Aug 24, 04
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i never say anything, because your right..whatever i say, why would they listen to me, they don't know me. i just wionder why these 12 year old girls parents let them run around in bras and panties.
as for calling girls sluts etc.. nah, i just think thats disrespectful. treat others how u wanna be treated. 
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Aug 24, 04
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Very well put Lauren (Kandy Apple! Yes, sometimes (or alot, it differs alot with age and "type" of people you surround yourself with) there are catty girls who insult eachother for petty reasons such as making themselves feel better about their appearance and such, or simply out of the feeling of "competition" (Ever seen Mean Girls? It -really- is a jungle out there!)
That is not ALWAYS the reason though. Depending on the girl saying it, it could have nothing to do with jealousy or personal insecurities. Smart, mature woman who have respect for themselves, (specifically as a woman) know that they don't need or want the degrading attention acheived by dressing like a prostitute to feel wanted or sexy. It's only natural to feel angry and discouraged when they witness women being belittled because of negative and bias beleifs related to their gender and body. Women have fought, and are still fighting, to be treated with equality, respect and dignity, so when I see girls that are intentionally dressing, behaving and allowing themselves to be treated in such a degenerative way its going to piss me off or upset me. I could direct that anger solely at the asshole that is treating her like nothing but a peice of ass, but if the girl is attracting and permitting his behaviour then she is just as much to blame. HOWEVER, this does not make it ok to be rude and belligerent, negative opinions are not the same as cruel insults.
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Aug 24, 04
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What Miska and Kandyapple said. I don't really give a crap what a 25 year old is wearing (I'll say something if i think its tacky) its more when I see young girls like 16 and under. It bothers me a lot when I see them looking like they work the streets for money. I will never understand why they do it. As I've said 100 times before I know this comes from having a 2 younger cousins (14 & 15) that are like my little sisters. I don't know why I care but I do.
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