Aug 24, 04
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When you comment on what other girls are wearing I automatically think its because of your insecurities. Am I right? if not please give me a reason why you comment. And to the girls who feel it is their right to inform these girls about what they're wearing or what they look like wearing it, do you actually think whatever you're saying to them is going to make them put some more clothes on?
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Aug 24, 04
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Im sure alot of bad comments directed at hot girls in hot clothes is insecurity issues. I ALWAYS comment on what people are wearing..whether its to that person or too someone next to me. I dont make bad comments..I just really like clothes and if I like it.. I'll comment on it.. if I dont.. I keep that to myself. Not to say that I've never made a bad comment. =x
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Aug 24, 04
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personally, it's not because of insecurities [but i can't speak for other girls here]
i tend to comment on what people are wearing, regardless if it's a guy or girl. commenting isn't always negative either. if i see someone wearing something i don't like, i've never felt the need to inform them. occasionally i'll tell someone i really like their shirt or whatever, but that's about it.
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Aug 24, 04
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everyones entiltled to there own opinion and i mean if u look like a slut or watever and dress like its 90 degree weather and ur on a beach but in reality ur at apex then yeah.. i will comment about that...
heres a question for all u... Why do girls feel they have to dress like hootchis??? is it becuz there insucure cuz they have no personality and guys will only like them for the way they look?
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Aug 24, 04
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I comment when I see young girls wearing next to nothing because it makes me sad. It's amazing how much things can change in only a few years.
I see these girls wearing clothes that have no style and do nothing but flaunt their body and it makes me wonder if they realize the kind of attention they are attracting, and the image they are giving off. But chances are, if you ask them this, they will respond with a standard "you're just jealous" or "you don't know me" comment.
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Aug 24, 04
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i was thinking of people more my age or older. but young girls.. it's just sad sometimes. seriously makes me wonder why their parents are even letting them out of the house like that [that and buying them those clothes in the first place!!]
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Aug 24, 04
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In general, sometimes I will comment on what someone is wearing, mostly because I am constantly window shopping. If I see someone wearing an outfit that I like, I might say something to whomever I'm with, and same goes for something I don't like.
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Aug 24, 04
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It's just sad I think. I don't really expect what I say to make them go. OMG I am wearing clothing that is inpractical!!! I BETTER CHANGE!!!! I guess from so many talks with my mom about feminism, it looks like a step back. It just feels like they are doing it to get attention instead of using their minds and personality. Sure you can try and attract someone. But why do it wearing your underpants??? Where is the mystery and class? Perhaps it's a lost cause saying anything. Most of my comments are joking anyway though. I have no urge to look like anyone other then me. So it has nothing to do with insecurity. It just seems a little degrading sometimes. I know when I dressed in, what I felt was too little at twisted. I felt like shit when guys came up to me and told me to bend over for them. Why would anyone want to attract that type of attention? And it is being incouraged by so many people and the media. Maybe some people are just sick of it. And they get mad and take it out on the people they feel sorry for that are going along with the meat market trend. Last edited by Kandyapple; Aug 24, 04 at 08:50 AM.
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Aug 24, 04
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the only time i say a girl looks horrible in what shes wearing is if she is too YOUNG to be wearing it or isnt dressed for the occasion(once i went to a funeral and girls showed up wearing tight ass clothes showing their stomachs) or if they are too BIG for the clothing. like seriously girls that arent very petite dont try sqeezing into the smallest sized pants that result in ur flab hanging out the sides.
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Aug 24, 04
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I seldom comment on how other girls dress because when it comes down to it it's the way they choose to present themselves.
That being said, I wonder how many of the scantily clad girls at parties or in the fnk gallery dress the way they do out of confidence or just being content with themselves. I know that for most girls, dressing provacatively is a sign of insecurity (argue with me all you want my opinion remains) because at a time in my life when I was most insecure I dressed similarly. When you wear less clothing, you get more attention from other people, whether that attention be positive or negative it doesn't really matter because your ultimate goal is attention. Attention puts you in the light and momentarily fulfills that emptyness that is caused by insecurity. When you come to terms with yourself and how you look you start dressing differently and you realize that you really don't want that attention because it isn't necessarily positive and it isn't really the attention you want to be getting. I think that the girls that do reply either do it out of shock or just concern, there may be the odd person who comments out of jealousy but for the most part I think the intentions are good. No it probably won't make them put some clothes on, because becoming confident is a personal journey and it takes awhile. It's something that every individual needs to find and experience on their own, but a lot of the time if the comments are made in the right approach I think they could enlighten the individual and maybe speed up that process a little bit.
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Aug 24, 04
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well guys dont look slutty if they wear less clothing. I hear the same shit about guys and cars though thats for sure. "look at that pussy driving a honda"
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Aug 24, 04
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well said!
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Aug 24, 04
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I'm not going to quote ladyshades here but i have the same view.
the girls that dress in less then appropriate attire are insecure with themselves. that being said, if there is someone that is amazing to look at and is amazingly dressed and you hear a negative comment, then consider the commentor insecure. 'there are just those people that should not wear what they do' ...keep in mind that the commentor has their own opinion on what is 'fashionable' and what is not. they themselves may not even appear all that fashionable, but feel the need to comment. it's because everyone has their 'own' fashion , which coincidentally is similar to alot of other people, and therefore hypocritical. realistically though matt, when one girl is talking to her friends and saying that 'that chick is wearing *insert whatever comment you want here*.like omg'; the chick she's talking about is saying the same thing back. in general society everyone is pushing to be 'different' from everyone else...and at the same time they have to justify what they are wearing/doing. most do this by negatively commenting on another persons stylistic choice thereby making their choice the 'right' choice. and we're actually so far behind here that no one really knows what they're doing unless they've searched abroad. i suppose i just proved your point. yes. generally it is insecurity that causes one girl to comment on another. [i am so far into this opinion yet i will fully admit that i myself comment everyday and everyday look at what i'm commenting on. if you can catch yourself it is self-growth...if not...it's just vain and self-absorbed.]
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Aug 24, 04
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sure i comment on what girls wear. if i dont like what i see then ill say something. so when i see skanky clothing on younger girls i laugh. but if your running around with a bra and booty shorts on, im gonna say that looks disgusting, cause i honestly dont like to see that from girls.
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