it up that I never really noticed! I guess it was probably 'cause I was new in grade 11 and no one really knew me so I was like this mystery girl or something...weird!
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Mar 08, 04
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thats how ravers are formed. they find a place theyre finally excepted.
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Mar 08, 04
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i didn't make the cut, i was a loser in junior high
then raving cracked me out, and i stopped caring round grade 10 which worked out to my advantage cause most the people were/are losers and i knew i was cooler then em i got along with the cool popular girls tho, but that was cause i did coke and made fun of the not so popular-popular-kids...those girls didn't like me tho, they were really gross and i knew it but i loved highschool! i didn't enjoy it at the time, but i learned alot bout people...i loved being on the sidelines watching hah creep :284:
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Mar 08, 04
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my highschool was a very cliquy place.
i was kinda neutral i guess...friends with everyone, and i wasn't hated or picked on or anything like that. i just didn't really care about trying hard. its funny to see the same girls at cap who went to my highschool still act the exact same way. it's kinda sad actually.
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Mar 08, 04
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i loved highschool.. i was a dork in elementry school, but in highschool i was accepted into the "popular crowd" right away. thankfully the popular crowd at my school wasn't all fake, ditzy pretty and snobby crap.. they were the most driven ppl and the ppl who had the most dedication to the school. i played sports and always carried a position in the council throughout highschool and that was where i was really accepted and felt comfortable. vball/bball gals always stick together. loved my crowd..i was happy.
but at a point i did stop hangin out with them over weekends etc.. cuz i was out raving every weekend. doh! i guess thats how i lost touch with them...kinda
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Mar 08, 04
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haha.
pretty much everyone in my higschool thinks i'm the biggest fucking retard i think i understand why, i'm different from pretty mucha ll of them. not only am i white but i am a wihte GIRL who dresses wayyyy different than "normal". but then again, i do purposefully aggravate most of them. like staring at them and then making rude comments to the friends i have about their HORRIBLE FASHION SENSE.. like, wtf. you should see some of the shit these people wear, it's ATROCIOUS  fu highschool i'm glad i'm almost done with you!
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Mar 08, 04
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yeah i kind of miss high school. I loved it! According to some people my school was cliquey but I honestly didn't really find it to be that bad. It was a lot of fun...things were so much easier back then and so much more simple.
However, whenever I'm back home in Vancouver and i see someone from highschool, I find it really hard to relate to them now. It seems like everyone is still very much the same...and I've changed a lot. Everyone still hangs out together..at the same places...etc. And i've kind of outgrown that whole thing. But high school was an awesome time for me. -s.
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Mar 08, 04
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haha, I was a loser in elementary and a loser in highschool.
now I run a Rave website.. I AM GOD!! this thread tries as hard to be cool as that headspin kid, too bad it's as sad as considering yourself popular. reading back over, some people need to let some of that hot air out before their egos float em' away!
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Mar 08, 04
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In my school I don't really see the "cliques" there are definately different groups of ppl but a lot of them get along with eachother pretty well, they just don't have a lot in common so they don't hang out too much outside of school. There's still that one group of ppl who think they are popular but everyone outside of their group thinks they are annoying and hate them. oh well i hate my school and can't wait to escape highschool
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Mar 08, 04
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I had fun in highschool before my friends started caring what other people thought. then it began sucking. And I'm sure getting badly depressed and Ill didn't help my highschool experience either!
And I wasn't an outcast, I "outcast" myself THEN became a raver!
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Mar 08, 04
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